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Thurman, 40
United States, Illinois, Pittsfield

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About Me

Okay, After awhile on here I have decided to expand on who/what I am and who/what I am searching for. It is amazing how many profiles I have read on this site that all sound the same. It is if we all have the same little writing gnome living in the backs of our brains. I consider myself to be an attractive, intelligent, active, normal man. the attractive part is up to you to decide but I am confident in myself so that is all that really matters. I am a transplanted New Yorker, so if you have issues with that or you still refer to me as a yankee, Please move on... I believe in diversity so if you are a racist, Please move on... I have ZERO TOLORENCE for that. Intelligence is a must for me and no, education does not predicate intelligence, the world is full of educated idiots. If you are a bible thumping republican, Please, with ALL DUE RESPECT, move on... I am not the one for you. I believe in moving forward, Not regressing to the stone age...And NO, I have no problem with people of faith, I just respectfully decline to agree with you. I believe that if your belief in a higher being makes your life better, Great!, just don't try to change my mind. We can have all the discussions you want, but if my surrogate father, who is a presbyterian minister, could not change my mind, then you have no chance... I love to cook and experiment with new things. I have a great family and friends who mean the world to me and spend most of my time with them when I am not working, we are very close. And will continue to be so..I am a chef in a very popular restaurant And I love my job. I am a person who stays up to date on current events and politics, so if you like to have a conversation about those topics, Then that, is the best way to drink a bottle of petite syrah with some seared sea bass bites...so blah, blah, blah and whosie-whatsie... Say hi if you like and happy fishing PS I am a drinker, and no, I am not a sloppy, gutter sleeping, drunk, but I like to drink and do so frequently, so if this is an issue, please move on....Please, I am not trying to sound like a elitist but, if you cannot write a sentence without utilizing "text speak" or have more spelling and grammatical errors then a six year old child, PLEASE, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, MOVE ON... (And yes, I do see the irony of an athiest using such a statement) I have nothing in common with someone who wallows in basic *** you for taking the time to read this!!!Have a great day!!! Well truth is it would seem that dating is a lost art. I would say it depends on the two people involved, common interests and such. I will say that a movie is a horrible first date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Classical Drawing / Painting Chinese German Spanish Crime Drama Martial Arts Sport Thriller
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