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Tarah
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.
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Stevie
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
But here I am!You looking for that partner or cool laid back girl to go to a game? wanna waste a day wandering in nature? Go on a road trip on the weekend? I'm your girl. I love to get out and do new things and explore new places. Problem is I have no one to do those things with! We don't have to have that romantic spark, friends are good too!I'm a cute, sassy, fun girl who loves to flirt and loves to give and receive affection. I love my play time too though, I like to do all sorts of active stuff, I love volleyball! Pretty much I'm up for trying anything at least once. I love to travel.; Europe! I am very competitive when it comes to sports and games. I love to be sarcastic and to make people laugh. What I'm hoping for is to meet someone to hang out with, play pool, go to movies, dine out, or explore the city and beyond, if some attraction happens then all the better. I'm not the perfect skinny girl, but I'm working on it!For me attraction is someone who can make me laugh but challenges me. Someone who can watch a cheesy movie with me while we cook together. I want a guy who has passion in his life for some activity or hobby. One who is equally comfortable dressed up or in cargo pants and flip flops. I would hope my partner could share my love for travel. I want a guy who can be charming and romantic, but can also be rugged and adventurous. No offense because I have a variety of diverse friends, however I am most attracted to guys of the same race. Can't wait to meet you! Sharing a few pints over a game of pool. Something relaxed and low key where we can talk and get to know each other. Love trying out new places for Happy Hour.
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Anonna
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
I'm looking for someone whose 100% real...isnt afraid to say whats on their mind and has a sense if humor. someone who doesn't wanna bullsh*t me into bed. Someone I can trust. Someone I can count on. Someone who has my back like I do theirs. I'm a ride or die kinda girl and don't expect anything less from my other half.I am not interested in dating black men. Somewhere we can kick back , have a drink and some good convo.... :)