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Hi there.I'm really not sure how people would describe me, and for the most part I am OK with that. I have always been known as a creative guy, silly, compassionate, and a lover of living things - did I mention silly? I like animals - even the ones I'm scared of. I love people - they are my species. I try to live a genuine life and therefore often do not fit into the typical Gay molds. I am not a scene guy and got the bar scene out of my system in my twenties. Somehow I now find myself in my 40s and baffled how that happened--when did that happen? I am lucky because my hobby is also my job. I've worked hard to make my passion that much of my life. With that being said, I am very engrossed into my work. This is one of the reasons I must stop and look for companionship. My work is mostly rewarding when I can share it on a deep level with someone I love.I love entrepreneurs (I've owned several businesses) and I think that kind of spirit is exciting and I approach many situations in life with those ideals. I am not religious, but would most closely identify myself as "paganish." I am on a quest for life-long learning. I want, very much, to travel and experience theatre in many countries.My taste in music is strange at best. I like a lot of music - I've never really understood country music and I don't care for the cross over artists. Music, however, is not a passion and I easily gloss over it.Oh, and I am currently dieting, not only did 40years of age creep up on me, so did the weight. So, I am working on becoming happier with my body - and healthier. I could use some help on this journey too. I have been vegetarian for almost a year now, but lack the social life for physical activity (prefer social activities to just working out). I like walking/hiking, riding bikes, Frisbee- these sorts of things. I'm not really sporty, but willing to try and support if nothing else.I don't think I have to like and do everything my partner does. Actually I think we should have some different interests and some the same, and always looking for new/more....and here is something else - if you are a hunter or a killer of things - we don't match. Pretty casual really-- a meal and conversation- a movie or better yet a play- dessert and more conversation- compassionate hug to end the night with respect - and hopefully a new friend found.- Communication is a must.(I don't sleep around and don't participate in casual sex - I don't understand it)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek South American Adult Comedy
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  • Salvador from Concordia | Man | 43 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I just moved here a few months ago and haven't met but a couple of people . I am 41 years old. 5'7" tall / brown hair with some gray. blue eyes. and ***lbs. . i would like to find some people to hang out with and eventually like to find someone to date . i am not looking for a hook up !! . i am a pretty laid back kinda guy . i love to do guy things like camping, hiking, fishing , hunting, boating, water skiing , jet ski's , quads, mud riding, horseback riding, hanging out with friends, watching movies, hanging out by the pool , traveling , trying new things , i love music(all genre's) so i love to go to listen to local band, sing karaoke, i also love to cook and entertain, i have been told i am a pretty good cook . i was raised with manners and morals . i believe in monogamy and that seems to be hard to find in this gay world. i would love to find a guy that is the love of my life. someone that is as in love with me as i would be with them . i am not into the bar scene but do like to go out on occasions ,. i don't believe that a relationship can grow when you are hanging out in a gay bar every weekend . i am a hopeless romantic at heart and like to show that when i am in a relationship . i don't really have a "type" of guy . i want someone that is honest, fun , loving, caring, faithful. i don't have a list of requirements like most guys do . but i don't want someone that does drugs or drinks all the time. i take a person for who they are on the inside more than what they look like but that doesn't mean that i will just settle for anyone . i want someone who does take care of themselves .a few extra pounds is fine but i wouldn't be sexually attracted to someone who is just grossly overweight . i do believe that you have to have some sexual attraction to the person that you are dating or it won't work ,. i am not looking for a model or a gym rat , i just want a normal guy next door type .i will say that when i am in a relationship that i am in 100% and expect the same from my partner . as far as me sexually i am a total top and not really looking to be a bottom in the relationship but you never know if i find the man of my dreams you never know LOL. i have always been the person that does the chasing when i like someone and now i want to know what it feels like for someone to chase me . i want someone to take me out on a date the proper way. i dated a chef for a year and in that year he never even cooked me dinner . i want someone to show me romance. if you have read this far and are still interested please respond . like i said i am looking for friends and eventually a LTR. i look forward to hearing from you . thanks dinner , movie, hike, karaoke, drinks,

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  • Abida from Concordia | Man | 42 years old | Virgo
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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Professional, Educated gentleman here. Prefer men who are balanced, educated, good head on their shoulders, similar interests, and are goal oriented. meetvilles policy regarding being within 15 years and not being able to contact someone because they believe its all about hooking up is completely wrong and asinine. If you're younger that 28 and over 20 and are interested in talking, maybe something serious either as friends or more and have yourself in a good place/put together, (something apparently meetville thinks is impossible) then contact me separate from here. The *** at aol.; getting settled and work are my #1 priority. Looking to meet people, but not interested in 3ways, etc. Typically interested in people around my age or younger. My work & the occasional travel with it happily carries over into my personal life - understanding this is important. My interest include Cooking, Hiking, Comic Books, History buff, Languages, Music, Education... old movies and classic tv shows... dinner and drinks, the occasional movie... very involved in music. Also very interested in readings on history in general, especially religious history. I'm just at home having a drink at a sports bar as I am at a lounge or pub. Coffee or a drink out is a good way to start things off, and I'm pretty flexible for the circumstances.

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  • Quinn from Concordia | Man | 42 years old | Pisces
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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just your average guy looking for fun and a relationship. Enjoy movies, music, hanging with friends and family. Looking for an easy going top guy who enjoys good company. Prefer guys around my own age but open to others. Anything else ya wanna know just ask me and i will tell ya.

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