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I'm a Complex yet basic individual, intuitive and perceptive yet forgetful, intriguing yet frustrating, limitless yet a slave to habit, an ambassador and an offender, and finally, truly blessed despite myself! how is that for an opener? ;)I"m also drama/drug/meds free man who is comfortable in his my own skin and therefore am looking for someone who is the same and will compliment my traits and be an equal in a eventual long term relationship. I"m a bit unique for a man because I can multi-task....... can and do enjoy communicating, can easily talk about the deeper issues in life, can occasionally enjoy discussing politics/religion/books/etc etc. I am also very affectionate ( love hugs, holding hands, tasteful public display of affection. Can you kiss well? I sure hope so! ;) There really needs to be that strong chemistry attraction.I Kiss better than I Cook.........and I cook pretty darn good ;-) I might be interested in you if: you are witty, intelligent, PASSIONATE, playful, interesting, loving, kind, responsible, attractive, fun, and/low maintenance, and pursue a life of health ( whether its eating that way or/and exercising and even a mindset). We all have needs and issues in some way or another, but I'd prefer you not be high maintenance in the financial/emotional/mental areas, just normal ! :) Do you like to dance? Can you make ME laugh ( women are always saying they want a man who can make them laugh....I probably can btw)? Do you enjoy stimulating conversation ? You enjoy snow skiing/dancing/motorcycle riding? ( not a must but definitely a plus). I am looking for someone who is a Christian because I am and would prefer we be on the 'same page' so-to-speak.More about me: I"m very patriotic and love this country ( even with all its problems), I"m easy going, don't get upset easily, not a yeller, and am forgiving. On exercising, I do yoga, lift weights, play guitar (bass and 6 string), hit the heavy bag, racquetball occasionally, tennis less so, golf about the same. I own my own business, am stable, not a liar or a cheat ( I'm reading so many of you are meeting guys like that), am witty, intelligent, playful, loyal, and quite passionate! ( also a major Steelers fan) I'd love to get to know you and see if there is a possible connection. Meeting somewhere to talk whether its a coffee shop, sports bar, book store cafe, or bar, the point is to meet and see if there is a connection worth pursuing. First real date....I"m open to what to do there but doing something like seeing a movie isn't the best thing....the point is to learn about the other person and that involves a good bit of talking /discovery which is fun!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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