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Lesli, 29
United States, Kansas, Arkansas City

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About Me

"Because I was born to be the woman. Who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone. Who had nothing, who wanted everything, with a fire for every experience and an obsession for freedom that terrified me to the point that I couldn't even talk about it, and pushed me to a nomadic point of madness that both dazzled and dizzied me."As a little girl I was read fairy tales, fairy tales of princes and knights that would save the beautiful princess from poisonous apples, monsters, and witches........but sometimes I think it would be so nice to just to be taken care of.I have been told I am one of the last bleeding hearts. I give my heart and soul to everything I do. I am a very passionate person. I have also been told I am smart, loving and just the perfect amount of crazy :). I am fearless and not afraid of experiencing life. I am kind of a fighter, I am not afraid to be honest and put myself out there, I am a no bull-sh*tkinda gal in a very loving way. Although, I have lived out here for 8 years and love it out here, I will always be a bit of a midwestern girl at heart. I have beenn told I have a certain midwestern friendliness, charm, hospitality, authenticity that is difficult to find out here. This combined with my life experiences and open mindeness leads to an interesting combinationI am a catch, I'm smart, funny, loving, and loyal when a guy proves to me he could be the one. I love to fall in love, and be swept off my feet, but I also always open to have fun. If I say I am only open to one experience, I'll miss out on other experiences and it's all about the experience :). Whatever will happen will happen, what is meant to be will be.I am a hard worker, and have a passion for what I do. I am an MSW. I have three jobs and try to keep the main thing the main thing. I work as a clincial case manager at permanent supportive housing for formerly homeless, do in home services for kids with autism, and do in home therapy for chronically disabled adults.I’m really good at Helping others Writing Fighting for a cause Love Making things happen Making others laugh Making the seemingly impossible possible Managing chaos I have been called, "The tamer of wild beasts." Making others feel comfortable Energizing a room The first things people usually notice about me 1). My humor and my laughter (People have told me that I remind them of Lucille Ball, accidently funny and always getting into some kind of debaucle***. My facial expressions 3). My smile 4.) My legs 5). My passion 6). My hair 7). I'm a kind, loving, person 8). Intelligent 7). My fashion sense 8). Wherever I go I seem to have the ability to make others love me, I don't know how or why. I am not putting this down as a madantory must have since obviously the thing that makes two people the most attracted to each other is the energy, but these are the things I tend to be attracted to in men:1). A little bit of an edge2). Chivalry3). Someone who makes me feel safe and protected4). Height5). Deep voices6). Muscular arms7). Tattoos8). A chest I can lay my head on9). Someone open minded10). Someone fun11). Someone who can make me laugh but can also make me think12). A man with drive for whatever that may be13). Good heart"I''ve been out on that open road You can be my full time daddy, White and gold Singing blues has been getting old You can be my full time baby, Hot or cold" I am a really down to earth girl and money and extragavance doesn't impress me. I get more from good conversation that may lead to something more exciting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hello, Okay let me start with the normal.... I am the mother of a beautiful 16 year old young lady who is intelligent, respectful and the best child in the world! I have a career that makes me excited to wake up in the morning and go to work. I have goals and dreams for my future that encourage me to stay motivated and on the right path. I am looking for someone who has goals in life and thrives to achieve them. Someone who is respectful of others feelings and points of view. I do not want someone who smokes weed or drinks weekly.... to each his own but that behavior does not fit into my dream for my future.This is where I do not mean to sound like a butt head but I like the type of man I like and if you do not fit then please do not contact me..... Thank you. I am only attracted to black men, taller then I am (which shouldn't be hard I am only 5ft 4in), preferable someone who takes care of their body (you don't have to have a 6 pack but don't have the belly hanging to your knees either). I am by no means in perfect shape but I try to keep the belly from drooping over the pants. I ask that if you are interested in meeting me to get to know each other would you please answer me this question when you e-mail me... What is your goal within the next six months? If this question is not answered I will know you couldn't take 5 minutes to read about what I'm interested in therefor you will not get a response.Thank you It is up to us to decide what to do for a first date..... I will say that it won't be movies at my house or yours though :)

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