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Cush, 48
United States, Louisiana, Iowa

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John...and I'm....a confident, well-adjusted, great guy looking for a woman to share fun times and life's journey...Good quote that I believe in:Being MALE is a matter of birth,Being a MAN is a matter of age,Being a GENTLEMAN is a matter of choice.Hi, I'm a divorced father of a wonderful girl, thirteen years old, who lives with me. I'm open to dating a woman that already has children, her own or adopted and lives within the northern VA or nearby MD/DC area. You should be comfortable in your own skin as I am in mine and be looking for a relationship with a guy who A) is at ease with himself and how he treats others and B) want to do things that are fun to do together, whether at home or the other side of the world . You should be plus or minus my age by ten years as it's important that we both like and enjoy the same things and at the same stage in life. I like being outside more than in my own home. I'm usually taking day trips on the weekends and I'm out with friends or on a date at night if not staying in and making it a quiet night.I like eating healthy, don't smoke, not a beer drinker unless you put one in my hand, and enjoy a good wine with a great dinner. Different ethnic restaurants are great and going to see a show or an event is always fun -- I have a career with the government and currently with the Department of Justice. Originally from the DC area. I'm not political and I accept people as they are and enjoy other cultures as I've experienced a lot over the years.Traveling is one of my loves -- as I've been the following places over the years ---of-Spain), Thailand (Bangkok), Haiti(Port-au- And there are still a lot of places I want to go. Financially doing well and live within my means.The most private thing I’m willing to admit about that is that I don't owe anything except my mortgage.Finally, I do have the meetville app on my phone, so it looks like I'm on a lot but I'm not. Just the phone is on and I didn't exit the app. Depending on how we hit it off, I might suggest anything from meeting up at a coffee shop (so typical though!) ,a nice dinner out at an ethnic restaurant, or dessert out somewhere. The main thing is that we both know it's just to see if there's any chemistry between us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Canadian French Action Adult
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