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Aylmer, 43

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About Me

I can't help you.Ok, hands up everyone who thought they would never be on a website like this?....Mmmm, that's alot of fingers in the air.My 9 year old niece can't understand why I don't have a girlfriend when she has 3 boyfriends in her class at school!!My Grandad once told me.. I'm not sure what this says about me but it's always good to kick off with a joke.I asked a friend how she would best describe me and she said I was "nice". This reply didn't exactly inspire me with confidence, but after a little bit of coaxing and investing in 3 large glasses of Merlot, she said I was a "fantastic catch". Hey, you can't beat a bit of alcoholic arm twisting! Don't worry, once you see through my self-deprecating sense of humour, you will discover I'm actually quite dull.I'm always up for a good night out on the sofa, or cuddling up to a good club with a DVD.If I had to describe myself in a sentence, I would say I'm someone who's down to earth, well educated, honest, assured, but not over confident, considerate and good looking (according to my drunk friend!) Who am I looking for? Well, I guess I'd like to meet someone who has "lived a bit". I know that is a bit of a vague cliche, but I find I connect better with people who have successfully negoiated life's peaks and troughs and have come out smiling the other side. I'm looking to date with a view to a long term relationship. You're out there somewhere and I will find you. :-)I'd say I was low maintenance. I've celebrated more than 40 birthdays now so I quite relaxed about life. Nothing much gets to me. I'm independent and quite happy doing my own thing. Perhaps a bar or pub to suss each other out. Somewhere not too noisy. A radical suggestion I know.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    I am a good spirited person with a passion for the outdoors, music and sports. Chemistry with someone is most important. My old-school parents brought me up right and I am very close with my family. I would love to meet someone with good values, someone who "gets it". Kharma and the GOLDEN RULE is so important. In my life, I keep it simple, I stop to smell the roses everyday and I have a strong emotional awareness. I know all the county and state parks and state land and I know many beautiful secret spots which I want to share with you. I am in tuned with people and nature. I enjoy learning new cover songs on my acoustic guitar and I have 15 years worth of cover songs. I love to woodwork and I have built all of the wood furniture in my apartment. I grow tomatoes and flowers in my front yard garden every year. I go out to hear live music. I am passionate about the environment and teaching kids what I know. At my age, I have learned one thing... good health, good family and friends and growth is important. I do lots of cool things and I would love to share those cool things. I am not looking for a drinking buddy, it is intoxicating enough just to BE with my babe! Laughter is the best medicine!It would be great to meet a quality woman that sees the world as I do, and treats others the way they want to be treated. Someone who WANTS to hike/paddle/camp/relax with me, or go on a romantic weekend/day trip. Someone who is a good listener, someone who is affectionate like me, and someone who isn't into drama or gossip. To 'keep it real', together! Coffee or a drink at a cozy establishment.

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    ’t look my age. I am a social drinker, non-smoker and drug free. Employed, own my own home, live alone. I have many interests: gardening, wine tours, movies, cooking, dancing, music, water activities, pool, darts, cycling, astronomy, sci-fi, hiking, taking day trips/weekend get-always/vacations, wine tastings. I love learning something new every year and have a To-Do list that I need to get working on. Although I may seem like someone always on the go, I do value those quiet moments at home or staying local, discovering a new restaurant or attraction. I am looking for someone that is also seeking a serious relationship. I value intelligence, a sense of humor, self-confidence and a little wise-ass at times mixed with a good dose of romance, passion, open-mindedness and a willingness to try new things. I would like to meet someone who likes the outdoors, beaches, staying fit and who shares some common interests as myself. Not looking for someone that completes me or competes with me but rather we both compliment each other. I would love to do this in the company of a like-minded woman. A pet lover would be a big plus!Side Note: Can any woman out there explain to me the need to have a male co-worker come over just to be their "nap buddy" and "spooning partner" and expect nothing else to happen??? LOL Well meeting for the first time is more like a Meet & Greet, not a date. Everyone does the standard drinks or coffee, which is fine but lets shake up that standard. How about coffee and browsing books in B&N? Or *** drinks why not a wine tasting or drinks in a non-franchise establishment?As for an official first date, something simple like dinner in a quiet setting where we can talk and hear each other.

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