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Desmond, 42

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About Me

First, thank you for reading my profile. I am a very outgoing guy so I enjoy engaging and intellectual conversation... and conversations about silly observations. I am very into sports. I like to work out, enjoy playing basketball and softball, I run and workout 4 times a week. I am a huge music lover, anything from old 60s soul to punk. if its good, I like it...if you had to pin me down, im more of a 90s alt kind of guy. I LOVE live music; prefer smaller venues. I am not a bar guy, but do like to go out. I am also just as comfy chilling at home.I am back in school and working my career... I enjoy Thai food, mexican and cajun food...basically anything spicy. I enjoy trying new restaurants here in the area.. especially downtown (I do have a few favorites). I love a great steak. I'm of Italian decent, not originally from KC but have lived here 15 years. I have children (21, 12 and 10). I see the younger two very regularly... if you have kids, that is perfect. Im looking for a woman who is as comfy in heels as she is in jeans. Im a sucker for a great laugh and a beautiful smile. I love a fun woman, I like to mix it up at times but also can be a homebody. I really enjoy affection, public and private displays once I get to know somebody... I want somebody who isn't a gym rat but takes care of herself. Race is not important.. or hair color or other superficial crap. I prefer down to earth, good and stimulating conversation about anything... I am looking for somebody down to earth but fun, NICE and silly...a nice mix of girly and natural. Love cute toes and feetsies.ALSO... FOR SOME REASON THIS SITE DOESNT LET ME MESSAGE A SELECT FEW... IF YOU WANT TO TALK THEN SEND A MESSAGE. First date... Interaction...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    After a few months on this site, ive figured out what I want and don't want in a woman. I'll make it easy for you women. Men want different qualities in a girlfriend as they would need in a wife. And with men being naturally bad communicators, at times it is quite tough for a woman to differentiate between a 'want' and a 'need'. What men want in a girlfriend, is usually a pretty woman who looks hot, dresses cool, and is a whole lot of fun. We desire someone we can be comfortable with and comfortable around. We want someone who's adventurous, has a good sense of humor, someone whose idea of fun can be something as wild as bungee jumping. What men need in a marriage (or a committed relationship) is someone who will love them in spite of the crazy beings we are. What a man needs in a wife is a woman who cleverly understands the words that her husband doesn't say, rather than those which he does. What a man wants in a relationship, is to feel like the knight in shining armor; the typical masculine macho male who is strong, mighty, and protective of his partner. However, what a man needs in a relationship, is a partner who is not meek and is not afraid to stand up and take over the reins when her man is low on morale or confidence. What a man needs in a life partner is a woman who, in times of need, can boost his confidence, his self-esteem and can make him feel good about himself. What a man needs is for his woman to love him from the bottom of her heart, and stand by him through thick and thin. What a man needs, is a beautiful woman who loves him unconditionally, passionately, wholeheartedly, who is the apple of his eye, and who, apart from being just a girlfriend or a wife, is more importantly also his best buddy. So thats what i'm looking for, however it has come to my attention that a lot of women may be just as shallow as most men and judge a book by it's cover. No, im not 6' tall, a physical trait that I cannot change nor had a choice of. Both my parents are under 5'3 and my grandparents were both just around 5' so me being 5'8 is actually quite tall in my italian family. Women on here say they want a good man yet they do not take the time to even have a conversation or two with me to form a somewhat intelligent opinion of me. I may not have GQ looks, the perfect body or perfect teeth but I know im far from a troll. For that reason, my pictures may be hidden so that you can get to know me, and my personality. IF you have read this far and are interested in conversing, please send me an *** those who have read this far and are not interested, I thank you for your time and wish you the best in your searchOk a couple of things that are annoying on here. First, if you arent looking for a relationship and dont have time to date then why are you on a dating website? I cant believe how many women " don't have time". Second, whats with all the pictures of women drinking and holding up bottles of alcohol? I can understand one or two pics from a function or out with friends but some of you have alcohol in every single pic. At this age alcohol should not be new nor should it be an everyday activity. Really? What are you 14?! And lastly, take some pictures without sunglasses! Grab a bite to eat and maybe a coffee or someplace where we could meet and talk to get to know one another.

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