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JulianeOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
HHHHMMMM???...Well, i am a better listener than talker. I am spiritual..not religious..not into one night stands..believe honesty is essential..Looking for someone who will make me feel like i am the most beautiful woman in a room!!!!! Love movies..all kinds...love to read...just finished 50 Shades of Grey..reading Hunger Games now...love all kinds of music..Like to think im very open-minded..:-)...and so on.. I like to b surprised...surprise me with something unforgettable!
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VernellOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
This is the part where the wonderful description of ourselves goes hmmm? It is a somewhat daunting task to describe oneself. So here it goes, some random things about me: At my best I am spirited, curious, and diverse, at my worst stubborn and I talk too much. I try to be a better me everyday, physically, and mentally. I am very straightforward and take things as they come to me. If you ask me my opinion, I will tell you, tactfully of course, and it will be exactly that, my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I am a self described glass is half full girl. Honesty is of great importance to me. So is laughter. I don't gossip, it's unkind. I keep confidences because it is important to be trustworthy. The best compliment I ever received was that I am compassionate. The best advice ever given to me was "we regret in life more the things we don't do than the things we do". I am a people person. I love kids and old people (I know that sounds hokey, but I do!) They usually have an interesting take on things. I am inspired by nature and the outdoors. I am learning to fish because my children love fishing. Last year I learned to shoot and loved it! I am also rather bookish, reading and writing are my escape. I love movies, music, and theater. I speak fluent German. I like early mornings as much as late nights. My favorite movie is "It's a wonderful life". My current favorite song is "Sometimes I get a feeling" by Flo Rida. I will dance, although it is usually in my kitchen while cleaning. I am not a huge sports buff but will hang around for the occaisional sporting event, I am artistic and inventive and love gardening and have been know to bouts of baking a bit compulsively. Yea, there's more but if you got this far and you're still reading and curious you'll have to ask, otherwise it'd be just as well to simply publish my autobiography in this here small box for your reading pleasure and just skip the whole dating thing. :)Addendum: I am flattered by the many responses I have gotten in my first 2 days here. I don't know if it because I am brand new and it will begin to drop off after a bit, however I do try to respond to most even if I am not interested. Please don't be offended, I have spent time thinking and have a pretty good idea of what I want in someone I will choose to spend time with. Days may be long, but life is short and I see no point in wasting anyone's time. I have a few criteria that are general reasons I will not date someone- If you are closer to my kids age than mine, thank you for stopping by, as a general rule I prefer to date a bit older, next you don't have to be a rocket scientist but you have to know something about something, be able to write an intelligable note (perfection is not necessary) and hold a conversation, one that goes back and forth, don't expect me to do all the work, I am a woman that wants to be wooed, (yes, I am so worth it), I have many interests, hopefully so do you so we will have plenty to talk about and you should like to do something I do or vice versa, SO, if you have nothing to say please go to the library (is that harsh? I hope not it's just that is the appropriate place to be quiet, not on a date ) Next I want to be able to see your face, your stuff is nice, so is your dog and your home is beautiful, I know those pictures are meant to say things about you, but the picture of you should show your face clearly and should be recent, and oh yes you look great in your sunglasses but I want to see your eyes. As a sidenote, smile! You are here to find a date not get a part in the next serious guy movie. PS. Sports are ok, like I said I will watch on occasion, but if you're into sports and only sports I am not you gal either. Sports is what I see as a great excuse for you to have your time and me to have mine but I prefer not to spend a date that way. Lastly I am a 42 year old woman, with a real 42 year old woman's body. I have had 2 children so let's be real. I have curves, some in the right places and some not so much. I will not ask you if I look fat in this outfit, I am generally pretty comfortable in my own skin, but if physical perfection is important to you then you need to hop off the bus gus. Oh yea, and anything too forward or freaky fetish stuff should be saved. Sex is important in relationships, note: in relationships, not in a weird first hi I'm so-n-so note. Thank you for you patience, please carry on4 month Update: I no longer try to respond to most, it's too much to do, I am a busy girl. It gets exhausting to keep explaining things over and over. Convincing someone, no, really you're not my type. Sorry. Not trying to be mean...so If I don't respond you haven't caught my intrest or you don't meet the criteria. It is hard to reject someone, no one wants to do that. So yea, sometimes it is easier to say nothing. Some of you write the nicest things too, which makes it even harder. But that is just how it is, sometimes we just don't feel it. So if I don't respond, thank you for your note, I am always flattered. This is not an easy way to meet someone, feels unnatural and backwards. Also if you ask for my number and I give it to you, call me, don't text me. If the phone conversation goes ok then maybe we can text. Finally, I do this all on my phone so I cannot do the online chat thing, so don't be offended when I don't respond. ;) This first date box is kinda silly, because we all just want to look at a person face to face, see if they are still attractive (do they really look like the picture that attracted you) find out if there is mutual chemistry and does this individual have anything of interest to contribute or is sitting with them a tortuous strained affair. It's anyone's guess folks, this is afterall internet dating...so whatever it takes to relax and be yourself
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HarlowOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Good food is my ultimate aphrodisiac... I am in constant struggle with the rational and the irrational side of me...I make friends in the unlikeliest of places, and I love to talk! I truly do believe that life is too short to sweat the small stuff, and because of this I pick my battles carefully. I believe that laughter heals any and everything. What else can I share??? I'm random, impulsive and believe in good ol fashion chivalry.;Breakfast at Tiffany's" over and over. I love music, and much like my favorite movies, I will play the same cd over and over and over, just because of how it makes me feel when I listen to it. I just started to collect albums, and I do have a record player:) so much fun... When it works:) I think music is like a photo album... A song can take you back to a moment, a friend, a time in your life... I always have my music on!Let's see, my family and friends ground me... I will try anything once, twice if I am not sure.... I am VERY social, and not in the least bit shy. Damn, this is tough... I curse like a sailor, have been on here once before, but was truly not ready. My family comes first, that said I am the oldest in a very large, Irish, Catholic family, and I am definitely the "black sheep.” I subscribe to that statement and firmly believe that every family needs some color, I am that in spades! I love to laugh as I have mentioned earlier, and it truly has been my saving grace. Hmmmmm, let's see.... I speak my mind, I just don't believe in games... and as much as I try to avoid it, trouble always seems to find me. I am sure I will add more as the mood strikes me:) If you have any questions, please ask:) I am an open book, and if a chapter is closed, I will tell you! Promise:) We can decide together, but I think a drink and conversation is the best place to start... I'm equal opportunity, I love coffee, I'm addicted; but also love a glass of wine at the end of the day. (Add an obscure restaurant to the mix and that is even better!!!!) Peace and luck navigating the site! Jules