SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Maximilian
Online
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
OK… I am back on here again after being off for a year, and writing about my self is no easier than it was the last time.I am 1+ years separated and 2+ years divorced after a long marriage and have very little contact with the ex though we have a cordial business like arrangement when we do speak. I am financially responsible, have my own vehicles and help out my kids when they need it even though my daughter is recently married and on her own and my son is away at college. I’m renting a house now but plan on buying one next year if I can ever figure out where I want to live. I have many friends, though not all close, both male and female and very much enjoy my time out of the house. I am OCD which works out well with my tech job for an engineering/architecture firm where I’ve worked for ***years. I have definite ideas on politics, religion and parenting, but that’s best saved for future conversations.My profile says, “a few extra pounds” because “big and tall” is the kiss of dating death. It is certainly more than a few, and if that is a turn off I certainly can understand as I have my standards too. I’ll just keep working on it and if you’re still unattached you can check back in a month or two and see what you think. It’s certainly not all about looks, but I’m realistic enough to know there needs to be a physical connection. I’m all about self improvement these days so I’m at the gym almost every day and fill most of my free time organizing, planning or fixing things. I’m a big nerd/geek/techie although I’d like to think I am at least socially aware enough to not be embarrassing in public. I enjoy movies (not horror), some television (TBBT, Walking Dead, Face Off), playing pub sports at the local bars, and listening to live bands. I listen to a lot of different kinds of music, usually depending on what I am doing. I don’t have much occasion to listen to opera or slow jazz and I’m not a gangster so hard rap music is out.So… now the fun part… what am I looking for?A woman who is smart (my curse), funny and is confident of who she is and what she wants. There needs to be a physical attraction, but I’m not interested in super model looks with a superficial attitude. I am not interested in being a sugar daddy, in using you for sex, maid services, baby sitting, soothing my ego or paying my bills. I don’t need a woman, but I want to find that certain someone to share my life with. I am looking for a relationship, but they all have to have a beginning, you can’t control where they go, and I’m in no hurry to race to the end. I like to spend hours just talking and lots of time practicing the long lost art of kissing well before anything else. Things I like: redheads, freckles, tattoos (although I have none) and average/athletic builds (insert hypocritical comment here). Things I do not like: women who are liars, don’t get off the couch, can’t make it through the day without drinking or taking a pill, or think anyone is more important than their children. Also, I have many young women that are friends but I’m not looking for anyone under 40. I think meeting in a place that's comfortable for us both (women need to be careful) to have a few drinks (alcohol or not) and see where it goes from there.
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Aaden
Online
Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
Hi,About me:I believe that like everyone else I am also an all-powerful immortal being with infinite potential and that my worth is measured by how much I can directly help to make a better world. I think real freedom comes with being truthful all the time and 100% - while at the same time being polite, respectful and understanding. I am upbeat with a positive attitude. I believe that I have an innate responsibility to access my options in life and to choose the most ethical options which therefore do the overall greater good - when taking into consideration the overall combination of myself, my family, my group, mankind, animals and the planet. I believe I am in control over my attitude, life and my future. I don't drink alcohol simply because I don't. I have no problem if someone else has a drink or two on occasion. I do drink coffee and love it. I believe the past is the past and that to operate in the moment is the way to be. I believe that communication is key and opens the door to solving anything. .I believe that my viewpoint is mine and that someone else has their right to view things differently from their point of view., and having fun. I can pretty much do anything. I like dictionary.com as I like to look up words that I don't understand when I come across them so that I'm in the know and so that I can relate with understanding. I have my own business and I make my own schedule. I have 20 employees and as long as their doing their jobs I stay out of their way and let them get on with it. I let them make their own decisions so long as they are ethical. I was happily married in the past for a long time while being faithful and truthful. I hear all the time that I don't look my physical age and I'm one of those guys that when you see me in person and hang out with me in person you get an understanding for who I really am and what I'm like. I'm a free spirit with a strong foundation. I can be spontaneous and am willing to make plans with no notice. I'm drug free. I don't even take aspirin or anything like that. I'm more of a doer than a watcher so TV doesn't happen to be a huge thing for me. I love music. About you.If I'm conversing with you that means I read and like what you wrote. I believe that some people are better writers than others and what really counts is chemistry and that in-person communication will reveal at the beginning and over time how well the natural chemistry is. Excellent chemistry is a requirement for me before taking things further in a potential relationship. To me that means we have fun together, laugh sincerely at whatever,, have a great time just hanging out, mutually respect and admire each other and have a lot of affinity for each other. I don't rush things.. I care about whom I go out with and want the best for that person, too. I want an honest relationship with a good-hearted lady who happily speaks her mind and has respect and affinity for herself and others. I like someone who understands the value of integrity and of helping others. I do exercise and keep in shape so I'm attracted to one who looks healthy, pleasant and prideful. Disneyland or whatever. I'm chill.
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Livy
Online
Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53
Thanks so much for stopping by. Let me just say I'm active, in good physical condition, enjoy having fun, being outdoors, hiking, running, participating in many of the 5 and 10K weekend races, riding off road motorcycles when time permits, playing 4.0-4.5 tennis, being competitive, laughing with others and at myself, author of a new upcoming book " Forty and Fat" and finally I have a very outgoing, "A" type personality. All the leaves are changing and falling, beautiful colors everywhere, while driving through the mountains. A kind lady who enjoys life, someone active, that takes care of herself physically, someone friendly and outgoing, and like me, never meets a stranger. It would be wonderful to find a giver *** a taker, one who listens and uses restraint in her everyday life, a lady that knows what love is and is willing to work at it, and one that has spiritual values in her life. Say hello, I would enjoy hearing from you. Something FUN and unexpected! I think a great no pressure meeting would be to jump on my fast and fun Yahama Wave Runner and hit the lake, until we sunburn adequately, and if you can ski or wake board, even better, I will even bring a picnic lunch to eat on one of the islands! Could you have any more fun than that?