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United States, Kansas, Arkansas City

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About Me

I am a manager at a private club, I teach part time, mother of two and I enjoy being active. I am contemplating going Back to school in the next few years to pursue a doctorate. I enjoy traveling, sight seeing and learning. Life is about learning and growing. Learning is growing, if you aren't constantly learning you are moving backwards because this world Is still moving forward.I'm not a geek on any way but people that play together stay together. I have dated people that really have no interests and can't hold a conversation. So I need a medium. I can be a bit quiet at first that's mostly until we find common ground and feel comfortable talking about life. I can't stand people that just don't pay attention and don't show interest in a conversation.Video games beyond fun with the kids for an hour once a week or "fantasy" league games are wayyy outside any of my interests.I wonder if some people actually read this because I get messages from people I have absolutely nothing in common with.ABOUT ME; I am sillyI like riding bicycles and walking when appropriate. I don't mind getting Off my butt.I love hiking but I am petrified of snakesI don't read novels but I read non fictionI used to be into bodybuilding but got too busy with New jobI was in the air national guard for 8 years and have traveled the worldI take every opportunity I can to take my kids to local attractionsMy daughter is 4 years old and autistic son is 8My dog is 1 yr old lassa pooI am pretty straightforward, if I have something to say I don't hold back but I'm not rude In anyway.my schedule varies some nights and days but I'm able to make time for what's important in lifeI enjoy Cabernet and martinisI don't use the word "like" unless I am comparing one item to another Public place can talk and get to know each other. I am not one for talking on phone. I like seeing people's reactions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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