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Berna, 47

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About Me

I'm not your average girl. I'm a daddy's girl tom boy, turned girly girl. I enjoy the farm, horses, fishing, cars, and concerts. I like all kinds of music, especially rock (Godsmack is my favorite), but cant stand classical or hard core rap. I recently retired from the auto body repair business after 28 years, love the custom paint and body stuff! I'm now a full time college student, I've returned to school to get my degree in Automotive Engineering. I want to design a car. I am VERY tall-5'9", and thin ***lbs. If you are not at least 6' tall, we will look awkward together. No offense, but please, I like them TALL, at least 6'.. Born &- I moved back to KC in '07 when I left my ex. My divorce was final Oct09, now I'm ready to move forward again. I'm looking for the one to spend the rest of my days with, my soul mate. I believe in true love, I know I'll find him eventually. I'm not here for just a hook up, not interested in a booty call. If you send me inappropriate photos, or even request them, I will be turned off. Please have some class. I'm a Scorpio, I can be a very romantic, sensual person, but I do believe in chivalry and courting to earn the right.. If I had my way, I would stay in, cook my man an awesome meal, and snuggle up on the couch in front of the fire under a blanket. Did I mention I play a mean game of chess? I'm a thinker. I'm a great cook! And a great gardener- I can grow my own salad, & I love flowers, both getting them and growing them. I prefer to stay in and watch a movie. I love football season! I'm a die hard Chiefs fan, but since they have embarassed me & let me down, I will occasionally root for the Broncos. (I know-that's baaad!) I am quite the social butterfly, I do have a lot of friends. I enjoy going out and hanging out with them when I can. They are my offensive and defensive line, and yes, I'm the quarterback. I can be a complete beyotch when I have been offended, lied to, or disrespected,but I prefer to walk away from an ugly scene rather than show my fangs. That's the Scorpio in me, so just don't go there and you'll be fine. Certain signs need not apply, you'll need a Scorpio reference guide, like an ***, to undersand me. I do have a very flirtatious side to me, but I'm a very loyal and devoted person when I've found the right one.. I can be immature and irresponsible. And I do posess a twisted sense of humor.I have a great smile, so please, make me wear it. Now regarding this dating site...Yes, I am looking for the ONE. I want to be swept away, like a fairy tale. Dont give me a cheesy line, be yourself. I am not on here to speed date, I don't want a sugar daddy, I'm not on here to have a different guy buy me dinner every day of the week. I'm not gonna go on a date unless you completely spellbound me. I know exactly what I'm searching for, and I will not give up. I'm a tough nut to crack. I want to believe I'm well worth the chivalry. If you want me long term, you cannot be hit and miss. If there's EVER gonna be a first date, its gonna only be after I'm convinced you've actually read my profile. I will not drive 50miles to meet you, and it would raise my suspicion if you would want to do that for me. So NO long distance romances- Sorry, aint happening. And what's with all the 'Hang Outs' on here? Did that in high school. Either you want a relationshiop or you don't. If you want a hook up- go to Craigs List. Whew! Now with that said...My idea of a great first date would be to go someplace quaint and romantic, but public. Not too crowded, cuz I want to be able to hear about you, and what you have to say. I love the outdoors, under the stars.(IE-RedRocks Sunsets) A nice dinner, some wine, maybe some music. Save the movies, or a game of pool for date #2.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a hopeless romantic, looking for my knight. Well, I'll settle on a nice date! I was divorced in Sept of ***. I am 5'1" tall and ***lbs, and my hair is shoulder length. I have a teenage son who lives with me part of the week. I have a hobby/business refurbishing crystal chandeliers.I am a true romantic at heart, giving, and very loving. I am interested in learning about most things (just not math! I have an allergy to numbers!) and have a passion for living life to the fullest. It is important to me to stay fit and healthy, and I'm at the gym fairly often. I love to read lots of different types of books, especially anything about quantum physics (not that I understand it all!) and new age material. I am profoundly connected to my Jewish heritage, although I am more spiritual than religious. I am not one to need lots of people in my life, however, I am very social and enjoy getting together with friends and family.I am looking for an eventual long term relationship - a partner who I can dream with, and someone who complements me (and if they complimented me as well, that wouldn't be so bad!) I am extremely loyal, trustworthy, committed, and when I fall in love, it is completely and very deeply. I am hoping to find someone with similar values and ideals. I am more inclined to give, and most comfortable listening, rather than talking. However, I can talk if you want me to! :) I am also in tuned to the plight of the less fortunate, animals, and children, and am environmentally aware and interested in conservation. I am a nurturer by nature, and as I become more spiritual, I'm more in touch with what matters in life...friendship, love, and joy.I'm excited to meet someone to share the simple things in life with, as well as an occasional extravagance. I am looking for a down to earth, intelligent man with a deep appreciation for beauty of all kinds. I would guess that means a masculine guy who has a soft, sensitive, romantic side. I know you're out there somewhere! I also really want to learn about my partner and share in his interests.If you think we're compatible, send me an ***'d love to talk! :)

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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