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Amery, 40
United States, Illinois, Pittsfield

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Wow is this online dating tough or what? I think the hardest part of this is knowing how to approach someone for a conversation. It hasn't helped coming out of a long relationship and being totally clueless on what to do anymore, or where the local spots are now. So here I am hoping to meet someone really special, and worth everything I will do for them. Being raised by a single mom, has taught me just what you ladies go through, and I have so much respect for you single moms. Even more so now that I have my daughter with me full time, and I'm loving every second of it.Here is the part I'm not looking forward to, talking about myself. I'm a very confident man in every aspect of life. I work hard, I'm loyal, faithful, honest, romantic, affectionate, dependable, and one of the funniest people you could ever be around. The two things all my friends seem to comment about me is about my personality, and sense of humor, I can't explain it you would have to see it for yourself. ***has been such a great year for me, after battling through the worst 3 years any parent could ever imagine. Its a wonder how adversity can define who you are as a person, and coming out of that I found out who I am, and what kind of parent/man I had become. I'm not the type of person to tell you I'm the best option you could meet if your wanting a real relationship, but what I will say is I wont disappoint you if you are interested.the things I enjoy doing is watching football, college basketball, dinning out, tattoos, shooting pool, concerts, finding new music, going on a nice hike, finding things to make memories with my daughter, and my close circle of friends. What I would like to add to this list is someone so awesome that they are part of those memories being made. The things I enjoy doing within a relationship is cuddling up on a couch watching a movie together, cooking meals together (yes I'm a good cook), doing things my woman likes to do (except shopping), I want to be a best friend, a lover, provider, and a life partner. I truly believe this is still out there some where. I also believe that communication, trust, and respect are the three most important pieces to this.What would I want in a woman. Lets see if I can explain this LOL. I would like to find someone who wont push me away when I'm trying to be close to them, and give me some of that effort in return. I truly give my all in every aspect of a relationship, just never can find it in return. things I don't want is someone who has a drug addiction or drinking problem. I never knew how hard that was to deal with, but I know I don't want my child to see any more of that life style than she has already seen. I would like someone who is looking to work together in every thing we could do, so we always view each other as an equal.So if this is something that would interest you please send me an ***, just so I know there is some interest. I hate feeling like I'm bothering someone who isn't interested. I really appreciate you taking the time to read this, and if you aren't interested I wish you luck in your search for that perfect person to spend your life with. We will figure that out if it comes to that.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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