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About Me

So about me...Dreamer/Thrill Seeker/Entrepreneur/Rebel/Sell Out Artist/Lovely DegenerateNot lame enough to be preppy... Not dumb enough to be jock... Not depressed enough to be goth... Not isolated enough to be nerd... Not fake enough to be trendy. Though I do borrow a little for all of them. Artistic Ambition, High Expectation, Creative thinking, Prize Chasing, Life Challenging, Spontaneous Action, and New Experiences are some of the best elements to a great life and relationship. "If It's Real, You Feel It!""Variety is the Spice of Life." That pretty much explains my musical taste. I have my favorites such as Metal, Industrial, and Southern Rock but I like many styles. The only forms of music I don't like are those intended to sell jeans, phones, make up, or some other product to teenagers.About the "Variety" quote... it's good to have similarities but it's also good to have differences. I want to show her who I am but I also want see who she is. In this profile, you might notice a picture of a book. I am one of the 50 authors telling my story about Overcoming Obstacles.All the art work in mine too. Good read for today's challenging times. Walk on the beach, visit art gallery, cruise through Downtown, wine tasting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Monty

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    I am an east bay native, grew up in Rockridge and have lived in the area my whole life. I've been to Europe a few times and like to travel to other places too.I am looking for a relationship with a woman around my age, someone that perhaps is also a parent like me. I want to find someone that understands both love and respect and how to treat others decently. I am a trustworthy and straightforward person, but my humor can be sarcastic too. I am very liberal politically and hope to find someone that shares my values.I am a mechanical engineer, work with HVAC and solar. I have designed building systems for everything from hospitals, schools, high end residential, breweries, high tech, laboratories, etc. I got my degree at Cal Poly and I love my job and career. I did "Mr. Mom" for a number of years when my girls were young and I had my own consulting business during that time. However today I have a great job with a local firm here in the east bay. On several occasions, I've visited my girls' school to teach at their classes about science and solar energy. This is one of the most rewarding things I've gotten to do; seeing the young students engaged is awesome. I volunteer a lot with my engineering society; I was formerly the president of our local chapter. My philanthropy with this group includes both leadership and advocacy roles. I am driven to make a difference.I am very passionate about these aspects of my life, but I do play hard too :-) When I am not doing the engineering thing, I enjoy indy/garage rock music, craft beer, traveling, and most importantly, parenting and being with my two girls. I love R.E.M.;little broken hearts". I've been fortunate to have met several musicians from some of these bands, they are so cool. I don't know how to play any *** I aspire to learn how to play guitar someday.I love to cook too.Finally, I must explain that if I contact you with an introduction, it's because I would like to learn more about you and perhaps meet. It means I am interested. But my message won't be very long. I can do the "old fashion" thing here to a degree. I can be charming but only if I know you are receptive. We either need to meet or chat before I can pour it on. So please reply if you are interested. I need to have that feedback before I can be charming. I am pretty open, A good first date could be meeting on a weekend morning for coffee, lunch, or a drink after work. During that first date I would look forward to learning more about what makes you tick and determine if we have interests and values in common. I am a good judge of character and can usually quckly know if I am on the same wavelength with another person.

  • Marvyn

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Hi! My name is Marvyn. I am divorced spiritual but not religious caucasian man without kids from Simpsonville, Kentucky, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Marquis

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Soulful, funny, educated guy. I appreciate spontaneity, a warm and caring personality, great listening, inappropriate jokes, deep sharing, and a love of learning.I have had a rich and off-the-beaten-track life thus far that has included living abroad (twice), moving cross- What I haven't been ready for previously was to build a long-term relationship with a fantastic woman.But now is the time!I am interested in meeting a woman who is warm, playful, has their life at least somewhat together (not perfection, just please have a job or be in school or not be expecting me to be your sugar daddy, haha ), and who can appreciate personal growth (I did study to be a therapist, even if I am no longer doing this.)I adore my family...but they mostly live on the East Coast (I visit at least once per year). I might seriously consider moving back in a year or two...unless I meet someone who gives me a good enough reason to stay!No kids for me (yet)...but I would like you to be at least open to this possibility, as I currently want to go in this direction in the next 5 years or so.Lately I have enjoyed getting back into biking, catching up on great TV shows on Netflix and am always down to sit in a cafe and read or people watch.Am not interested in *** several texts back and forth let's talk on the phone, then meet up for a quick date. Take a walk; sip a tea; meet up briefly in a public locale. If it clicks, than keep on hanging out or meet up again for a fun adventure!

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