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Elliott, 45

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About Me

I am 45 and recently single - married for 20 years, together for ***no commitment phobia here! It was a great 'run' and I have no regrets, but am ready to start the next chapter now. I'm pretty well-educated and smart, but not in a 'book smart' kind of way. I'm just a hard worker with a drive to succeed and do well. My interests are varied from reading and cooking to skiing and hiking. I love music (all genres) and recently come to appreciate some country too. I love a good TV drama -- but can't pass up the occasional episode of Seinfeld. I'm in very good physical condition, but just about to start with a personal trainer to be in excellent condition. My personal appearance is very important to me, so I live a healthy lifestyle, eat right, no drugs, and don't drink, but I don't mind if you do (drink, not the drugs - been there, done that!). I come from a very large and close family and we remain a part of each other's lives without hovering. Most people say that I am very good looking (although I say you'd never know that from any picture ever taken of me), have a great sense of humor, and a deep, caring, and sensitive side. I've lived a charmed life up to this point and even with this little turn in the road, have nothing but hope and optimism for continued happiness and success, especially with the woman in my life. With me you will always be respected and revered in many ways. I'll be attentive and sensitive when you need me to be, but to be fair, I am about as honest as one can get. So, if you don't really want the truth...I'm not the guy to ask the question. My answer to, "Do I look fat in these jeans?" got me in trouble more that a few times!!There's a lot more to me than can be answered here and I hope you're interested enough to ask. The first date depends on the people and their interests. Me, I would meet over breakfast, lunch, or dinner, or even just have a cup of coffee. Ideally though the weather would be good enough to take a stroll on the beach and listen to the waves as we get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    I like to go movies. I like to ride my Harley up in the mountains and also on road trips. I drink socially I don't need to get drunk to have fun. I like to try new things. And I love to travel.

  • Willie

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Wow, this looks easy, until you stare at a blank page for an hour! How do I do this without seeming****, arrogant and full of myself? I mean, I know I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread, but it usually takes my date about 10 minutes of personal interaction to figure it out. I guess the purpose here is to get noticed, while maintaining honesty and integrity, or is the purpose simply to get noticed???Everybody writes the same crap! They are all funny, caring, optimistic, generous, a gentleman, blah blah blah!!! So I won't bore you with the same old. The fact is that all men are here to meet women and all women are here to meet men. You get to a certain age and the club scene starts to get old, especially here in Vegas, so you're sitting around the house watching TV, and a commercial for an online dating site with attractive couples holding hands comes on, and here we are:I won't give you a grocery list of character descriptions, like loyal, honest, caring, loving, blah blah... if I had to describe myself, which I seem to have to, maybe I'm the opposite? I'm sarcastic, opinionated, selfish, and not politically correct! I speak my mind, in an effort to keep all in earshot entertained. I don't sugarcoat, because really, "it is what it is". Most people try to make a good first impression, but they come off as being fake and conformist. You don't get to know the real person for a long time, the "real you" starts to shine through around the third date or later, if you ever get that far? I don't believe in wasting all that time, so what you see is what you get!!!!The first thing we look at is the pics, and we wonder, am I attracted to this person? Could I be seen out with them? Would I have sex with them? If any of the above are a maybe, you might read their bio. Well I'm no different, if I'm not attracted to you, I won't be reaching out. It's shallow, but it's honest! Having said that, if your bio puts me to sleep, or if it sounds like the same old BS, I won't be messaging you either, (unless you're incredibly HOT!!!) lolLets face it, none of us are here for one night stands???..... guys don't stick around for a third date if they think they are going to be "just friends". We are all here to meet new people, and try them out to see if we click with them. We really can't tell all that much from words jotted down on a page, but I guess the upside here is we do get a bit of information allowing us to spot the definite NO's. What else can I say about myself???I have to be experienced to be appreciated, and it's likely to be a memorable experience, no matter what!Once I get to know someone, and I open up, (it may take a while) I can be a very good and loyal friend. If I can find someone that I believe is my soulmate, which is my ultimate goal, (and I do believe she is out there) I will never let her go! Dinner, movie, drinks. Good conversation, get to know each other and see where it can lead?

  • Vester

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I work in the radio music industry mainly but I’m also involved with a few other local businesses as well. I can appreciate someone that is athletic because I enjoy running, biking, weight training and skiing. Education is a major plus. I’’ I don’t enjoy the typical social scene mainstream has to offer such as clubs and pool parties. I do however enjoy discovering new restaurants, outdoor sights, and music venues. I do an average amount of reading and research for both personal and work related projects and enjoy other people’s perspectives on pop culture, news, and politics. I like technology, tech problem solving, and engineering related types of topics. Football is fun to watch, but I like snow sports just a bit more. I should add that I’m not a judgmental person, can’t process drama, and have great patience and support for those I like to be around. I work normal hours, I’m able to provide and care for myself without any issues. No addictions or mental hang ups here, so for women that are looking for a broken person to fix, it may not be ideal. Coffee for a meet up is a great idea. I usually think that its a low stress situation to meet and get an introduction. Dinner like pizza, or a fun sushi place with boats is always a crowd pleaser as well, or just an old fashion idea such as a phone call.

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