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ClementsOnline
Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55
My goals and aspirations for signing on here are easy. I simply wish to fill what I believe is the only real void in my life. That is to share this wonderful life with someone who is equally as crazy about me as I am her. That perfect chemistry is illusive but it exists! It will simply "feel right" when it happens. It will feel like home!OK, enough of that, and more about me! Lol. I like to think of myself as simple yet complicated. I probably would never totally overwhelm anyone with my vast knowlege of worldly things but I do have a wisdom beyond my years. OK, in all fairness, I am guilty of a few stunts that might contradict that claim! Lol. Who hasn't? I am a person who practices what I preach. Honesty is a virtuous quality in all facets of life, expecially relationships. Without that, failure is inevitable. A lack of trust and honesty brings certain misery and pain. I for one don't want that! I believe in having a verbal pact or understanding that both parties in a relationship should agree to and practice. Open and frequent communication is the key. Enough of the seriousness! That is all very important but so is just having fun and enjoying life. Once the framework is established and understood then all the fun and pleasures in life can surface. I'm not above being a little silly and sarcastic at times. That is part of my insatiable charm! Lol. The first date to me is simply an opportunity to get to know someone better. Nothing compares to the "real feel" you get for someone than meeting them in person. In that regard, it is a big event! Being that it is a FIRST date, it shouldn't be too thought out or planned. Any place that is quiet and suitable for human interaction is fine. I jokingly say that if all the stars are aligned just right and there is magic in the air, then meeting at the local landfill is fine by me!The first date should be a casual meeting where neither party should feel uncomfortable or pressured in any manner. It is non committal! If there happens to be a spark, great! If not then both can respectfully go their own way. It is hard at times. When emotions are involved, it's never easy. It probably is wise to not to have high expectations at first. I'd much rather be pleasantly surprised than unpleasantly disappointed.
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DevereuxOnline
Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 44-54
"UNDER CONSTRUCTON"Not sure how I feel about this on line thing.. Chatting back in forth is a great Ice Breaker, a way to meet some one you would not normally have had the opportunity to have met in your day to day life.... There is no way to express feelings, emotions and other qualities of human interactions with the strokes of a key board... Some live in a fantasy world here in cyber space.. They describe a life of long walks on the beach, star lit skies, fine dining and trips all over the world.. If and when you have the chance to meet they are not the person they claim to be.... I understand we all have wishes and dream... Please be real and upfront from the start... Relationships are never ***they must be ***%, you only get out what you put into it.... With this said, if you find that you’re interested in a real person living in the real world... Please feel free to contact me and get to know the person I am... Thanks for checking out my profile.......... ( Take a moment and read story below )“In this world, it is too common for people to search for someone to lose themselves in. But I am already lost. I will look for someone we can find one another in.” Wish these were my words... I seen this o ***,,ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"... The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mindreplied the author.Here's the answer.Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, *** being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, youmay begin to desire that experience with someoneelse. This is when relationships breakdown.The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.Because (listen carefully to this):The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to knowWHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ? Coffee or something very down to earth....
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AbellOnline
Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55
Just graduated with bachelor's degree from Xavier and I am ready to settle down. Never been married but would consider it. Not a weirdo or anything but finally finding myself and looking for a mate. Sounds weird as I type it but...yeah, looking for a mate. Looking for a nice person like myself that is interested in people. Interested in going through life as a contributor and not just take, take..etc. I am generally a happy person and am not interested in someone that focuses on the past or on negative things. Laughing is one of my favorite past times. If you want the same then ...lets laugh. Together.If you are showing pictures with your pet snake, or have tattoos up to your neck then no need to contact me.Looking for a classy woman that loves to laugh.....and travel to tropical destinations.And, why do so many people take pictures while sitting in the front seat of their car while puckering up their lips? I don't get it. Maybe I am doing it wrong. First dates are over rated. Meet for a drink and see where it goes.