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Hugh, 43
United States, Kansas, Derby

Offline, last seen Mon, 06 Jul 2026 18:30:33

About Me

Southern guy with an edge for other like minded guys. I am looking for someone who is sexy and interesting. I measure this by what one projects and attempts in their lives to improve themselves and those around them. I am a down to earth guy and looking for the same. My head and heart are in a good place right now and I plan to keep it that way.I am a creative and truly happy when I am being creative. A true artist at heart. Been in the advertising / graphic design industry for almost 10 years. I am really good at making people feel special. I am a caregiver and tend to spoil those around me. I love to cook, design home spaces, entertain and am the consummate host. I like to make people smile!The first things people notice about me are my baby blues, smile, southern charm and outgoing personality. I am at ease in any social setting and comfortable in my own skin.You should message me if you are sincere and honest. Intelligence and a sense of humor go a long way with me. I can honestly say that I do not have a particular type and do not have an unrealistic self imposed laundry list of physical attributes in a man. I do however place high regards on inner beauty and what makes a guy special and unique. My Daddy raised me right. I find manners and integrity extremely sexy on a man. I am a true southern gentleman. Please and thank you's are mandatory and a smile costs nothing and is infectious.P.S. If you message me on here for sex, here's a little food for thought: All these guys complain about wanting a relationship, yet they are ****ing every other guy that comes their way. No wonder the gay community has such a bad rep. You say you want a long term relationship and to fall in love with someone, but yet your priorities are all out of whack. You can't live two lifestyles and expect to have both. You have to pick one or the other and then the true test of how much you truly want love is tested. For those of us who would like to one day find love feel helpless because all the players, sex addicts, and even other couples destroy what hospitality there is left. Not really into the typical "Dinner & Movie" date as I am not a typical guy. A great date could be something as simple as drinks and appetizers at your place or mine...candles will always win me over. I enjoy one on one time so that I can really get to know someone. I am very attentive. A perfect date is anything that shows sincere thought. I am easy to please.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Chinese French Thai Animation Horror Mystery Thriller American Football Archery
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