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Berna, 47
United States, Indiana, Jeffersonville

Offline, last seen Fri, 10 Jul 2026 18:07:43

About Me

I'm not your average girl. I'm a daddy's girl tom boy, turned girly girl. I enjoy the farm, horses, fishing, cars, and concerts. I like all kinds of music, especially rock (Godsmack is my favorite), but cant stand classical or hard core rap. I recently retired from the auto body repair business after 28 years, love the custom paint and body stuff! I'm now a full time college student, I've returned to school to get my degree in Automotive Engineering. I want to design a car. I am VERY tall-5'9", and thin ***lbs. If you are not at least 6' tall, we will look awkward together. No offense, but please, I like them TALL, at least 6'.. Born &- I moved back to KC in '07 when I left my ex. My divorce was final Oct09, now I'm ready to move forward again. I'm looking for the one to spend the rest of my days with, my soul mate. I believe in true love, I know I'll find him eventually. I'm not here for just a hook up, not interested in a booty call. If you send me inappropriate photos, or even request them, I will be turned off. Please have some class. I'm a Scorpio, I can be a very romantic, sensual person, but I do believe in chivalry and courting to earn the right.. If I had my way, I would stay in, cook my man an awesome meal, and snuggle up on the couch in front of the fire under a blanket. Did I mention I play a mean game of chess? I'm a thinker. I'm a great cook! And a great gardener- I can grow my own salad, & I love flowers, both getting them and growing them. I prefer to stay in and watch a movie. I love football season! I'm a die hard Chiefs fan, but since they have embarassed me & let me down, I will occasionally root for the Broncos. (I know-that's baaad!) I am quite the social butterfly, I do have a lot of friends. I enjoy going out and hanging out with them when I can. They are my offensive and defensive line, and yes, I'm the quarterback. I can be a complete beyotch when I have been offended, lied to, or disrespected,but I prefer to walk away from an ugly scene rather than show my fangs. That's the Scorpio in me, so just don't go there and you'll be fine. Certain signs need not apply, you'll need a Scorpio reference guide, like an ***, to undersand me. I do have a very flirtatious side to me, but I'm a very loyal and devoted person when I've found the right one.. I can be immature and irresponsible. And I do posess a twisted sense of humor.I have a great smile, so please, make me wear it. Now regarding this dating site...Yes, I am looking for the ONE. I want to be swept away, like a fairy tale. Dont give me a cheesy line, be yourself. I am not on here to speed date, I don't want a sugar daddy, I'm not on here to have a different guy buy me dinner every day of the week. I'm not gonna go on a date unless you completely spellbound me. I know exactly what I'm searching for, and I will not give up. I'm a tough nut to crack. I want to believe I'm well worth the chivalry. If you want me long term, you cannot be hit and miss. If there's EVER gonna be a first date, its gonna only be after I'm convinced you've actually read my profile. I will not drive 50miles to meet you, and it would raise my suspicion if you would want to do that for me. So NO long distance romances- Sorry, aint happening. And what's with all the 'Hang Outs' on here? Did that in high school. Either you want a relationshiop or you don't. If you want a hook up- go to Craigs List. Whew! Now with that said...My idea of a great first date would be to go someplace quaint and romantic, but public. Not too crowded, cuz I want to be able to hear about you, and what you have to say. I love the outdoors, under the stars.(IE-RedRocks Sunsets) A nice dinner, some wine, maybe some music. Save the movies, or a game of pool for date #2.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Caribbean French Turkish Adventure Animation Horror Bowling Nascar Shooting Sports Soccer / Football
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