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Martina, 44
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

Offline, last seen Sat, 14 Mar 2026 01:44:59

About Me

First... Not looking to date your Car or Bike, Not superficial and not impressed by that sorry... Impress me with Honesty/Loyalty..PERFECT DOES NOT EXIST! What does exist that I would like to find is...A man to love me without fear, trust me without questioning. Need me without demanding, want me without restrictions. Accept me without change, desire me without inhibitions. A man who is kind, honest, focused, secure, attentive, sincere, thoughtful, a good communicator--an all-around good man. A man who is very outgoing, educated,intellectual,loyal,nice, dependable, motivated, talented, high morals, very respectful,down to earth, attractive, romantic, and open-minded, also flawed, makes mistakes and has bad days as I do. I would like to find a man that can be the man he describes himself as, rather then a man who describes who he would like to be. Self respect and loyalty are very big with me. I am very dedicated and loving, I love to put on a pair of high heels and a gown or dress, however I am equally as comfortable in a pair of jeans and riding a bike or house back riding. I love to be the gentle, soft, loving, seductive woman I am, which seem most woman forgot what that is, and even how to be feminine. However, that is not an option to any/every person I meet, that is a part to share after I feel you are real and really do want to know who I am, and what I am about. I am not here to impress no one, I am my own person, with my own thoughts and wants just like you, and want to be able to share them with someone willing to do the same, it is a desire of mine to find a man willing to work to build a strong relationship, not a perfect one. A man to share an imperfect life with, someone who can bring out my best as I would for him. A man who is aware it means work, but it also means great reward. There is no such thing as perfect. I am not looking for a follower, If your views and opinions change with each person you speak with, or according to the crowd your with, then I definitely am not a good choice for you, that is definitely not a roller-coaster I will ride. I want to know your thoughts and wants and desires be good, bad, or indifferent. I want to share them, enjoy them with you. I would like to find a man who can share my desires and I his, but if your with a true person, anything and everything you both want and desire should be open for discussion and experiencing together. I am honest, true and very passionate & playful. For me it is not about need it is all about want. I am looking for a man who can be true, honest, affectionate and definitely passionate. There is no shame in showing your affections to the person your with. If your looking for quick or easy keep trolling you will only have your pride hurt here, I am not a gamer or a serial dater / layer. I have more respect for myself. I am a woman of conviction and strong values and morals and I do my best to live by them. Not into the games at all, and definitely not afraid to walk away from someone trying to play one. You should be able to be my best friend, my lover and my partner, even my teacher. Stand beside me and walk together, not ahead, I walk in no-ones shadow, nor will I be just an option. I would never treat you as such. I treat those as I am treated and, any healthy relationship comes with dedication and work. To find a man who will be a friend first and build something real and amazing. A great first date could be anything, would be a nice casual dinner someplace quiet where we could talk and see if we can communicate and if there is that so called spark..or itu could be meeting up at a coffee shop or a lounge, I do think it should be someplace not so distracting so we could talk or joke and see how we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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