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United States, Louisiana, Glenmora

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"UNDER CONSTRUCTON"Not sure how I feel about this on line thing.. Chatting back in forth is a great Ice Breaker, a way to meet some one you would not normally have had the opportunity to have met in your day to day life.... There is no way to express feelings, emotions and other qualities of human interactions with the strokes of a key board... Some live in a fantasy world here in cyber space.. They describe a life of long walks on the beach, star lit skies, fine dining and trips all over the world.. If and when you have the chance to meet they are not the person they claim to be.... I understand we all have wishes and dream... Please be real and upfront from the start... Relationships are never ***they must be ***%, you only get out what you put into it.... With this said, if you find that you’re interested in a real person living in the real world... Please feel free to contact me and get to know the person I am... Thanks for checking out my profile.......... ( Take a moment and read story below )“In this world, it is too common for people to search for someone to lose themselves in. But I am already lost. I will look for someone we can find one another in.” Wish these were my words... I seen this o ***,,ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"... The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mindreplied the author.Here's the answer.Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, *** being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, youmay begin to desire that experience with someoneelse. This is when relationships breakdown.The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.Because (listen carefully to this):The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to knowWHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ? Coffee or something very down to earth....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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