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Darby, 45
United States, Kansas, Ottawa

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About Me

I enjoy the outdoors as much as possible but I am always up for a movie. I am usually making people laugh and enjoying my day. I will talk to anyone anywhere any time. Good conversation and a sense of humor is a must for me. I consider myself witty, intelligent, passionate, affectionate, supportive, AWESOME! and pretty much full of it. Manners, respect, honesty, and loyalty are important to me. I have energy to burn but love to chill as well. I am extremely positive and try to surround myself with the same.I really don't have any stress or drama in my life except for the occasional employer change. I have a huge heart and love all of my friends and family. When I die a lot of people will cry buckets. Hopefully, that is later rather than sooner.I do have a 21 year old angel, pre- I thoroughly enjoy every silly minute I get to make her laugh. I miss her tremendously and wish she was living with me again. She is now waiting for her MCAT scores to come in. Really? It takes a month to score bubble dot tests? So dumb.Professionally, I am very fortunate to be in the solar industry for four years now. I show people how to make the air cleaner, not spend a dime more than they spend now and save thousands of dollars a year on utility bills. I love my job. Yeaaaaaah!Please do not smoke. I take care of myself with proper diet, exercise and supplements, so please do the same. I have an extensive supplement regimen to make me live forever and never age a minute. Seriously, they really work:) Can't you tell? I'm really 85:)I am a huge believer that the connection between two people is communication, physical attraction, laughing together, chemistry and finally the kiss. I am an extremely affectionate and selfless person that needs the same. You can tell so much from a kiss. That will be a discussion for another day.If we start dating, I really appreciate you being honest about your feelings. I need you to be as into me as I you. Initially, we should want to spend time together but not all the time. We both have busy lives but I will make you a priority in my life if you will do the same. I will always support your ideas and endeavors so you can grow as a person. Hopefully, I will be there to help you.You must love to smile and laugh until it hurts. If you treat me like a king, I will treat you like a princess. If your up for some stupid fun or a relaxing evening, hit me up.FYI, I am loving my new Honda VFR800. So much fun. It's ok if it scares you.Good FishingJohn:) Somewhere we can talk, get to know each other and mainly see if there is any chemistry between us. This would be limited to about an hour and not really be a first date. A casual drink at a bar or coffee house. This whole internet dating thing is fine but first we need to talk to each other in person and on the phone before we decide to invest any time in each other. If we contact each other after our initial meeting we can actually have a first date. Good fishing:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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