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Martina, 44

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About Me

First... Not looking to date your Car or Bike, Not superficial and not impressed by that sorry... Impress me with Honesty/Loyalty..PERFECT DOES NOT EXIST! What does exist that I would like to find is...A man to love me without fear, trust me without questioning. Need me without demanding, want me without restrictions. Accept me without change, desire me without inhibitions. A man who is kind, honest, focused, secure, attentive, sincere, thoughtful, a good communicator--an all-around good man. A man who is very outgoing, educated,intellectual,loyal,nice, dependable, motivated, talented, high morals, very respectful,down to earth, attractive, romantic, and open-minded, also flawed, makes mistakes and has bad days as I do. I would like to find a man that can be the man he describes himself as, rather then a man who describes who he would like to be. Self respect and loyalty are very big with me. I am very dedicated and loving, I love to put on a pair of high heels and a gown or dress, however I am equally as comfortable in a pair of jeans and riding a bike or house back riding. I love to be the gentle, soft, loving, seductive woman I am, which seem most woman forgot what that is, and even how to be feminine. However, that is not an option to any/every person I meet, that is a part to share after I feel you are real and really do want to know who I am, and what I am about. I am not here to impress no one, I am my own person, with my own thoughts and wants just like you, and want to be able to share them with someone willing to do the same, it is a desire of mine to find a man willing to work to build a strong relationship, not a perfect one. A man to share an imperfect life with, someone who can bring out my best as I would for him. A man who is aware it means work, but it also means great reward. There is no such thing as perfect. I am not looking for a follower, If your views and opinions change with each person you speak with, or according to the crowd your with, then I definitely am not a good choice for you, that is definitely not a roller-coaster I will ride. I want to know your thoughts and wants and desires be good, bad, or indifferent. I want to share them, enjoy them with you. I would like to find a man who can share my desires and I his, but if your with a true person, anything and everything you both want and desire should be open for discussion and experiencing together. I am honest, true and very passionate & playful. For me it is not about need it is all about want. I am looking for a man who can be true, honest, affectionate and definitely passionate. There is no shame in showing your affections to the person your with. If your looking for quick or easy keep trolling you will only have your pride hurt here, I am not a gamer or a serial dater / layer. I have more respect for myself. I am a woman of conviction and strong values and morals and I do my best to live by them. Not into the games at all, and definitely not afraid to walk away from someone trying to play one. You should be able to be my best friend, my lover and my partner, even my teacher. Stand beside me and walk together, not ahead, I walk in no-ones shadow, nor will I be just an option. I would never treat you as such. I treat those as I am treated and, any healthy relationship comes with dedication and work. To find a man who will be a friend first and build something real and amazing. A great first date could be anything, would be a nice casual dinner someplace quiet where we could talk and see if we can communicate and if there is that so called spark..or itu could be meeting up at a coffee shop or a lounge, I do think it should be someplace not so distracting so we could talk or joke and see how we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lesli

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Now that's a storey. -GoodkatWhimsy tid bit- I don't wear purphume because I can't spell it.Update: A friend of a friend said she thought I looked ***yrs. Not quite sure how to take that considering the callow, yet heartfelt assessment of the source- a 21yr old. Guess I'll take it with a grain of salt.Update: I love this time of year. Spring- the buds are budding, the flowers are blooming, everybody is friendly, the flip flops are an option, and the bbq is calling. I'm enjoying the season, and only see more to come.Update: If you ask me how my dating life is going, I will answer non-existent. Otherwise, excellent.Update: If you're using a photo that is not a true representation of who you are, please DO NOT *** I happen to ***, DO NOT reply. The wool over my eyes will soon be uncovered. Not cool. Copy that? Copy that.Question: ( Courtesy of a fella trying to stump me- Got it in 2 tries)- Add 5 to 10 to equal 3.Observation: I realize everyone has unique/different genes. It appears many have the "you-look-old-for-your-stated-age" gene. Translation- there's no effin way you're 38 when you look 51. Just sayingQuestion: If you give 100% of 10%, how much did you give?Update: I don't care what anyone says, minus (any temperature) is too cold. I'm a summer girl.About moi: Playful- it's funSmart- I can do some mathFunny- I make every one laughFriendly- Your friends will love meHonest- Tell it the way it is, with tactCaring- I will babysit your dog..... Edit that- I will walk your dogEmpathetic- See things from your pointSarcastic- Cause I can't punch you in the eyeballImpatient- In traffic..."move your Honda Civic a$$" Note: I don't have road rage, but it's the perfect place to verbally vent. Just looks like I'm singing.- I love to develop great tasting food, therefore I'm a very good cookAttractive- I look good... and youngAbout you:Integrity- You're full of itFunny- Nothing like making a girl laughEmpathetic- You're self-awareWitty- Goes with funny and sarcasticEdgy- Just cause I like thatAttractive- You look good toOther stuff: High emo IQ, you live somewhere other then your mother's basement, you have introduced yourself to the kitchen and not just the *** & box-o-cerealNo, I don't live in a world of magic and unicorns, but optimistic you possess a few of the above attributes..they may even overlap.About us: Let nature take it's course.A little poem: I'm sugar and spice and everything nice- so, bite me!Note: Not all my children are over 18, one is, the other is close enough. Put some ideas into a hat.

