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Terrence, 49
United States, Louisiana, Iowa

Offline, last seen Sat, 27 Jun 2026 21:54:15

About Me

The longer I am on here the more convinced I am that this isn't where I should be looking. Most of the people on here seem to be very uptight and not looking at the world with open eyes, shutting themselves off from new experiences. "I want", "I need", "If you are not..."; I see these on a lot of profiles and in my opinion these people are limiting their chances at meeting the right person for them. You never know the love of your life could be nothing like you expect.I think chemistry and physical attraction are extremely important. These descriptions are very general and to actually find out compatibility you need to meet each other. Texting/e-mails don't allow you to get subtext when communication like tone of voice and facial expressions so it's not easy to tell if someone is interested or just playing with you. So I prefer we can get past this portion of meeting over as quickly as possible and at the very least get to talking on the phone. I also appreciate when women just drop hints, I prefer a more forward woman that doesn't like playing games or having games played with her.I am a laid back and generally happy person, I've been told I have a good sense of humor, also very close to my friends. Like everyone else there are times when I get annoyed or pissed off, hey I'm only human. I believe that you should treat people how you would want them to treat you. I'm loyal to a fault until you prove to me that I shouldn't be.I am also interested in other cultures, open minded and I love to travel to new places. My first tattoo is still a work in progress all that needs to be done is coloring and shading of it. I am also very fond of women younger than I am with tattoos and piercings. In my opinion I am also not "normal", so if normal is what you are looking for you will not find it here.For a living I am a computer scientist, but I am also the co-owner of a joust team as well as learning how to be a jouster. I also have a big dog, so if you don't like/are scared of/are allergic to dogs, I'm sorry you aren't the right one for me. I made a commitment when I got him and that's not going to change. My someone will accept my flaws just as I accept theirs, after all no one is completely perfect. I would like to find someone that has the same love I do for the geekier things in life, though if we were right for each other that wouldn't matter.Anything else you would like to know just ask. Something short and easy to see if there is an interest. Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching Movies Crime Western Archery
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