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Jay, 49

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About Me

Hello. I am a 49 year old man who dosn't play head games. Free spirited when it counts. I love to laugh and joke around and and looking for the same. I enjoy dinner, comedy clubs, sports, working out and great conversation. A sense of humor is important. Don't settle and enjoy life! I am self sufficient and can cook a meal that won't make you go to the emergency room! I live alone so taking care of myself is a normal way of life. Looking for a friend but reality why are we hear, to find someone special. I cant predict what the future holds about a serious relationship, but open minded. Good family values are so important I don't BS and say things that aren't from my heart. Good luck to all! Dinner and a drink and good conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dunky

    Online

    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I'm a smart, funny and professionally driven guy---humored. I appreciate many of these same qualities in a woman and consider myself to be a gentleman who knows how to treat a Lady. Respect and integrity are very important to me, as are loyalty and honesty. Love to work and love to play--affection ranks high in my world too.Looking to make friends, date and hopefully even more . . . let's chat and take it from there--no hurries, no worries. So much to discover together . . . Casual and appropriately open-ended, of course . . . chatting endlessly and effortlessly--and forgetting the time because we're both so captivated and intrigued by one another.

  • Malik

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    I’ve met a lot of women on this site but didn’t find what I am looking for. I even quit looking because I was so frustrated. I became involved with my best friend, but it turns out we’re better friends; no sexual chemistry and without the chemistry, it was impossible to move forward. Anyway… I’m back trying to find the one. More about me… I’m not perfect, but I try real hard to be a good man. I'm an IT consultant with 17 years of consulting experience along with 16 years IT experience working for the DOD. I am currently between contracts looking to secure another contract opportunity, which subsequently has slowed down my attempts at dating. I have a 17-year old daughter who I love with all my heart but I rarely see. She works and lives with her boyfriend so I’m the last person on her list. She will be going to college in the fall and then it’s just me. I know a lot of people but have few “true” friends, which is somewhat less than I prefer in the grand scheme of an enriched life. Being single has been difficult at times and I find the only place to meet woman, who aren’t “frightened” by men, is in bars. I don’t know why but women seem to get freaked out if you approach them anywhere else (book stores, coffee shops, grocery stores, women’s restrooms….just kidding). Although I enjoy live music and go out on weekends to see bands at local bars, I’d rather spend my time outdoors, camping, barbequing, and picnicking with a quality woman. I am a songwriter / musician too but don’t play in a band anymore; I just write and record at home. I also write poetry and editorials when inspiration grabs me. I’m looking to enrich my life and without that special one or being with my daughter, it’s nearly impossible. I’m truly a social person but living a fairly solitary life unless I go out on the weekends but that gets old when you are alone the majority of the time.I don’t like beating around the bush so be direct with me if you want to know something. I’m direct and I find that being honest is truly the only way to communicate. If you are looking for someone who is honest, faithful, integrity-minded, intelligent, funny, talented, goofy, playful (not always) and who is serious about finding that one person to share a life with, drop me a line. I hope to hear from you.A couple of closing statements to manage your time as well as mine: if you’re not smiling in your photos, don’t waste your time contacting me. I’ve learned from personal experience that most women who don’t smile in their photos are generally unhappy and I’m looking for the lighter side of a personality. Also, my daughter is about to start college and I'm not looking to get involved with anyone with children still living at home. I'm looking forward to the freedom being an “empty-nester” offers and hope to find someone with this shared belief. Hmmmm....first date. That could go in a lot of different directions. How about an elegant dinner, sitting next to a fire, drinking some wine, listening to soft music, over candlelight. Visual enticements with me enjoying looking at you, you enjoying looking at me smiling...maybe even seeing a twinkle in your eye. Lot's of genuine laughter throughout the evening...complete with intellectual and stimulating, yet not so serious conversation wrapped in a warm comfortable familiar feeling. Maybe a midnight stroll or carriage ride if the weather permits. To close the night, a warm, sensual, sweet tasting electrified kiss which we are both excited about. Yep, that sounds preetty wonderful to me. If you're uncomfortable with the above, we could go to a regular resteraunt, and maybe to a movie, or a wine-tasting, or a show in the loop, or listen to a blues band in Soulard. There are a lot of wineries in the area, we could check one of them out... How about a cafe in St. Charles?

  • Ira

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    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

    Love to fish and outdoors, am kind and generous by nature, will travel long ways for good food. Enjoy creative work immensely. Definitely like pets. Confirmed fly fisherman although recently corrupted by bass fishing, with a good sense of humor that enjoys life. Own my own internet business which affords me the pleasure and an outlet for my creative nature. Tend to be online allot business requisite, but have the good fortune of doing what I enjoy.Like and enjoy all types of music with the weather and the scent in the air influencing what I would be interested in listening be it classical or Latin, jazz or rock or country for that matter. Think of myself as cosmopolitan, romantic, passionate with refined taste in food. Mentally and physically I feel like 47 however my chronological age is older.I like a woman to be intelligent, young at heart, funny, mischievous and stylish with a zest for life and a slender athletic body.If the spark is there would love to share a meal at a favorite restaurant.

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