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Shanda, 44

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About Me

I am looking to meet new people, try new things and experience life to the fullest. Eventually and hopefully find the right one for me. Sense of humor, spontaneity, spirit of adventure, along with good morals and a kind soul are qualities I'm interested in. Someone who appreciates life and gets the most out of it. Someone caring, loving and genuine. Passion and good communication are the essential ingredients for a good relationship. If you're looking for a one night stand, please spare your time and mine! If you're looking to develop a relationship in time, that's exactly what I'm looking for. Does anyone know what integrity means...I have no sympathy for cheaters....get your life straight and move on!!..Oh and....everybody deserves a full sentence not to mention a full word...abbreviations are for science! Meet for a drink in a casual setting and see where it goes

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Andrea

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ***IF YOUR PROFILE SAYS NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP OR A COMMITMENT OF ANY KIND, I'M NOT INTERESTED!!!*** Im really into a man with hair on his head...especially eyebrows on his face!!! (What in the hell are you men doing to yourselves???)IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR THESE QUALITIES IN A FEMALE YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACETotal sweatheart with a huge heartA giving and passionate romanticAffectionate and CompassionateAlways says please and thank youHardworking and IndependentHappy person with a Positive attitudeAbility to be objective in every situationSmart and wittyCares about her appearanceClean and organized personFair, Kind and loving natureMature but still loves to be sillyLoves Family and Children as long as they aren't little squeekers! (hate whining!)Dog lover and allergic to catsDomestic Goddess (I cook, bake, sew, clean, give hair cuts gardening and interior design)MIss Fix it (Carpentry, paint, refinish furniture and floors, Upholstery, oil changes, tires changes, some plumbing and electrical)Doesn't **** and complain unless you give me a damn good reason!Hates drama and negativity (gives me anxiety and insomnia)Stays fit and LOVES sports!!!Loyal, honest, caring and genuine as I can be!I love making out and all the pleasures that come from a great relationship.I really hate the fact that good old fashioned dating has been ditched by the internet! Then please by all means...continue to get to know me.I do have a hard time finding someone, not only because Im probably way too selective but what I do for work as well as my work schedule can make it difficult as well.Most men have a preconceived notion that a female in construction is hard or getting hit on constantly (not the case with me!)When I work, I am one of the guys just busting my rear and talking smack and having a few laughs to pass the time as I earn my pay!I would never date or mess with anyone I work with, that's just plain idiotic! I do want someone to come home to...someone I miss all day!My friends also tell me that men are intimidated by me. Wth? I go after what I want! You should too!Ive never been married and have no children but I do want that someday! So....Why is a girl like me, at my age not married??? I have been engaged before but I won't settle for someone who doesn't treat me right or who is disloyal...would you?I am not a fan of looking towards divorce for the answer to "If it doesn't work out!" It's for life with me!I believe that Chemistry is KEY! Talk is cheap! I'm not a girl who cares about the material possessions of man, the car you drive or being a notch on your belt someday (thanks but no thanks).I want romance, the feeling of "I just can't get enough of you!" And his smile turning me inside out!Mostly I want my new best friend, someone I can share everything with and trust in him completely.I want someone (not need) a true gentleman who I can actually connect with on every level, his love feeds my soul type of love!!!Im a VERY down to earth female who is picky when it comes to who I date but am very easy to please.I've also found that if a guy is REALLY interested...he asks questions about a girl, wants to know everything about her! Fire away!Im ready to meet the man that inspires me and makes my sides hurt from laughing and yes...if I find you I want to keep you all to myself! ;)I'm not into having a penpal so if you can't step up to the plate and arrange a time when we can meet one another so that we may see if we have chemistry...I'd rather you not waste my time. Sorry but I have spent weeks talking to someone on here only to find that when we met, no chemistry between us existed. Not good!I'd say a weeks time is enough, should you make the effort to ask all the questions prior to see if a "fit" exists...from there it's about chemistry.My biggest flaw is that I am not a patient person but I am working on it so just wait! lol Maybe a walk by the lake, comedy club or batting cages, driving range or shooting range (something active would be great) or simply Coffee or drinks (which I'm sure most guys would choose because it's SAFE)I'd like to see your personality and imagination on this choice...I'm honestly not attracted to guys who take the easy way out and I'm not opposed to going dutch the first time we meet because after all, it's not really a date yet!(No movies) Watching MY BOYS whip some a$$ on ice!!!Not so into hearing about your ex! If it's not over...go back to her cos I don't want ya!Favorite Quotes: "Remember, tomorrow is promised to no one" Walter Payton"You miss 100% of the shots you never take!";It's easy to fool the eyes, but hard to fool the heart." Al Pacino"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!"

  • Harlow

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Good food is my ultimate aphrodisiac... I am in constant struggle with the rational and the irrational side of me...I make friends in the unlikeliest of places, and I love to talk! I truly do believe that life is too short to sweat the small stuff, and because of this I pick my battles carefully. I believe that laughter heals any and everything. What else can I share??? I'm random, impulsive and believe in good ol fashion chivalry.;Breakfast at Tiffany's" over and over. I love music, and much like my favorite movies, I will play the same cd over and over and over, just because of how it makes me feel when I listen to it. I just started to collect albums, and I do have a record player:) so much fun... When it works:) I think music is like a photo album... A song can take you back to a moment, a friend, a time in your life... I always have my music on!Let's see, my family and friends ground me... I will try anything once, twice if I am not sure.... I am VERY social, and not in the least bit shy. Damn, this is tough... I curse like a sailor, have been on here once before, but was truly not ready. My family comes first, that said I am the oldest in a very large, Irish, Catholic family, and I am definitely the "black sheep.” I subscribe to that statement and firmly believe that every family needs some color, I am that in spades! I love to laugh as I have mentioned earlier, and it truly has been my saving grace. Hmmmmm, let's see.... I speak my mind, I just don't believe in games... and as much as I try to avoid it, trouble always seems to find me. I am sure I will add more as the mood strikes me:) If you have any questions, please ask:) I am an open book, and if a chapter is closed, I will tell you! Promise:) We can decide together, but I think a drink and conversation is the best place to start... I'm equal opportunity, I love coffee, I'm addicted; but also love a glass of wine at the end of the day. (Add an obscure restaurant to the mix and that is even better!!!!) Peace and luck navigating the site! Jules

  • Gertude

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    .I want someone who will respect my mind,body and heart. .. who will be there not only as a friend but someone who is willing to build a future SLOWLY. Someone who is HONEST who will always speak the truth and willing to hold on until we both agree to move forward. Any personal questions you have feel free to ask!

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