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Otilia, 45

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Hobbies/activities... cooking, gardening, hiking, outdoorsy type stuff, motorcycles, music, moviesGoals & aspirations... Be the best I can be at all that I do, and strive to be betterMe... I'm happy, positive, loving, adventurous, energetic, but at the same time have a very laid back personality. I have a good sense of humor, with a quick wit, and a bit of east coast sarcasm. I love, love, love to laugh! I am told I am not your average female. I think that has to do with my low threshold for drama, and my level of honesty. Ok, and maybe because I'm kind of a goof. I'm very comfortable in my own skin. Not much mystery in what I'm thinking ;) I stay active and although I'm a busy lady I take care of myself and I like to stay in shape. I'm curvy, but told they are in all the right places ;)I am a keep it simple kind of lady. Life is complicated enough. I love to live life and prefer not to get caught up in the little things... oh, they're all pretty much little things aren't they? Music.....depends on the mood, or the activity. Love christian rock because of the positive message, but I will pretty much listen to anything....especially live!Enough about me!You...hopefully share some, or many of the same qualities and interests. You are not a player, and are not looking for a fling or a one night stand. You're honest. You have values and morals, and integrity means something to you. You are stable and secure. You aren't in the middle of a midlife crisis. You have a sense of humor and don't take life too seriously!Not a necessity, but bonus points if you have a bike, like to ride, and are safe with a passenger, because as stated, I like motorcycles. I don't have one...yet....but I do love to ride!All that being said, if you'd like to get to know me better, message me and let's chat. If I don't respond right away, don't take it personally. I'm probably just super busy. :)Catch ya later...Some after thoughts....Years of experience has taught me that anything worth having is worth waiting for. That being said, I like to take time to get to know someone, and become friends first and see how things go. I am perfectly happy to patiently wait for what's meant to be. Eventually, I'd like to fall in love with someone I can build life with. When that happens, I will give him all the love and loyalty my heart has to offer. However, nothing can be built successfully without a solid foundation. Furthermore, my time is valueable and so is yours. I know who I like to hang with, and I'm sure you do too. If things aren't headed in a favorable direction for one or both of us, its all good. Pushy, over persistant and needy are huge turnoffs and make me really uncomfortable.Lastly, and something I consider trivial, but you may not...when I put this up, my hair was blonde. Today its red. Next week it may be blonde again. I do that sometimes. I get bored. Nothing too radical though, I promise! ;) Call me old fashioned, but I like to get to know someone a bit. I'm not one to want to have the rest of our lives figured out within the next 2 hours. So, let's enjoy talking over a good cup of coffee, or perhaps a walk in the park. If there's something more to explore, we'll get there when we get there. No hurries, no worries

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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