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Raisa, 50
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Talisha from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Libra
    Talisha

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I would like to meet a man I can have fun with, someone who has a great sense of humor and loves to laugh and play. It would be awesome if you are a great communicator and emotionally mature. Open-mindedness, honesty and intelligence are also good qualities. It's important that he's loyal, secure with himself and reliable - I want a guy I can count on. He can be social and he likes time alone. I love men who are willing to travel to new places, physically fit (prefer he loves to work out), and curious to try new things. It is important that you have a career that you love and a good relationship with money. I'm giving and I would love to meet someone who is giving as well. Did I mention that I love romance? I am a romantic at heart and love being swept off my feet. I love to be spoiled by my man but I also spoil my man in return. You believe in love and think that your life is better when shared with someone.I am a very self-sufficient and independent woman. I have a great job and love what I do for a living!! Working with numbers is my passion!! I have a condo that I have been renovating a little bit at a time. I am a very outgoing and active woman. I have lots of energy and am always on the go! I'm very caring, funny and cute! I love driving my convertible in the summer and let the wind blow through my hair. I do not drink much and prefer the same in the man I date.Let's just relax.....become friends first....get to know each other....and see what happens. The ultimate fairy tale ending would be to meet the person I would like to spend the rest of my life with.Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance! ***Corinthians 13:7

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  • Elsy from Centralia | Woman | 46 years old | Libra
    Elsy

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am very outgoing and honest, sometimes to a fault. I love the outdoors, music and movies. I can get to know anyone in 5 minutes and know their life stories and ambitions. I am a very silly person who LOVES to laugh. The person I am looking for is funny and easy goingand responsible. I do not like drama, jealousy or disception. I am looking for someone to get to know, have fun, go to a movie and maybe dinner. Life is too short to sit at home and be bored. Let's have fun! LOTS OF LAUGHTER AND SMILING

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  • Mistie from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
    Mistie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi there!I am woman who laughs freely, is open-minded, youthful, caring, and attentive…down-to-earth and willing to strike up a conversation with just about anyone. I have a sentimental side as well…little things easily tug at my heart. I am health and exercise oriented, but do enjoy restaurants occasionally. You will never accuse me of being a couch potato – I’ll try (almost) anything once, and have a zeal for experiencing life.I’m a city girl who transplanted herself to the country. I appreciate both lifestyles, but really enjoy where I am now…the quiet, the friendliness really appeal to me. Fussy or metrosexual types need not apply…Love the Packers.…regardless of their success. Bucks? Did I mention I love the Packers…lol.I enjoy my career and have a great group of friends. Do you have a good circle of friends as well? Let's throw a party! I own my home, I live on a lake. Life is good…I'd like to share it with the right guy.My divorce was relatively uneventful. My baggage will fit into an overhead compartment...easily. So yes, I want to find someone with whom I can share deep conversations, intimate moments, and laugh uproariously. I don’t expect it to happen overnight. A friend first and a lover eventually…a man whose arms I can sink into...a man who can make the rest of the world disappear. Best of luck in your search. Something casual that allows us to get to know each other better. Meeting for coffee or a drink would be great.

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