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Gaston, 42

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About Me

Yes I'm over 40 but I don't feel 40. I live an active lifestyle and I am trying not to look it.. Lol the question is not can I keep up.. But can you keep up with me. :)I love being active. I like to play sports(hockey/bowling and softball). I love going out socially such as movies and dinner and drinks. I must admit I am hooked to a couple of tv shows... i will tell you later what they are. I am currently a customer service agent and a caterer. I love what I do...I am easy to get along with. I like to laugh and make my friends laugh. I am looking to meet new people and hey you never know.. :)I have a good idea of what I am looking for. So if u message me and im not interested please don't be offended if I don't reply backI like most music, except maybe opera. I channel surf when i'm driving. I do that car singing, but only there cause i can not sing well.i always find it a tad bit funny when girls say they want a good guy, yet they seem to mainy choose the ones they think they can change. Then they cry when they are treated like dirt. I like a women who has a good grip on life. She could be 28 or 40 it doesn't matter just as long as she knows what she wants. Some guys are intemidated by independent women, i'm not. I know what chivilary is but i wont just let you win because you a female. I'm feel honesty is always the best policy. Im not afraid to speak my mind but i do listen. Lastly, once I am with someone, I'm with them.. I dont cheat and expect the same. I've been cheated on and that feeling sucks. So if you haved made it this far....give me a shout.. I probably want to talk to you..:) First dates always tough to decide what to do. Generally the safe first date is the classic dinner and movie. I prefer something more active and something that allows for more conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Monty

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    I am an east bay native, grew up in Rockridge and have lived in the area my whole life. I've been to Europe a few times and like to travel to other places too.I am looking for a relationship with a woman around my age, someone that perhaps is also a parent like me. I want to find someone that understands both love and respect and how to treat others decently. I am a trustworthy and straightforward person, but my humor can be sarcastic too. I am very liberal politically and hope to find someone that shares my values.I am a mechanical engineer, work with HVAC and solar. I have designed building systems for everything from hospitals, schools, high end residential, breweries, high tech, laboratories, etc. I got my degree at Cal Poly and I love my job and career. I did "Mr. Mom" for a number of years when my girls were young and I had my own consulting business during that time. However today I have a great job with a local firm here in the east bay. On several occasions, I've visited my girls' school to teach at their classes about science and solar energy. This is one of the most rewarding things I've gotten to do; seeing the young students engaged is awesome. I volunteer a lot with my engineering society; I was formerly the president of our local chapter. My philanthropy with this group includes both leadership and advocacy roles. I am driven to make a difference.I am very passionate about these aspects of my life, but I do play hard too :-) When I am not doing the engineering thing, I enjoy indy/garage rock music, craft beer, traveling, and most importantly, parenting and being with my two girls. I love R.E.M.;little broken hearts". I've been fortunate to have met several musicians from some of these bands, they are so cool. I don't know how to play any *** I aspire to learn how to play guitar someday.I love to cook too.Finally, I must explain that if I contact you with an introduction, it's because I would like to learn more about you and perhaps meet. It means I am interested. But my message won't be very long. I can do the "old fashion" thing here to a degree. I can be charming but only if I know you are receptive. We either need to meet or chat before I can pour it on. So please reply if you are interested. I need to have that feedback before I can be charming. I am pretty open, A good first date could be meeting on a weekend morning for coffee, lunch, or a drink after work. During that first date I would look forward to learning more about what makes you tick and determine if we have interests and values in common. I am a good judge of character and can usually quckly know if I am on the same wavelength with another person.

  • Granville

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    I am interested in the possibility of a long term relationship. However, I don't believe that every single woman that I meet is "the one". I would like to meet someone and spend time with them to see if there is chemistry and a spark between us. I sometimes get the impression that some women feel that no man is good enough for them while others act like any guy will do. I would like to think that there is still the possibility of meeting someone and things just feel right between the two of us, someone with whom I have a natural chemistry and connection. I don't believe that true love and lasting relationships are something that can be forced, at least not for me. So, if you are interested in meeting someone who is interested in a relationship but who isn't desperate and feels that he has to be in one, let me know. I think this is something that we could decide together, but I would like for it to be simple and casual. If we are truly compatible, I'm sure that whatever we decide to do will be fun.

  • Jayce

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    I am the type who loves to have fun and be happy in life. I want to find someone who has that same joy. My life has been a great journey and has been really hard at times too, but I have a lot to share with the right girl. I am who you are looking for if you like to experience new things and go out to new places you've never been. I do not do bars or clubs that is not my thing. I kinda like to be old school and totally believe in chivalry when it comes to dating.Oh yeah! I love to travel... I just got back from a mission trip to Honduras... I am looking forward to my next big adventure... I like to go someplace we can walk and talk. I like anything from the mall to the zoo. Walking helps take the edge off of meeting for the first time.

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