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I gotta start with wow! There are some young ones on here. If I have looked at your profile and you are way younger than me...think nothing of it. I was just looking to see the pictures...I have 3 boys to raise and Im NOT looking for another. Was just lookin guys. Anyway, I have changed from seeking a relationship to simply seeking a friend. I just dont have the patience for this *** they call love. Besides, if you cant be my friend, my best friend, then theres no need to be my lover or my partner.I am a country girl, always have been, always will be. If you cant get past that, im sorry but keep looking. I like to work on engines, build things, tear things apart, and i live to play in the mud (yes thats Live, not love...its a deeper devotion). If you like these things as well, thats great. If you would like to do them with me, thats fabulous. I would love to share my passions with you, but you must know, i will do them with or without you.If your profile says you would like kids, you better make damn sure thats true. Ive had the whole wasted time with someone who said he did, and changed his mind. Said his kids were grown and he didnt want to do that again. I said youve known for months that I have This is not something I would really like to plan. Talk to me, get to know me and you may figure out what it is I like, if not we'll go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elwanda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    PLEASE DON'T BE CREEPY! I enjoy travel, the sun, BBQ's, cooking, concerts, dining, wine and just fun.I think of myself of someone who has range who loves to dress up or be very casual and shoot pool at a dive bar. Variety is important to me.I really am trying online dating which is a stretch for me because I would like to meet someone and I'm not hanging out in bars often.I do meet men every day just in business and life...but I just don't feel like I have met anyone interesting in awhile. I'd love to be impressed. I want to meet someone that I can be excited about. I am NOT a fling or one night stand kind of girl at all. If your just a pretty boy looking for a hook up I'm not interested.I appreciate someone with a work ethic, I have a good job and am financially secure. Would expect the same in a match. I do like to travel, restaurants and enjoy nice things so slackers are not attractive in the least. I like motivated and educated people who make things happen. I have successful friends and I like to be around thriving environments.I like all types of music...I've been in the art business for most of my career before going into sales and marketing. The art industry explains the life I love; creative, fun, bright, energetic, open.I believe fitness is sexy and I like a man who takes care of himself. I like tall men. Handsome is a plus. :) I'm attracted to entrepreneurs more than those who work for others...I just admire the risk and vision.I am often approached by younger men which I admit can be flattering but I am really looking for a man my age. I like a refined, smart, witty man who takes the lead. I tried the much younger thing and it was drama which I detest. Really looking for a man not a boytoy.As a woman, I enjoy the girlie things and am ultra feminine. I am a bit old school and love to cater to my man a bit with cooking and staging sexy environments for fun. I love to be playful and have fun in dating. I love to laugh and really love family and quality time. I attend church regularly but am not a christian fanatic but enjoy the lessons and positive messaging to start the week.I have two children who I take great pride in. If you have an issue with children, I am not your girl.My son is nearly 13 and honor roll and I have a baby girl 19mos old. Probably dinner...sushi & sake. Whatever really. I will meet you at the place we choose.I look at a first date as meeting as a friendship with no expectations or pressure. We are who we are.I do believe there has to be a physical attraction to have a 2nd date however I do take things slow.I don't like long first dates. I prefer them short and sweet. 2 hours max.I'm a very busy girl so I just like first dates to be about an introduction, feel things out.

  • Tanner

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi, I am Lisa! I am a Realtor here in the East Valley. I love spending time with my friends and family, especially my 10 year old son. I have joint custody of my son so half the time I am focused on being a mom. The other half of my life I focus on myself. When I have my son, he likes to ride his scooter at the bike park, go to jump on the trampolines, and he plays video games. We have a lot of movie nights watching Netflix and family game night where he beats me on Wii games.When I don't have him, I try to relax. I might go out for a happy hour or a night out with friends. Often I just stay at home. I'll watch some of my shows on DVR or catch up on work. A good movie or glass of wine is good too.As a Realtor, there is no such thing as a day off. I love my job and wouldn't change it for anything but I do have a funky schedule at times. I suppose that makes me unique since so many people here have come from all over the US. I just love it so much here that I will never leave. Meeting up for a appetizers and a drink or two is usually good for a first date. Since you can usually tell within the first few minutes of meeting someone if you have any interest, it's best to just plan something short and sweet. If there is a good vibe, another date can be planned soon after.

  • Charles

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    A little about me.... I am outgoing and enthusiastic and like to keep busy. I love to go to live sporting events, baseball and football. I can also be found at a concert enjoying live music or a festival. We live in a beautiful place to go hiking eight months out of the year. I also enjoy going to the lake to play on the water. I try to get to Mission Beach at least once a year. There is not anywhere on earth that I would rather be than sitting on the beach with my feet buried in the sand gazing into the ocean. I can dress up for a night out, but I am most comfortable in a pair of jeans and my flip flops. I have a sense of humor, life is to short not to. I try to keep my life simple and as drama free as possible. You:Someone who is laid back and enjoys to be out doing things, versus watching the time go by sitting on the couch in front of the the TV day in and day out. Witty, charming, self motivated are beneficial characteristics in a man. I am an open book so if there is anything you would like to know just ask. A first date would be a coffee or a drink or two and some light conversation to see if there is any spark. From there we can figure it out together.

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