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Zophai, 44
United States, Kansas, Medicine Lodge

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About Me

I enjoy being active and not just sit at home all the time and usually open to just about any activity, I havent really found anything that I don't enjoy doing. I would like to meet a lady who wants to have a family. I dont mind if you have kids already but potential of wanting to have more is open for discussion. But it is not a deal breaker to not have kids. I'm ok either way. So don't be shy to say hello. Oh... if I add you to favorites its because I dont want to forget you and will send you a message later. just didnt have time to send an *** just didnt know what to say at the time. For the record...I'm looking for a relationship and not a hook up. I was married once before have no kids, I would want them if it works out that way. I learned a lot from my marriage and for the last ***years after being divorced have learned even more. Since I had traveled for my job the last several years I haven't had any serious relationships,(REASON FOR NOT TRAVELING ANYMORE) and want to find a nice lady to settle down with and have a great future and share those fun times together, I totally miss spending holidays and days off with someone, and would like to start my (our) own traditions for holidays and such. ANY TAKERS? Lets go have some fun and meet up for some drinks, then we can see if we hit it off. After that. if you are still interested we can plan for another. I have fun doing anything especially in good company. I am open to outdoor activities as well as indoors. I can be creative for a date so lets get to know each other and then let my creative date side come out for a great 2nd date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

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    ATTENTION; It has been brought to my attention by several ladies upon here that I have a wedding ring on...that is false...I am holding the phone in my right hand taking the picture in the mirror (take one and see for yourself) the ring that i have on is my retirement ring upon my right hand and my divorce is final... lol ...its ok always willing to clarify and do not mind the questions I have nothing to hide....I have seen some of the profiles that are on here and I must say ladies that if you are really looking for what you say (yes I actually do read your profiles), I would suggest that you take a compliment and either respond by a thank you and move on if not interested...I am a gentleman and will never disrespect a woman upon here, but see alot of little boys playing around on this site, and I am here to tell you that I am a real grown man so please treat me with respect and I will definitely do the same. I am definitely not into headgames here so if that is your thing please take it somewhere else. So a little about me.... My last duty station was at the Pentagon with special operations and am now medically retired. I am a wounded warrior with 4 combat tours...I do not regret my service/sacrifice to this country one bit. I had the opportunity to travel the world extensively during my career ***different countries), and have met great people. I have two AS degrees on my third degree .... trained over ***troops and ***podium hours to earn myself a master *** by the military. I like to exercise and take care of myself. I am up for dating, friendship, and relationship if it leads to it. If we make a connection to where talks would come to a relationship, I am looking for a attractive, sincere women that is family oriented, woman to possibly share my life with. Simply put, I am looking for a passionate and good woman who Likes to exercise and take care of themselves, is very affectionate,loving, respectful, family oriented, faithful, sexual, sensual, and good natured. Also relationships take time to develop, I do not just jump into them. If you are serious about only friendship then im a great buddy and friend. I am not assuming and am respectful with such things. I am a real person and the photos are of me and I would expect yours are of you as well. Once again I am sorry but have to re state thate you have to like to ecxcersise and take care of yourself ;) Very simple; coffee, or a movie, dinner, a walk anywhere as long as we are together enjoying each others company :)

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