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About Me

Good food is my ultimate aphrodisiac... I am in constant struggle with the rational and the irrational side of me...I make friends in the unlikeliest of places, and I love to talk! I truly do believe that life is too short to sweat the small stuff, and because of this I pick my battles carefully. I believe that laughter heals any and everything. What else can I share??? I'm random, impulsive and believe in good ol fashion chivalry.;Breakfast at Tiffany's" over and over. I love music, and much like my favorite movies, I will play the same cd over and over and over, just because of how it makes me feel when I listen to it. I just started to collect albums, and I do have a record player:) so much fun... When it works:) I think music is like a photo album... A song can take you back to a moment, a friend, a time in your life... I always have my music on!Let's see, my family and friends ground me... I will try anything once, twice if I am not sure.... I am VERY social, and not in the least bit shy. Damn, this is tough... I curse like a sailor, have been on here once before, but was truly not ready. My family comes first, that said I am the oldest in a very large, Irish, Catholic family, and I am definitely the "black sheep.” I subscribe to that statement and firmly believe that every family needs some color, I am that in spades! I love to laugh as I have mentioned earlier, and it truly has been my saving grace. Hmmmmm, let's see.... I speak my mind, I just don't believe in games... and as much as I try to avoid it, trouble always seems to find me. I am sure I will add more as the mood strikes me:) If you have any questions, please ask:) I am an open book, and if a chapter is closed, I will tell you! Promise:) We can decide together, but I think a drink and conversation is the best place to start... I'm equal opportunity, I love coffee, I'm addicted; but also love a glass of wine at the end of the day. (Add an obscure restaurant to the mix and that is even better!!!!) Peace and luck navigating the site! Jules

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Citlali

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi :-) I am a single mom of the best daughter a mom could ask for a true blessing from above she is my heart my life my all.. I enjoy a nice sunny day ;) dinner outside and great conversation,I like to stay fit and jog,walk as often as I can..I luv to cook and esp cook for that special guy..I am looking for a relationship not date after date obv unless with one person to get to know them..I like to be with one person,I like a strong,confident person,independent yet available..I am NOT looking for anything casual I am looking to hopefully meet a nice person with a solid foundation and direction a man that is looking to be with me give me there time and attention, enjoy each other's conversation and company...I want a friend a lover a true person who enjoys laughter as well as the good and bad we may encounter but overcome and be one.. ..I want a man who enjoys the silly things in life outside of the everyday pressures of work,family etc..My guy would be a professional ,smart yet funny serious but silly secure with himself and know what is important in life and never settle..height and weight are not a main factor it is what is in the heart that out shines the rest..In return I am funny,serious, focused, cute,sexy,playful..Love attention kisses hugs hand holding and to just be as one (with the right person)Distance is not a issue or a deal breaker for me :)) If its a right fit it is sure worth it..If ur young but grounded mature then that is ok as well.. if you have children great too You must at least love children as I have a daughter who means more to me than anything so i come as a package so this must be known and understood :***Please be real some of us truly want to make that ONE connection...Someone who calls to say Good Morning, How was your day.. and most importantly says Good Night to there Girl.. It is the little things that make the difference and hold the most meaning ;***Please only message me if you are looking for a real honest relationship,someone you can be with.. be loyal and commited,honest,funny and serious in what you seek in one person..Chemistry is key there has to be a connection but first connection is that initial conversation too so take a chance talk then meet why the rush to meet in a half a second..Again I am Only looking for a serious minded man for a true commited relationship if your looking for a sure thing look at the next profile and best of luck :***All my pics are current so please represent yourself correctly.....and everyone asks what do you weigh I am ***and fit.. so now you know Lol I would like to TALK not text or *** if we are the right fit and go from there,coffee something casual and if it goes well then lunch or dinner or both are always an option :)Chat on here for a bit then see if there could be more to move to the next step :***

  • Andrina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well the wine bottle wont talk to you but I will. Wine a little..and you will feel better. Anyway, i do like wine and it does seem to make a moment relaxed and a little daring to have a conversation. Not that I can't do that without wine, but i do like it. It's even healthy for you in small amounts. So if you want to meet and have a glass of wine and perhaps dinner if we can still talk, that would be good. The classy side of me likes to listen to a live jazz or blues at a restaurant. However I like the fun music too. I like all kinds of music old and new. Not so much a country girl or heavy metel, but anything that is truly sung with true emotion and calamity is what I like. Got a bicycle? I've done some fishing but unfortunately I prefer someone else to clean the fish-I would if i had to. Hike, bike, tube, canoe, kayak...love it all. I absolutely love cooking over a campfire. I'm very capable. I'm the persone to "go to" if you forgot something to bring. Ask me more.My goal is to find someone who is on the same page with me and likes to do things. I used to frequent the bars being single and I am so turned off by that whole business at this time in my life. Not that I don't enjoy going out for one here and there once in awhile, but would rather be doing something more useful and constructive. I really want to meet someone iniatially to date and see if it develops into something. I want to give love and be loved-what everyone wants. Well, like I said about the wine, wouldn't mind having one on a date. I promise I will not get drunk or silly like that. A wine tasting would be an excellent idea. But certainly don't need to spend a lot of money on just a date so I would rather keep it simple. Could go out for coffee or a lunch outside by the water (when it is warmer out). I'm pretty new at this so...i don't plan on anyting too extravagant. You could always meet me camping somewhere also. Your ideas?

  • Leigha

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there!! So...a little about me... I consider myself a down to earth girl. The simple things in life make me happy, like hanging out with my family and friends. I have 2 dogs that are like my kids, so I need someone who loves animals!! During the week I am very focused on my career but when the weekend gets here I love to go out and have a great time! My favorite weekend activity is karaoke...and I actually CAN sing. :) I love taking vacations...who doesn't....my favorite vaca spot is any beach!! I am a very happy, outgoing person who is now ready to re enter the dating world.If you do not have a picture and you message me, I will not message back.

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