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Lesli, 29
United States, Kansas, Arkansas City

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About Me

"Because I was born to be the woman. Who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone. Who had nothing, who wanted everything, with a fire for every experience and an obsession for freedom that terrified me to the point that I couldn't even talk about it, and pushed me to a nomadic point of madness that both dazzled and dizzied me."As a little girl I was read fairy tales, fairy tales of princes and knights that would save the beautiful princess from poisonous apples, monsters, and witches........but sometimes I think it would be so nice to just to be taken care of.I have been told I am one of the last bleeding hearts. I give my heart and soul to everything I do. I am a very passionate person. I have also been told I am smart, loving and just the perfect amount of crazy :). I am fearless and not afraid of experiencing life. I am kind of a fighter, I am not afraid to be honest and put myself out there, I am a no bull-sh*tkinda gal in a very loving way. Although, I have lived out here for 8 years and love it out here, I will always be a bit of a midwestern girl at heart. I have beenn told I have a certain midwestern friendliness, charm, hospitality, authenticity that is difficult to find out here. This combined with my life experiences and open mindeness leads to an interesting combinationI am a catch, I'm smart, funny, loving, and loyal when a guy proves to me he could be the one. I love to fall in love, and be swept off my feet, but I also always open to have fun. If I say I am only open to one experience, I'll miss out on other experiences and it's all about the experience :). Whatever will happen will happen, what is meant to be will be.I am a hard worker, and have a passion for what I do. I am an MSW. I have three jobs and try to keep the main thing the main thing. I work as a clincial case manager at permanent supportive housing for formerly homeless, do in home services for kids with autism, and do in home therapy for chronically disabled adults.I’m really good at Helping others Writing Fighting for a cause Love Making things happen Making others laugh Making the seemingly impossible possible Managing chaos I have been called, "The tamer of wild beasts." Making others feel comfortable Energizing a room The first things people usually notice about me 1). My humor and my laughter (People have told me that I remind them of Lucille Ball, accidently funny and always getting into some kind of debaucle***. My facial expressions 3). My smile 4.) My legs 5). My passion 6). My hair 7). I'm a kind, loving, person 8). Intelligent 7). My fashion sense 8). Wherever I go I seem to have the ability to make others love me, I don't know how or why. I am not putting this down as a madantory must have since obviously the thing that makes two people the most attracted to each other is the energy, but these are the things I tend to be attracted to in men:1). A little bit of an edge2). Chivalry3). Someone who makes me feel safe and protected4). Height5). Deep voices6). Muscular arms7). Tattoos8). A chest I can lay my head on9). Someone open minded10). Someone fun11). Someone who can make me laugh but can also make me think12). A man with drive for whatever that may be13). Good heart"I''ve been out on that open road You can be my full time daddy, White and gold Singing blues has been getting old You can be my full time baby, Hot or cold" I am a really down to earth girl and money and extragavance doesn't impress me. I get more from good conversation that may lead to something more exciting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Really don't know what to say here.. If you are even reading this, great....If you have 1 pic, don't want kids, don't have a car, are short, overweight, have tons of shirtless pics, don't have a real career, can't spell, do not rent or own your own place- keep it moving!!!That should weed out 75% of you..Love all good music from classic rock to hip hop to 80's to 90's.. Like The Cars, The Stones, Amy Winehouse, CCR, Talking Heads, some hip-hop etc. Not a huge fan of country or Indie or Maroon 5 type stuff..or Creed type of stuff but I will tolerate anything with good company, as you should too :-) I also enjoy good food, drinks and good company/ conversation. I like to have fun and do random things when I get the urge.I value a sense of humor, ambition and intelligence.. Taking care of yourself in general is important to me. Going to the gym is part of my routine. I consider myself to be the entire package; good career, knows the value of family/ friends, can look just as good in sweat pants as heels and I can just about make you Sunday dinner ;-) I don't know exactly what I want in a man but I believe when I find him, I will know he's the one.. If he exists...funny, intelligent, ambitious, career minded, understanding, fit, honest, well-rounded, somewhat tall doesn't hurt...please also have some manners and man-up where applicable..... And love your Mama! Chat soon :-) Something enjoyable even if we don't click..would be nice to meet someone who has fun/different dating ideas!

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  • Ethelinda from Arkansas City | Woman | 33 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Im 33 never married have no kids but would like both of them 1 day. I love kids and want to be a pediatric nurse when I grow up ;- Im a homebody and prefer a homecooked (nonspicy) meal and a movie over goin out any day.. My joy in life is seeing the people I love smile, starting with myself. Im far from selfish or greedy.... please dont get over sensitive if i dont bite the line u threw i may not be interested.... but would u rather me keep swimming or steal the bait n leave u stuck?.!.?.!!. As for that may u all have a blessed day.. ;-) Just that I want a date.. What ever hapened to goin out to dinner or taking a walk on the beach or watching a movie?? Why do people feel like its always ok to try n get sexual on the 1st damn 'date'?? I am a lady and yes I have needs as well but they dont need to be fulfilled off rip.?? Slow that sh*tdown some..

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  • Sal from Arkansas City | Woman | 30 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    It always starts with a picture. A split second decision about whether or not to click on a profile. Now that you are here you might as well explore.I like staying home and watching a movie sometimes more than going out but I also like to go midnight ice skating or go kayaking. I prefer happy hour to clubbing, but I also love to go out dancing. I like having intellectual and philosophical debates; but when coming home from work I rarely feel like talking and would rather just cuddle. I love to travel and would love to have a traveling partner. I love the ocean but prefer the pool. I'm not sporty, but I enjoy yoga and hiking. I'm not much into camping, but watching a movie at the cemetery is exciting.Little courtesies intrigue me. Grand gestures impress me. I like to think I'm a simple person, but I'm realistic and I acknowledge I'm a bit complicated.I am not a fan of texting, messaging, or *** and forth, as a replacement of an actual date. Getting to know each other should be personal and in person. We use the internet to post our picture, say something witty, and catch someone's eye. After we get past the "resume" stage, we should meet and actually get to know each other.If you want to meet me, ask me out. I hope for an impulsive first kiss that will send shivers down my spine.

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