  • Tamsyn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well here I go, trying this online dating thing.I have come to fall in love with this rideing on a motorcycle again,I so much enjoy the wind in my hair and the sun on my face, the meeting of friends ,and the sunsets.Could and would give you your monies worth at a game of golf ..hee heeMusic comes to me in some many ways,depends on the mood but I love it all BLUES,80s Rock,Sad Rock,Soft Rock maybe I should just say Rock in general.Food ...gotta have food! favorites ..Steak,Prime Rib,Shrimp,Lobster,Mexican,Wine,Beer,Please only message me to the following criteria:1. Must have photo.2. Must be between the ages of 40 and 60. Must not want a sexual encounter.4. Must have a motorcycle.If you dont like it to bad...move on!!!! . Good Luck..5. Lets keep this simple....for the first incounter lets meet for a Appetizer and a Beverage and than go from there.

  • Elizabeth

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I grew up in small towns, and am attracted to having some *wiggle*-room, but i also appreciate being close to the city, but far enough away so i can go back to my little sanctuary...I like..; nights, a yummy cuppa joe, cooking breakfast together, mornings, yoga & pilates, nutrition, giving and receiving massages, touch, new experiences and learning something fun and exciting like a class working on a degree or personal enrichment. I would love to... I want to go everywhere, but those just came to me. Learn to play the guitar (I have one, just need now to take some lessons). Metal smithing would be cool too. Fly fish more. Learn to kayak. Be mortgage free and self-sufficient.. the dream! I do...Watch my mouth.. there's nothing trashier than to hear a woman swear like a sailor (such a turn off for us, too). I don't have addictions to alcohol, don't spend my time in the bars, and don't take drugs of any kind. So if you drink a lot or take drugs or have any other strange addictions, then we're probably not a good match. I thrive on being sober, love the feeling. And it's not because I'm better than anyone else, but I do have certain expectations of myself and it's what I have chosen not to have in my life. And, I'm looking for the same in my friends and love. Update: Yes, I do drink socially, but you won't find me hanging around the bars. I've been getting into wine-making so maybe we can share a glass or three =) And if you don't drink, that's fine too. I wont pressure you...much ;) I am...Pretty well balanced, and grounded. Logical. But, dreamy at times. I prefer calmness and harmony in my life, try to avoid conflicts and try to look at things from an outward perspective. Everyone has their own story and I value that. It is how we've overcome our failures and past that has made us. I believe you are what you think. I choose happiness =) I try to keep my distance from those who are quick to anger or who are just generally unhappy with their life and situation. Another issue that seems to need attention is the anxiety and baggage out there. If you have your therapist on speed dial, it's likely we won't be a match. I'm not a hater, but only happy, positive people please.Not...Defined by politics. I know some people take them very personally, but honestly they're not for me. Religion and Politics are two things I don't delve deeply into. I'm not religious, and I'm not politcal, meaning they don't define me. I am spiritual... nature is my church, the earth is my temple. I'm content with my views and will share them with you if you're curious :)I don't follow the latest fashion designs, labels, pretty low-key and low maintenance. I'm no drama mama, just fun and good times. Life is too short to be grumpy and jealous.Movies and Music...Anything with a message. Action adventure, comedies are good, not a fan of TV. I have one, but don't have cable-- Just a colossal waste of time in my opinion. But, love going to the movies on date night. My music tastes are off the charts.. it varies. If it's good music, I'll listen to it. If it evokes feeling or emotion, usually listen to that too. Although I listen to some rock, I've been listening to Celtic, Spa & Meditation, trail songs, anything different than the mainstream norm.Also, I see a lot of very general, "i like to hike, bike, climb, ski and i love sports" That's great, I like adventure and activity, too, but what is it that sets you apart from the other person? Do you have a talent or special interest or experience to share? I'll share mine with you. I won't even make you ask :) For 10 years, I operated a retail nursery greenhouse on the western slope, and I like to think I have a pretty green thumb, a business mind and a strong connection with horticulture and the land. I would actually get back into it with the ideal partner, but never alone again. I like the idea of homesteading. Holistic arts and healing impress me more than western medicine. If you also take care of yourself, and have a healthy mind and body, and you think we might have something in common, I would love to hear from you =) Somewhere we can get to know each other, like a festival or hike... then ice cream or something cool and yummy afterward. Or let's try a craft beer at a local microbrewery. Please no coffee dates ---what a lackluster way to meet someone. I am ultimately seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship, not necessarily marriage, but just you and I, to share experiences together, travel, new culinary delights and all things fun in life. So, if you like what you see, and you have passion for life, and desire to know more about other cultures, travel and adventures, chat me up and say hello! At the very least, we'd have a travel partner ;)Good Luck to you =)reclaim your ***

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