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Syd, 36

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About Me

Hi there..; live in Orange County. I have 2 great kids and for work, am in the auto finance industry & have been w/ the same company for 9 years. Personality wise, I am hardworking, independent, very caring, and adaptable. For fun, I enjoy movies, beach/pool, lounges, dancing, going for drinks, sports bars, am pretty mellow.. Music-wise, I'm into everything - love hip-hop, rap, Spanish, 80's, old school, my taste is all over the place..The qualities I'm looking for in a man are trustworthiness, a sense of humor and truthfulness. Life teaches all of us what we want thru different experiences and it would be great to meet someone where we make each other laugh, have good times, & have each other's back. Anyway, don't want to make this too long, lol, feel free to send a message if you like... Take Care!! Hmmm, after a conversation or two, will probably have a better idea!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Michele

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    Woman. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-57

    Not real sure what to put on here. I’m looking for new friends with common interest. I like being outside. My kids are grown and I have 6 grandkids. The beach is my happy place. I am originally from Alabama and I don’t need foolishness in my life. I’m easy going and I have worked in healthcare for over 20 years.. Want to more, just ask

  • Tarah

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'd rather you hate me for the person that I am then ever love me for something that I'm not. What you see is what you get. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I love to laugh, have great conversation, finding something a little out of the the status quo, ooh and watching my Vikes! Although I must admit I saw my first football game at a local sports bar here and no one was there! That's going to take some getting used to.I love people who are honest, direct and upfront and realize that doesn't mean disrespectful.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away. We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.

  • Heidi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a fairly shy...until you get to know me...my girlfriends would say I am a simple girl. I love to dress up for a date, and am happy in jeans and a t-shirt. Getting dirty or sweaty doesn't bother me.I believe in family (blood or those you chose as family) first. Honesty, and the ability to know when you are wrong and admit it...as well as sticking to your guns when your gut tells you to are important to me. I'd like to meet someone with similiar interests, values and would like to have some fun. I am (mostly) drama free...I have a job and I love what I do!If you too are interested in getting out of the house to do something new, no expectation on relationships and would just like to see where the road goes...let me know! It would definitely include a lot of laughing!!

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