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Hi there.I'm really not sure how people would describe me, and for the most part I am OK with that. I have always been known as a creative guy, silly, compassionate, and a lover of living things - did I mention silly? I like animals - even the ones I'm scared of. I love people - they are my species. I try to live a genuine life and therefore often do not fit into the typical Gay molds. I am not a scene guy and got the bar scene out of my system in my twenties. Somehow I now find myself in my 40s and baffled how that happened--when did that happen? I am lucky because my hobby is also my job. I've worked hard to make my passion that much of my life. With that being said, I am very engrossed into my work. This is one of the reasons I must stop and look for companionship. My work is mostly rewarding when I can share it on a deep level with someone I love.I love entrepreneurs (I've owned several businesses) and I think that kind of spirit is exciting and I approach many situations in life with those ideals. I am not religious, but would most closely identify myself as "paganish." I am on a quest for life-long learning. I want, very much, to travel and experience theatre in many countries.My taste in music is strange at best. I like a lot of music - I've never really understood country music and I don't care for the cross over artists. Music, however, is not a passion and I easily gloss over it.Oh, and I am currently dieting, not only did 40years of age creep up on me, so did the weight. So, I am working on becoming happier with my body - and healthier. I could use some help on this journey too. I have been vegetarian for almost a year now, but lack the social life for physical activity (prefer social activities to just working out). I like walking/hiking, riding bikes, Frisbee- these sorts of things. I'm not really sporty, but willing to try and support if nothing else.I don't think I have to like and do everything my partner does. Actually I think we should have some different interests and some the same, and always looking for new/more....and here is something else - if you are a hunter or a killer of things - we don't match. Pretty casual really-- a meal and conversation- a movie or better yet a play- dessert and more conversation- compassionate hug to end the night with respect - and hopefully a new friend found.- Communication is a must.(I don't sleep around and don't participate in casual sex - I don't understand it)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek South American Adult Comedy
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  • Johnny from Concordia | Man | 45 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm ISO my soul mate. This person must be loving, caring and very trust worthy. Im just the average guy and have worked hard to live a decent life. For some reason some think the word "gay" relationship means your partner can "play" every once in a while. Sorry, I don't like to share. LoL Im not into cheaters nor any sort of bull crap games. I feel there is no reason why a gay couple cant live a life together, be faithful, honest, cherish each others company and grow old together. As of now my state does not allow gay marriages but in my dream life I want to receive and accept a proposal then sue the state and go down in history as the first couple to marry in our state. Im sick of the not being able to enjoy and take advantage of the benefits of being married. It's not just a piece of paper in my opinion, being married means so much more.A little about me.....I get a little nervous and shy at first but that fades away pretty quickly. I usually joke a lot especially when im nervous. Im very loving, caring, loyal and faithful and I expect and should receive the same. Im a little on the fem side but not a whole lot. Some would say im more of the traditional "woman" role in the relationship. Im not into fems or "queens" but *** the company of a masculine man. I dont "party" and drink a lot and only occasionally go out to clubs. A couple drinks and im feeling pretty good. LoL Yep, im a light weight. LoL I love to dance which is the main reason for going out to a club. Although im a strong, confident, take charge kind of guy when it comes to the intimate stage of a relationship I let my partner have most of the control. So yes, he should enjoy being the "top", be assertive but gentle and considerate.Im not on meetville to find "hook up's" or games, I can find that almost anywhere. Im here to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, to enjoy our lives together and grow and become as one. Although im gay I am a very traditional type of person and a Christian. I cant imagine life without the help of God. My values and morals are very traditional in the sense that family and my partner (husband someday) means everything to me. God is first and family is second, not partying, not money and not working. I have some what of a large family and our entire family has been brought up to be a tight, loving, loyal, close family.So hopefully someone out there will see this profile and like what I have to say and a little of what I think. I hope my profile was insightful and honest enough for you to be intrigued and want to know more by sending over a message. My first date. Well I would imagine that someone would find the courage to ask me out for a dinner and maybe take a walk or something so that we can concentrate on each other and able to learn about each other. Although I love the movies, I dont think its appropriate for the first date because we cant talk during the movie so how can we learn more about each other?I dont think the first date should last several hours either. On the other hand, I dont see the rush if we both are enjoying each others company, then why not have an extended evening. But be warned, I am a talker once im past the nervousness. LoL Basically I think the first date will be awkward as usual but will quickly feel warm and inviting as we begin to learn more and more about each other. So rather its over dinner, coffee or a drink we should just enjoy ourselves without having to worry about time.

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  • Salvador from Concordia | Man | 43 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I just moved here a few months ago and haven't met but a couple of people . I am 41 years old. 5'7" tall / brown hair with some gray. blue eyes. and ***lbs. . i would like to find some people to hang out with and eventually like to find someone to date . i am not looking for a hook up !! . i am a pretty laid back kinda guy . i love to do guy things like camping, hiking, fishing , hunting, boating, water skiing , jet ski's , quads, mud riding, horseback riding, hanging out with friends, watching movies, hanging out by the pool , traveling , trying new things , i love music(all genre's) so i love to go to listen to local band, sing karaoke, i also love to cook and entertain, i have been told i am a pretty good cook . i was raised with manners and morals . i believe in monogamy and that seems to be hard to find in this gay world. i would love to find a guy that is the love of my life. someone that is as in love with me as i would be with them . i am not into the bar scene but do like to go out on occasions ,. i don't believe that a relationship can grow when you are hanging out in a gay bar every weekend . i am a hopeless romantic at heart and like to show that when i am in a relationship . i don't really have a "type" of guy . i want someone that is honest, fun , loving, caring, faithful. i don't have a list of requirements like most guys do . but i don't want someone that does drugs or drinks all the time. i take a person for who they are on the inside more than what they look like but that doesn't mean that i will just settle for anyone . i want someone who does take care of themselves .a few extra pounds is fine but i wouldn't be sexually attracted to someone who is just grossly overweight . i do believe that you have to have some sexual attraction to the person that you are dating or it won't work ,. i am not looking for a model or a gym rat , i just want a normal guy next door type .i will say that when i am in a relationship that i am in 100% and expect the same from my partner . as far as me sexually i am a total top and not really looking to be a bottom in the relationship but you never know if i find the man of my dreams you never know LOL. i have always been the person that does the chasing when i like someone and now i want to know what it feels like for someone to chase me . i want someone to take me out on a date the proper way. i dated a chef for a year and in that year he never even cooked me dinner . i want someone to show me romance. if you have read this far and are still interested please respond . like i said i am looking for friends and eventually a LTR. i look forward to hearing from you . thanks dinner , movie, hike, karaoke, drinks,

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  • Jake from Concordia | Man | 42 years old | Aquarius
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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Whin able rebuild wrecked *** goal is to find my true love,I'm a eas. y going family loving ,and god believing man. i love most all kinds of music i love car and truck animals i love children To meet in public,go out to eat and talk and get to know oneother.

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