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Effi, 42

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About Me

I Love life and finding out ways to enjoy it more. Always smiling and laughing. Down to earth and easy to get along with. I know who I am but not a bit of arrogance in me.If your looking for someone with lots of personality/spunk/witty/confidence/ smart alack/downtown gal who also enjoys the outdoors/a kind heart/and a good all around gal..you won't be disappointed with me. :)Love the outdoors especially in the summer. Hiking, exploring new places, biking, camping, new restaurants, concerts and open to trying anything at least once. I enjoy going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and working on getting into the best shape of my life. I"m more on the curvy side but with muscle. :) Would love to travel more and would love to find a partner to have those experiences with. I'm passionate about music! Going to concerts and finding local new bands. Spontaneous is aways fun!Enjoy my friends and meeting new people and going to new places. Great food, great wine, and great company! Have two great kids that keep me busy part time but there is still time for me and the things and people I enjoy Hoping to find a guy that is honest, fun to be around, won't put intimate encounters first, ACTUALLY wants to know me, spontaneous and loves to laugh. The qualities I look for in a man is who has chemistry, knows how to enjoy life, integrity,is open minded, educated, who knows the right moments to be serious, witty, naughty and nice. Someone who is outgoing and no hiccups to be themselves. Communication is a must. *I'm not attracted to Black men. Sorry"Geez, Are there really any men out there that want more then a hook up? I don't want to go to Match. I'm truly wanting a long term friend in my life. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how the chemistry is

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carlena

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi,I'm a 40-something woman looking for someone who is looking to meet someone cool and see where it goes. I'm a hard working, caring, intelligent, passionate giving person and I give my all in a relationship. I'm not going to jump into anything, but prefer taking time getting to know someone as I believe a lot of people just jump in without taking the time to know the person and build a friendship which I believe is a solid foundation to any relationship. I have my own business, have a home, a few hounds running around the yard and I work a bit, but my job allows for some flexibility so that I can pretty much do what I want. I'm looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, confident, can dress it up in a nice suit and kick it back in cargos and a t-shirt. I love music of all kinds, love live music, and I would love to travel more as well. I'm not a clubbing person, but I do like to go out for some drinks and a good dinner just as much as being home taking in a good movie with the right person.I'm close to my family, most of them are local and have a great set of friends, just looking for the man who i feel chemistry with, is kind, interesting, mentally stimulates my mind, intrigues me and who is excited about starting that next chapter in life as I am. A first date I would think we should do something where we could sit down and get to know each other and see if there's that "connection," so probably meet for coffee or a drink and see how it goes.

  • Maxene

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love my Daughter. She is 23 and lives in CA. I could write a novel about how proud I am of my kid. I have never been married. Not because I have never been asked but because I chose to not get married. I am not against marriage nor am I planning a dream wedding for the time that I do. LOLI am independent and can handle my own so I’m not looking for someone to take care of me. I am Drama free and Drug free.I like going to movies, rodeos, carnivals, wine festivals and street fairs. I like to meet up with friends. I don’t like hanging out in bars when there is something else I could be doing. I love BBQ's, I have 2 major BBQ’Just looking for someone to enjoy spending time together. Someone who is not afraid to step up to the plate and has the confidence to deal when the going gets tough. A man who knows who he is and doesn’t put up with lies, drugs and drama. Coffee or an Ice Cream. Tailgate chat on a warm night.

  • Lula

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Books and reading are a big part of how I spend my time. One of my all time favorite people is John Wooden. I also love movies and TV. Part of my daily routine includes working out, as I wish to complete a 5K this fall. I love to get together with friends; eat, drink, and laugh. I have a lot of friends and family, but am looking for someone to complete my life.Teaching is my profession, and I love what I do. I would like to experience life, travelling and exploring new adventures. I'm looking for someone to accompany me on that journey.I value honesty above all else. A sense of humor and a love of life is also important. You won't find a more devoted, encouraging woman, or one who lives and loves out loud like I do. Great food and great conversation...

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