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Marlen, 43
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

Hi. Normally, I have a pretty good sense of humor... I can be witty, smart, a bit inappropriate to completely off the wall. But I hate writing this stuff, so it may not come off that way here. So, this is just gonna be basic. I'm shy when I first meet someone. I'll get over it. I have great friends and family. I'd like to see if there is a man out there who fits into the empty spaces. I'm not looking to fix anyone, or to be fixed. I want to continue to grow and learn, with fun, adventure (that does not mean drama), laughter and love. And sarcasm. A little sarcasm is fun. I'd like to have a reason for romance. I practice yoga ***times a week depending on what's going on. I have been getting fit over the last year and I am looking for someone I can continue that type of lifestyle with. I think I'm pretty laid back. I've got a good head on my shoulders, and I try to let people be who they are. It depends on what we find in common. Let's talk about it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Korean South American Animation Crime Mystery Sport Nascar Outdoor Hobbies Spirituality
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