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Otilia, 45
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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About Me

Hobbies/activities... cooking, gardening, hiking, outdoorsy type stuff, motorcycles, music, moviesGoals & aspirations... Be the best I can be at all that I do, and strive to be betterMe... I'm happy, positive, loving, adventurous, energetic, but at the same time have a very laid back personality. I have a good sense of humor, with a quick wit, and a bit of east coast sarcasm. I love, love, love to laugh! I am told I am not your average female. I think that has to do with my low threshold for drama, and my level of honesty. Ok, and maybe because I'm kind of a goof. I'm very comfortable in my own skin. Not much mystery in what I'm thinking ;) I stay active and although I'm a busy lady I take care of myself and I like to stay in shape. I'm curvy, but told they are in all the right places ;)I am a keep it simple kind of lady. Life is complicated enough. I love to live life and prefer not to get caught up in the little things... oh, they're all pretty much little things aren't they? Music.....depends on the mood, or the activity. Love christian rock because of the positive message, but I will pretty much listen to anything....especially live!Enough about me!You...hopefully share some, or many of the same qualities and interests. You are not a player, and are not looking for a fling or a one night stand. You're honest. You have values and morals, and integrity means something to you. You are stable and secure. You aren't in the middle of a midlife crisis. You have a sense of humor and don't take life too seriously!Not a necessity, but bonus points if you have a bike, like to ride, and are safe with a passenger, because as stated, I like motorcycles. I don't have one...yet....but I do love to ride!All that being said, if you'd like to get to know me better, message me and let's chat. If I don't respond right away, don't take it personally. I'm probably just super busy. :)Catch ya later...Some after thoughts....Years of experience has taught me that anything worth having is worth waiting for. That being said, I like to take time to get to know someone, and become friends first and see how things go. I am perfectly happy to patiently wait for what's meant to be. Eventually, I'd like to fall in love with someone I can build life with. When that happens, I will give him all the love and loyalty my heart has to offer. However, nothing can be built successfully without a solid foundation. Furthermore, my time is valueable and so is yours. I know who I like to hang with, and I'm sure you do too. If things aren't headed in a favorable direction for one or both of us, its all good. Pushy, over persistant and needy are huge turnoffs and make me really uncomfortable.Lastly, and something I consider trivial, but you may not...when I put this up, my hair was blonde. Today its red. Next week it may be blonde again. I do that sometimes. I get bored. Nothing too radical though, I promise! ;) Call me old fashioned, but I like to get to know someone a bit. I'm not one to want to have the rest of our lives figured out within the next 2 hours. So, let's enjoy talking over a good cup of coffee, or perhaps a walk in the park. If there's something more to explore, we'll get there when we get there. No hurries, no worries

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Cathern from Greencastle | Woman | 41 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    What to say, does anyone read this? I say not but here goes, I am a pretty simple person who has a great job, an amazing family, pretty fun friends but I am missing someone special in my life. I was married for 10 years and divorced for 5. While I have no children I do have wonderful nieces and a godchild and feel pretty confident I can handle anything they throw at me. You should also know I have two Shih Tzus (furry little dogs...lol) that have no plans on moving out any time soon. My kids with fur can however stay with my parents at a moments notice if I decide to take a last minute vacation :). I love my jobs, yes I have two,it keeps me busy and grounded, am always taking a class here and there to keep my mind sharp. My family lives at the beach, its tough to have to visit in the summer but someone has to, my friends are crazy and wonderful, my parents are still married after 54 years, they give me hope in a happy ever after. I like my gyms, (yes both of them), reading and probably have too many pairs of shoes but that is my only vice so I would say that isnt so bad.I have no drama in my life and dont tolerate people who do. I am looking to add some fun and joy and excitement to my life not complicate it. To have a date for dinner, a gym partner and someone to call at the end of the day. I could go on but then what would you have to ask me about when we meet ?Thanks for reading Coffee, frozen yogurt, the gym, shoe shopping, somewhere with an escape route :)

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  • Adrea from Greencastle | Woman | 41 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a hard working loving woman looking for a loving man who wants a loving woman to spend time with and do things with. I like walks in the parks love the fall not to cold and not to warm. I like concerts spending time with family cook outs and just going out dancing. love spending time with friends. I want a man who will eventually want to be a family. I want somebody to share my life with that will enjoy family fun and some personal alone time. I love country music enjoy all music in general. Our first date would be meeting at a public place either for drinks or dinner going to a movie and getting a drink and dance after. would love getting to know one another.

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  • Mozelle from Greencastle | Woman | 41 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a great catch, have a great sense of humor, I am stable, educated, dedicated, loving and ready. Let the last word sit there for awhile. Prior to now, I simply wasn't ready for a commitment. Dating wasn't a priority. Times have changed, I'm not getting any younger and am seriously looking for someone to share the rest of my life with. If anything, let the fact that I've been single this long be a testament to my independence, individuality and comfort of being single. I've never settled and never will. I would much rather be alone then be lonely with the person next to me. A bit about me: I'm a CO native who is fun, spontaneous, likes to travel and trying new things.I have spent the last several years building a career that has now left me needing something more outta life. That's where you come in. I'm looking to meet someone to spend some quality time with. To travel and experience new things together. I do not have any kids but it's ok if you do. I love kids and am great with them. Two of my most favorite people in the world are my niece and nephew whom I'm very close with. I understand that dating someone with kids can be a challenge and I can only hope that I'd be placed in second position to your kids as they should always come first.I enjoy golfing, kickboxing, walking my dog, hanging out with friends in a location that allows for a nice conversation and some cold beers. I'm pretty independent and don't feel like I need a man in my life but would like to find someone that I can call a friend and life partner. I'm not needy and respect differences and time needed away from each other. Overall, I think I'm a pretty good catch with a great smile and good sense of humor (a bit on the sarcastic side). I prefer first date to be pretty informal and more of a meet and greet type of atmosphere. So a drink with appetizers or a cup of coffee is a great start. There's always the rest of the day or evening if things go well.

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