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Kody, 47
United States, Louisiana, Iowa

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About Me

Still undiscovered, Christian man, believing you are out there searching for me.I have so much to offer the right person in a committed and loving relationship. Even though holding back and waiting on God's timing has been difficult, I still believe in 'True Love' and strong bonds. When things click and I open my heart, my sensitive inner character will shine brightly.Trying to describe all the treasures that await the winner of my heart would be a disservice to the anticipation of discovery (a little patience here is key). But, in the spirit of full disclosure, I should say that I have the most amazing blue eyes which most photographs do not properly capture (I was told to write that). I like to have meaningful and intelligent conversations while being playful and humorous (goofy observations like, “Humor is funny, Good Humor is tasty”). It is fairly common for me to be affectionately called a “dork” (I don't necessarily like it). I am very personable and attentive in comfortable surroundings. I'm real. Inventive and unique are some of the surprises you'd find in me. The only people that ever thought I was “boring”, were those that never took the time to really understand my zany style. So, if you 'get me', you've got me.I am a strong believer in equal partnership. Gender roles and 'game playing' are not a part of how I see respectful adults acting towards each other. “Expectation is your biggest loss and anticipation is your greatest gain.”- words to live by. Although 'demure' sounds old fashioned, that quality in a woman appeals to me, along with a balance of some 'forwardness'. Sweetness is the beauty of the soul and I am drawn to that.I tend to be very accepting of others in a general sense, yet to be a match, there needs to be some commonalities. Getting to know another person well, in my opinion, requires an open and inquisitive mind, the ability to suspend rash judgment, and, among other things, the desire to compensate positive and negative traits (we all have them). I am willing to take the 'bad' with the 'good' as long as there is more goods. Ha! And so should we all.The remaining chapters of my life are yet unwritten. I have high hopes, big plans and great eagerness to fill them with amazing memories, exciting adventures and tender, comforting moments. These visions are designed for two. So if you'd just appear, we can create the future. We will meet face to face.If we see eye to eye,We'll walk hand in handTill your heart reaches mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Fantasy Martial Arts
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