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Ogden, 42

United States, Kansas, Medicine Lodge

Offline, last seen Mon, 24 Aug 2026 21:43:39

About Me

We've climbed off the Harley on top of a mountain. It's cool, almost crisp. You rub your arms, notice me point into the night air. Tilting your head back, you see stars, so many stars. You ask what that is, and I reply that it is another band of our galaxy, the Milky Way, and its size is so far beyond unimaginable. Your head is tilted back, staring, amazed. You look to me and I smile back with warm happiness. We spend the next several hours talking about the night sky, our memories, listening to nature, and just enjoying each other in the velvet night. Fun? Exciting? Perhaps even exhilarating? Yeah, I'm a geek. I have a wonderful Harley fat boy that I've been all over the United States on. I've seen things that would make a National Geographic magazine look boring. Life is an adventure, and it is to be savored like chocolate covered strawberries and champagne. More importantly, it is to be shared. I'm going to go anyway, I figured that somebody might enjoy it with me. Nothing like a few memories of some of the wonders of this magnificent Earth, shared with a friend. Nothing like seeing amazing trees, or giant deserts or salt flats. Rivers and lakes dazzle the eye with their secret coolness from hot, summer sun. Anyway, I'm a software and systems design architect. I work to be able to have some fun. I am financially stable, have a good job. I have a number of hobbies from reading and writing. I love the outdoors. I like to fish and hunt when I can. I love to have game in the freezer when I can. I like to camp.I am pretty good at building things, and have a pretty good eye for detail. I can make almost anything. Personality wise, I'm pretty gregarious in small groups, but as the crowds get larger, it tends to sap my energy. I feel like I have a pretty solid empathic compass, and can sense through reading body language and other clues someone's emotions and sometimes thoughts. I like making people feel warm and comfortable. I like helping others succeed. I do it because it makes me feel good to be helpful. It's enough to know that I did something nice for someone todayI guess it's important to mention that I love SciFi and Fantasy stuff. I do watch some anime occasionally, though I don't watch any TV. I like audiobooks on trips. I like all kinds of music from classic rock to old blues (Muddy Waters, BB King, etc) I like 80 hair band music. I like some acapella groups and some jazz and country. One of my most constant hobbies (I've had so many over the years, but this one had remained since grade school) is fiction writing. I love writing cool stories about make-believe people. I've written novels, but never published. I guess my writing is for me and the small group of folks who enjoy what I do.On an MBTI scale, I am an ENFP with ENTP tendencies...A little INFP thrown in from time to time for deep introspection and artistic expression, philosophy, and dreaming of amazing things and imaginary worlds. In other words, I'm a lot of fun.Finally, I would like to say that I am not a walking gonad. I want friends and lovers that are cerebral, and being able to talk about things both abstract and concrete is extremely important. I want to know what you think and what you feel, and I will return in kind. It is not my intention or expectation to jump into bed with anyone right away. Sex is wonderful...when you have an intelligent, emotional connection. Otherwise, it is just rutting, which never got much of a rise out of me. The very first would be coffee and some light chatting about each other and our interests. Allowing my imagination to run away with me, I'd say the next would probably be dinner. Perhaps a little wine. We talk, and I learn a little more about you. You learn a little more about me. After dinner, we probably walk-nowhere in particular. The wine from dinner makes your cheeks blush, and you laugh a tinkling laugh that sets my mind at ease. We find some historical monument, and you take off your heels to walk across the grass. I smile and laugh teasing at your wet feet from the sprinkler that had run earlier, but you just grin back, saying that it was no bother. The site is old but very interesting, and we read the inscriptions by street lamp nearby. We've had a good time, but it's time for you to go home. We've had fun. We're both sad its over, but are excited of the prospect of next time. We both look forward to next time.We might kiss our goodbyes and I watch you walk to your front door. You turn your head to look at me, then open your door and step inside.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz French Mexican Middle Eastern South American American Football
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