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Abby, 40

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About Me

I am seeking an independent, fun loving addition to my life. Would like to find somebody who is excited to communicate with each other, someone who is excited to see one another, and someone who enjoys going on adventures and outings, and enjoying life together. Basically if one of us says, "Let's go do this" the response is "What time?" not "Maybe" or "I'll see". I expect at our ages, you have your own life and obligations as I do. I do have a teenager, and she is my first priority. I am unable to have any other children, and frankly at my age, wasn't thinking of having another one. Of course I do not mind dating somebody who also has children, would be rather hypocritical if I did, however do prefer teenagers at this point in life. I work the standard 40 hour week, I try to workout at the gym ***days a week to get rid of unwanted weight. Both of these usually fill up my weekdays and weekend mornings, but have the occasional weeknight free, weekends are usually a little more open... I would love to expand this list with somebody special who enjoys these, plus many other activities. What I am not looking for: Somebody who is oversensitive-I can be very brash, am honest to a fault, and to tell you the truth, don't have time to nurse your feelings. Somebody who is co-dependent-I will not hold your hand through every little thing, put your big boy pants on and grow a pair. Somebody without a sense of humor-I have a wicked sense of humor, sometimes it doesn't come over well in a text, however if you can get that I am joking around, we will get along just fine. Somebody who doesn't have their own place to live, a job, their own vehicle-I have all of these and expect at our age you have your sh*t together. I just want somebody to compliment my life, not complicate it.***Update: Now part of the whole vaping craze, *** cigarettes. Also starting a 30 day health and fitness challenge to eat healthier and lose weight.***Disclaimer: I am not looking for a FWB, I can get that at any one of the local bars, which I am avoiding. I am looking for a friend, companion, and a partner. Late afternoon lunch on a patio somewhere or a casual Happy Hour.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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  • Jeane

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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  • Marica

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Since it seems people don't want to read to the end of my profile....I prefer to date black men....if you like to fish, hunt, go mudding and are into rock music then we have nothing in common so why would you send me and ***? These are not things that I have an interest in and if you would read my profile you would know that....just my opinions/choices as a grown ass woman....okay done with my rant....lol.... I love all sports but football (Cornhuskers) and basketball (NC Tar Heels) are my favorite. I am a mom to a wonderful son who means the world to me. I like to be outside in the summer and love water. My music tastes are Jazz, R&B, and some hip-hop & rap. I am looking for someone who can make me laugh and smile and someone who likes to do fun things. I am an independent woman who has my own things and would love to find a man who has his own things. I am tired of all the BS games so if you like to play games keep it moving cause I am not the one for you.

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