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Kai, 42
United States, Kansas, Holton

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DISCLAIMER This little piece of typed copy is never going to explain or describe me fully, but should give you an idea of who I am and what I am about. I am 42, a Father of 6 children(they have a mom, don't run away yet), I have been separated for more than a year and now think it is time to start dating a little .....I am a professional( retired) Tattoo Artist of 20 years(yes I have tattoos)..and a truck driver(have to pay the bills ).. I am a Medieval recreator (sca) and fight full contact in armor(yes it is real, and yes I dress in 14th century clothing at events, but no tights thanks.. )...I love camping and the outdoors, but am just as happy hanging at the house or grabbing a movie. I am not Mr... my musical taste covers a lot of area, but I prefer rock/ metal...but do love ska and some punk too :) not too keen on rap, but I can cope through most music.. I love to go trail riding in my old Bronco, but as of now it is my daily driver since my jeep is down .. so I can't break it at the moment.. I love coffee, and love finding cool little coffee shops... I am not a cigar or cigarette smoker(I quit 3yrs ago) but every now and then I do smoke my hookah (no.. not with anything but shisha..no herb here) I have a fairly diverse group of friends from a lot of different lifestyles.. Goth, Rockabilly, Biker, Gamers, and my friends in the Society of Creative Anacronism (a medieval reenactment society).. I love dogs... my AmStaff stayed with my kids :( but they love him so I am ok with it. I am a laid back guy, sarcastic and love to crack jokes.. even the non PC ones.. Fall is my favorite time of year, Hanging at campfires with friends are awesome, wonderful times... Halloween is tied for favorite holiday with Christmas..I have a dating preference like any other person on here .....I am attracted physically to average sized girls and have a thing for blonde, red and black hair :).. but in no way does that discount or limit the possibility that a wonderful brunette or any other hair colors including the cool hot topic styles won't be considered, these are merely things I know that grab my attention...Do not get me wrong I have no issues with a curvy lady or a few extra pounds as I am far from perfect myself as I am sure you have seen in the pics I posted( yes they are all me, and they are what you will see when you meet me) and NO.. I am not looking for a Barbie, I am looking for someone that is real and is comfy with themselves.. , and definitely not a model/high maintenance type of gal either.. I can understand wanting to be fit, but if you spend more time in the gym than at work, you are probably not what I am looking for.. but I am not physically attracted to overly large women, and I feel it would be wrong to not say it . I am being upfront and honest.I AM NOT A HOOK UP KIND OF GUY, there are plenty of those guys on here I am sure, I am not one of them, my mom raised me better than that.... ..Other things I like to see in a partner are....I love the rockabilly ,punk, goth, metal, and librarian type look, and prefer and appreciate someone being unique.I do kinda like the girl next door kind of thing to.. I am a blunt, straight forward kind of guy, I have morals and am honest and truthful even if it is unpopular... I believe in Chivalry and strive to live well with my honor intact..I am not a game player, and resent those that do as someone always ends up getting hurt..well, If you are feeling inquisitive or have your interests slightly piqued , send me a message... the worst thing that can happen is I respond to you.... coffee, a drink, lunch?.... I am sure we can figure something out once we both feel comfortable enough to make a date..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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