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Benjamin, 42
United States, Kansas, Holton

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I never realized it was so hard to write something about yourself.....I am divorced, but I am not scarred from it. It has allowed me the opportunity to evaluate myself as an individual which i now feel will allow me to offer more to a relationship. With that said, I'm excited and look forward to the next chapter in my life and all that it may bring. I enjoy dining out, traveling - quick spontaneous getaways whenever possible, and really anything that involves being active. I am also content staying in and enjoying a nice dinner and movie or a good book as well. I am not a rigid person, if anything I go with the flow as I feel like you never know what life will throw at you. I'm at a point in my life now where I'm simply not willing to just settle. I'm not afraid to be alone, and I'm willing to take all the time necessary to find that special someone. I certainly am not looking for someone to "complete" me, but simply compliment me. I'm hoping to find someone that enjoys life and can see the glass as half full *** half empty. Someone who is independent and confident. Someone who is comfortable simply in jeans and a t-shirt while at the same time enjoys getting dressed up for a nice night out. I'm fine meeting someone with children as I have children of my own. I understand that they are part of you and therefore part of the package and I want someone that can accept that with me as well. Good Luck in your search......... Something simple at first that will allow us the opportunity to communicate and get to know each other better while at the same time feeling comfortable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Chinese Indian Italian Action Horror Mystery
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