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Pamela, 39

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Let me start by saying that i am not here for a booty call!*Secondly, a 'real man' doesn't need to disclaim it in his profile. It's reflected in his actions.*Why am I still here? This is such a horrible site! Look, if you messaged me once and I did not respond, messaging me 2,3 or 4 times is not gonna get you any closer. I'm tired of the same guys messaging me over and over. I'm not gonna feel any differently this week than Idid last week . Oh, and the copy and paste method with the same exact message... Real classic! That super close selfie you took showing your double chin, making your nose appear twice it's size, and resembling a mug shot is so sexy... Said no woman ever! Please do not get mad if I do not reply. I just don't want to waste anyone's time. If I ain't interested, I'm just not interested. So if you don't hear back from me, it's probably because I don't think you are my type. While I understand this is a dating site, I am also a realist and know that online, physical attraction is always #1. Sure, if we met at a bar and started talking I might start to find you more attractive by your personality. However, we're not at a bar. Here, attraction is simply by pictures, so please have some. If you do not have a pic, you can guarantee that you won't be hearing back from me. And no, i will not give you my *** send me a pic! While you may have an adorable dog or a fly ride, I am not trying to date your car, your dog, or even your kids at this point. Post pictures of yourself for crying out loud!! Looking for a good guy that can be chivalrous and make me laugh. Im a strong, independent, a lil bull headed (i am a Taurus), easy going, romantic dreamer who is looking for new adventures in life. My life has become so routine and mundane, so i welcome excitement! A quick drink at happy hour or Starbucks to see how we vibe.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tarah

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.

  • Skyla

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Intellegent 36 year old looking for someone to become my Mr. Right. I enjoy weekends away whether it is camping or staying at a cozy bed and breakfast, I love the lake and almost anything that has to do with water, good red wine, dinners in or out, I believe I am socially presentable and won't scare the neighbors!No rush, no criminal record, not desperate, house trained, I can cook (for the most part :) )Looking for: Intellegent, reasonably social, maybe a little shy, into travel and a good red wine, a little home entertainment with friends, weekends away or just hanging out at home kinda guy.I am getting ready to return to school and have dreams of opening my own restaurant soon. I'm looking for a person that will understand and support my dreams and someone who has dreams that I can support in return.

  • Liane

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Where are all the good guys that want or need a good woman?? Not seeing that here.....do you guys not open doors and buy flowers anymore??? All I can say is this is NOT a game and that's my final answer! I have a job, I'm not here looking for a sugar daddy or need you to pay my bills.... be nice to find a guy that's OK dealing with ONE woman and not 10...not into drama or lies, IF your going to tell me your going to do something then DO it, I don't need your empty promises! If your job, children, or ex-gfs/wives are going to take all your time then maybe you don't need a relationship :) NOT sure there's such a thing out there anymore.....just sayin! (btw I love kids nothing at all against them) have a good day! thanks for reading! My first date would have to be dinner, talking and getting to know each other. Nothing to private, just relaxation and simple!!!

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