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United States, Kansas, Wamego

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... seeks to meet a lovely young woman who is independent, professional, outgoing, attractive, outdoorsy, athletic and is willing to be wooed by a slightly balding Jewish marathoner who has impeccable taste in music, wine, and a damn good coffee-maker. We share the same goals with respect to finding a significant other, and share the same goals in life from both a personal and professional viewpoint.Goals? I recently restarted my consultancy after going in-house with a very large multinational company for most of ***. Things are going great, and balancing work with fun times with the right woman is of high desire.What makes me unique? I am rather worldly for an "American" guy and can order a mate and empanadas as easily as I could whip up an omelette, seek out bulgogi at a Korean BBQ and romance you by playing some Italian pop music.Music tastes?-minute time span. I like everything but hardcore 90s rap and am not a fan of a lot country music but dig Rascal Flatts and Darius Rucker. The longer my description, the more likely you'll get bored or the more likely you'll get this false sense of what the 'perfect' first date should be. I've learned that there is no perfect first date, because it should be a "first" of many dates. Oftentimes we think of the first date as the setting where everything needs to be perfect -- the right restaurant, the right conversation topics, the right mood, the right clothes and the right place to kiss for the very first time. How many great first dates have ended up the second-to-last dates? There are the obvious ways to answer this. So, let's go with the things I will NOT do on a First Date.1) Coffee. I'm not 22 years old anymore, so meeting at a coffee house is just not going to work. Let's meet up for a drink after work. Even if you don't drink alcohol, it's a bit more sophisticated and a bit more adult. 2) Talk about work.My work is not my life. I'd rather talk about you and what drives you, motivates you and inspires you. What do you like to do when you're NOT working? That's what defines you and will make me want you.3) Spend $***on dinner at a steakhouse.Sorry, ladies. If you're wooed by the materialistic flash of guys who will spoil you with the intent of winning you over and becoming the "boyfriend", you should move on to another profile. The foundation of a relationship should not be based on how much a guy is willing to spend to impress you. That's just shallow and says nothing of compatibility, or what the guy's actually all about.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Drama Horror Music Sport
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