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Trevor, 43
United States, Kansas, Paola

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About Me

I have a great sense of humor, I'm honest, smart, creative, engaging, spontaneous, adventureous, enjoy experiencing life, and sexy - with a dash of mischief. I'm the most honest person you will ever meet. I enjoy and I am passionate about life. I try to follow the buddist, Jedi like philosopy of trying to focus on the living moment. When I'm in. I'm all in. To get the most out of every situation. To be completely committed and focused on what your're doing at that given moment. "Always your mind on where you are, on what you're doing." My family and friends are extremely important to me. I always enjoy the company that I'm with: my friends, parents, co- (Even though my nephew can be extremely demanding at times.)Good companion and friend to those that know me. I may not be the most interesting man in the room, but I'm in the top five. "Stay thirsty my friends."- He said "Happiness begins with honesty, which creates trust, which leads to friendship, which means happiness."I haven't dated that much in my life, and I have only gotten back into the dating world in the last year or so. True friendships and relationships are built over time through honest communication, trust, respect, and understanding.I've never been married, and may be a little naive, but I'm still a hopeless romantic.;How I Met Your Mother", I still think that my match is out there, A lady with a "yellow umbrella". Someone that "plays bass in a wedding band." A woman "that can totally pull off kick ass boots." Or someone "waiting at a train station after a wedding," (I just hope my journey doesn't take nine seasons.) An equal partner. A best friend. A companion. Someone who is Honest. Compassionate. Someone that's easy to talk to, who I can talk to about anything. Fun loving. Funny. Even goofy sometimes. Romantic. Someone to celebrate the good times with, and to endure the bad times with. That when you're with them you feel that spark, that electricity, that excitement, that attraction that lets you know that you've found the right person. Or like they said in the movie Meet Joe Black, that when your with her it feels like lightening strikes. When I’m with someone special, I'm spontaneous, adventurous, romantic. I surprise them with little gestures, and that type of sensual, playful fun you see two people who just met in the those romantic comedy movies having. Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with. I’m looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone that they can connect with. Some things I enjoy are fine dining, going dancing, watching almost any kind of movie, traveling, going on day road trips to new, and fun local attractions, and far away destinations, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together. If you only skipped to the end, then here's the Cliff Notes version: I'm exactly what you're looking for. Have a great sense of humor, honest, smart, engaging, spontaneous, adventureous, enjoy experiencing life, and sexy - with a dash of mischief.Contact me. It could be the start of something amazing! A good first date would be meeting someplace where we could talk and get to know each other a bit better. Dinner at a nice restaurant with excellent food or some place for a few drinks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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