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Effi, 42

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About Me

I Love life and finding out ways to enjoy it more. Always smiling and laughing. Down to earth and easy to get along with. I know who I am but not a bit of arrogance in me.If your looking for someone with lots of personality/spunk/witty/confidence/ smart alack/downtown gal who also enjoys the outdoors/a kind heart/and a good all around gal..you won't be disappointed with me. :)Love the outdoors especially in the summer. Hiking, exploring new places, biking, camping, new restaurants, concerts and open to trying anything at least once. I enjoy going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and working on getting into the best shape of my life. I"m more on the curvy side but with muscle. :) Would love to travel more and would love to find a partner to have those experiences with. I'm passionate about music! Going to concerts and finding local new bands. Spontaneous is aways fun!Enjoy my friends and meeting new people and going to new places. Great food, great wine, and great company! Have two great kids that keep me busy part time but there is still time for me and the things and people I enjoy Hoping to find a guy that is honest, fun to be around, won't put intimate encounters first, ACTUALLY wants to know me, spontaneous and loves to laugh. The qualities I look for in a man is who has chemistry, knows how to enjoy life, integrity,is open minded, educated, who knows the right moments to be serious, witty, naughty and nice. Someone who is outgoing and no hiccups to be themselves. Communication is a must. *I'm not attracted to Black men. Sorry"Geez, Are there really any men out there that want more then a hook up? I don't want to go to Match. I'm truly wanting a long term friend in my life. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how the chemistry is

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jaquelyn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I never get bored.Life is what you make it. We can do anything we set our minds to do... and I do every time :)I love to see people pursue their passions and follow their dreams. I totally support the dreams and interests of the people I love.I admire a man who goes for it! And it's a turn on when a man does anything he's passionate about.I'm very affectionate and playful and look for the same in a man. I can play like a girl and I know when to be a woman and how to be a lady.As much as I enjoy quality time together in a relationship, I do enjoy and know how important individual time is as well – whether it's alone time or time spent with friends, family, passions, hobbies, other interests, to decompress, recharge, etc.I love to watch a man cook who enjoys cooking. I find it sexy. Just something about it that I can't explain.And I like a little food fight, feeding each other, etc :)Anything musical, artistic, original, unique, handmade/handbuilt, or anything creative - especially by a man's hands and/or creative mind - will get me every time :)I tend to be very spontaneous and I love surprises - giving and receiving - and the simpler the better. The little things go over big with me :)One of my favorite things to do is learn something new and try new things, places, foods, etc. Show me something new :)Been an entrepreneur for most of my adult life, and helped other start ups, of both for-profit & non-profit projects - it's one of my passions.Until I moved here in Jan. ***, I did creative counseling and my "Dream Chaser" workshops in community centers where I used to live - mostly working with teens & adults - encouraging and helping them pursue their passions, their unique gifts/talents, and follow their dreams. I absolutely loved it! I'm working on a similar project here.Candid photography is another passion of mine. I capture candid spontaneous shots of real life as it happens. Others photograph people "posing" but I love to capture people living, loving, playing, having good times!Life here has been amazing! I love my life and I'd love to share it with someone. But I’m in no rush. And I won’t settle for less than what we both want :)I'm not looking for perfection. Perfection is boring. I want passion... passion for each other and passion for life and in the things we do.While I definitely have an appreciation for all that life offers, one of the most important things I've learned in life is that money and *meaningless* material things are not what make me happy. Of course, I do live right across the street from the beach. I love it! My place fits perfectly in my life right now. A big house just doesn't appeal to me at this time, being single, with no kids at home. And a "house" doesn't feel like a "home" to me unless shared with people I love.NOTE: If you message me and I don't respond, it could just simply be bad timing. I may be getting to know someone at the moment and want to see how things go. Or it could be no attraction - and it's not any easier to send than it is to receive such a reply. I'm sure you understand and agree we have no control over who we're attracted to. Right? :) I've found that it's best to meet in person soon to see if there's a mutual chemistry, first, then go from there.I can have fun doing anything with the right person. The place or activity isn't as important as the person I'm sharing it with :)

  • Laraine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have my paper and my pen in hand. I'm ready to write the next chapter of my life.Have ever fantasized about time-travel for a rendezvous with a pin-up girl. Have a bucket list that includes seeing Radiohead live and visiting every continent at least once.Are enthralled at the idea of waking up Saturday morning and deciding to drive..to the East coast, for example.Embrace truths both scientific and religious,Were possibly born at least a few decades late,Have an IQ over 120,Love the conversation after the movie as much as the movie itself. Enjoy being together and silent and still with the right person. Laugh at human behavior without laughing at another human being's expense- usually. Are comfortable being loved just as you are.AndTalk more about the good in people than the bad. Depends on what we have in common. Movies, please. I can't get enough and we'll have a lot to talk about afterward. :)

  • Corina

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a vivacious, spontaneous well travelled individual. I love to laugh and have fun.I am looking for someone to blow me away and share some speacial moments with.I love going to dinner, staying home watching a movie, having a bubble bath with champagne, kissing, hugging and making love in the middle of the night ...... just because you can. I spoil myself and do enjoy to be spoilt. Repect , Honesty and kindness is a must. I love art, architecture, history and culture. Things that make me unique- I have beautiful green eyes...see for yourself! Well, my first date.................I just want it to be enjoyable fun and filled with laughter. A nice smelling, well dressed, intelleigent man to blow me away.I would love to feel a connection that just keeps me wondering and wanting more.Kiss and hug me with passion!Treat me like your you would love to be treated and we will get on fine!

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