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Jolyon, 42

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About Me

I'm divorced have 1 child 18yrs honest and loyal looking for a woman with the same qualities. I have been divorced for 2 years and finally have my life back in order. I like spending time with my family and friends, Have a full time job, Not a bum. I only work 4 days a week but hours are long. Time to LIVE again. Anything on a first date with the rite person can be great. Somewhere somewhat quiet so we can talk I think is the best option.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Blaine

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    Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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  • Aric

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    If you could choose between 2 relationships: the first one guarantees a long life and with that comes security. Security in every sense including no divorce. Although, it is tried and true, long and steady you and your spouse will only have very little excitement day in and day out. Long life, finacial security and never worrying about divorce; theyll always be there. You come home to 'hi Hon, how was your day?' On occasion you travel and eat at a nice restaurant. The second life is life in the fast lane and full of adventure. You and the love of your life are mostly doing something new and exciting. You are going out often and having fun with each-other and friends. The two of you are hopelessly in love and count the seconds you are apart. When you come home more times than not there is something special planned for you. He treats you like you are the only girl in the world. But there is one catch; this relationship only lasts 5 years.....and ends in tragedy.I am ready to start living life after spending my years serving as a pay check and living out the first scenario. Life is too short to go on unhappy as selfish as that sounds. Marriage should be about sharing lives together not merely co-existing. Relationships take work from both; don't take each-other for granted. It will fail. After working to save something neither of us wanted, we decided it was time. I'm looking for another shot at it eventually, but I now know what I want and what I'm looking for. Better to have a short meaningful love than a long relationship that serves more as a security blanket, which feels like a long slow death.I am witty, quick on my feet and like to laugh! I am handy as I finished my basement to include the electrical and plumbing. I also laid the bamboo flooring on the main level. However, I'd just assume live on a postage stamp and use my money for going places and doing things as these make for better memories. I will stop and help someone with a flat tire and you can expect me to be in the middle of something should it go sideways in my presence. I am also not shy about pointing out all of your great features and I like someone who can be confident about those features and not let the imperfections get them down; we all have them and it is a lie to believe otherwise. Having said that, I also believe in taking care of yourself including the corns on the feet and not bitting on your nails. I am attracted to women with attractive hands, feet and hips. These three elements are where women are most eloquent. I also like to take a woman by the small of her back.I can be trained to a degree and am always up for experiencing new things and culture. I don't claim or pretend I have done it all. So show me something you like to do and I am game!Surprisingly enough I do like to shop for clothes. I think it is fun to do with someone you find to be hot. Sometimes I like to just go out and people watch while nursing some rum or vodka. I like to go to the club and get out on the floor. I drink when I go out, but not to the point of embarrasment. I am in excellent shape and enjoy weight training and sprinting for my workouts. I like hip hop (even though the artists are usually a bunch of mopes), rock such as SKILLET and TFK. I'll even listen to SOME country and 80's, 90's to current. I am a concert goer and don't believe in standing around at one. I really enjoy comedy and sci-fi. I also like COD. I enjoy the outdoors and the sun! I have a career but plan on my business helping me to transition out of it. I like the night life. I like a female who takes care of her physique, is a little bold about being hot and wears heals from time to time. I am fashionable wether its going out for the night or to Walmart. I am physical in the sense I like to embrace and touch outside of the bedroom. This is important because you never know what life will throw at you in the next minute. For the moment I am interested in getting to know you by chatting. Then if things go well....you'll need a paint brush. If you *** I don't respond it is because I am uninterested and I get too many messages to address all of them, so my apologies. Also, I have kids but don't plan on meeting them until you and I are established. Oh, and if you are bad with money don't bother. I'm NOT doing that again. Or first date would likely be drinks somewhere with a good bar. We will chat and laugh and see about maybe going out and make some noise. We won't go so far as to get arrested, but it will be close! XD .....or coffee....but if we go a second time be ready to pick up a brush as we paint the town red! XD

  • Lambart

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    Hello Ladies,I particularly don't like talking about myself but I will give it a shot. I am single and never married and have no kids. I love my family. I am a blast to be around, comedian of shorts. I can laugh at myself and am truly entertaining. I love laughing so hard that your stomach hurts. I have done deep sea fishing which was exhilarating. I enjoy watching the Cardinals/Rams play. I enjoy excercising, weights, running, walking my 12 year old lab. Like I said I don't like to talk about myself, but I hope I have given you somewhat of an insight about me. What I am looking for is hard to describe. I want somebody that is honest, trustworthy, respectfull. I do like sarsarcasm and spunkiness. I enjoy a woman that can give it like the best of them. There has to be a mutual attraction. I want a woman who has passion for her job as much as she has for the person that she is dating. (If that makes sense) What I hate: Liars and cheats. I am not into the head games. Seize the moment for it might be your last.Me: I am in law enforcement, which means I don’t get out much as I would like. I am loyal and am a one woman man. Don't believe in more than one person, it's hard enough finding time to see one person let alone more than one. I enjoy evenings at home with a good movie or good conversation over dinner. or long vacations during the summer. Six Flags and roller coasters, waterslide parks, haunted houses during Halloween are awesome!. I love the changing seasons of St. Louis. My favorite seasons are spring and fall. If this catches your eye, I would like to hear from you. Lets see what happens. I am a romantic at heart, so whatever the first date is be assured it will leave a great impression. I don't like to give away my secrets.

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