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Good food is my ultimate aphrodisiac... I am in constant struggle with the rational and the irrational side of me...I make friends in the unlikeliest of places, and I love to talk! I truly do believe that life is too short to sweat the small stuff, and because of this I pick my battles carefully. I believe that laughter heals any and everything. What else can I share??? I'm random, impulsive and believe in good ol fashion chivalry.;Breakfast at Tiffany's" over and over. I love music, and much like my favorite movies, I will play the same cd over and over and over, just because of how it makes me feel when I listen to it. I just started to collect albums, and I do have a record player:) so much fun... When it works:) I think music is like a photo album... A song can take you back to a moment, a friend, a time in your life... I always have my music on!Let's see, my family and friends ground me... I will try anything once, twice if I am not sure.... I am VERY social, and not in the least bit shy. Damn, this is tough... I curse like a sailor, have been on here once before, but was truly not ready. My family comes first, that said I am the oldest in a very large, Irish, Catholic family, and I am definitely the "black sheep.” I subscribe to that statement and firmly believe that every family needs some color, I am that in spades! I love to laugh as I have mentioned earlier, and it truly has been my saving grace. Hmmmmm, let's see.... I speak my mind, I just don't believe in games... and as much as I try to avoid it, trouble always seems to find me. I am sure I will add more as the mood strikes me:) If you have any questions, please ask:) I am an open book, and if a chapter is closed, I will tell you! Promise:) We can decide together, but I think a drink and conversation is the best place to start... I'm equal opportunity, I love coffee, I'm addicted; but also love a glass of wine at the end of the day. (Add an obscure restaurant to the mix and that is even better!!!!) Peace and luck navigating the site! Jules

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-38

    Hi! My name is Shanna. I am never married catholic caucasian woman with kids from Greencastle, Indiana, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Cathern

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    What to say, does anyone read this? I say not but here goes, I am a pretty simple person who has a great job, an amazing family, pretty fun friends but I am missing someone special in my life. I was married for 10 years and divorced for 5. While I have no children I do have wonderful nieces and a godchild and feel pretty confident I can handle anything they throw at me. You should also know I have two Shih Tzus (furry little dogs...lol) that have no plans on moving out any time soon. My kids with fur can however stay with my parents at a moments notice if I decide to take a last minute vacation :). I love my jobs, yes I have two,it keeps me busy and grounded, am always taking a class here and there to keep my mind sharp. My family lives at the beach, its tough to have to visit in the summer but someone has to, my friends are crazy and wonderful, my parents are still married after 54 years, they give me hope in a happy ever after. I like my gyms, (yes both of them), reading and probably have too many pairs of shoes but that is my only vice so I would say that isnt so bad.I have no drama in my life and dont tolerate people who do. I am looking to add some fun and joy and excitement to my life not complicate it. To have a date for dinner, a gym partner and someone to call at the end of the day. I could go on but then what would you have to ask me about when we meet ?Thanks for reading Coffee, frozen yogurt, the gym, shoe shopping, somewhere with an escape route :)

  • Modesty

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ME: An energetic, responsible yet sassy woman with a passion for playfulness to keep things interesting. Life adds up to simple pleasures; connections, conversation, intelligent humour and trust. I am looking for someone to challenge me and make me smile. I am comfortable at a gala, in the boardroom or wearing my blue jeans. My friends are quality not quantity, most a 30 year relationship. They would describe me as honest, curious, self motivated, loyal and caring with a silly side that craves both intellect and laughter. I have strong family values and my 3 boys ***yrs) always come first.No IM's please, write me an *** would like to chat. If we hit it off via *** conversation and meeting in person should follow soon after. I hope to be off this site sooner rather than later....YOU: Independent, responsible, caring and honest with an edge for humour and wit. Random acts of kindness are your nature and you subscribe to the notion that chivalry is not dead. You understand the difficult yet rewarding balance of family, work and relationships, and can communicate openly and honestly. Looking for someone to share in your life - the challenges, victories and even the boring day to day that is always more enjoyable with company!Send me a note if any of this resonates with you.....Cheers! Beverages hot or cold would be nice...throw in some food which always compliments conversation. Somewhere local since I prefer a partner who is in close proximity!

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