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Raisa, 50
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Ayako

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    No, that's not my real phone number! If you don't know that's a song, I would probably consider you all foam and no beer! lol People describe me as funny, down to earth, fun and easy to talk to. And no "false adverting" here...all my pics are current. I'd like to meet a partner in crime who is intelligent, loves to laugh and is "passing for normal" ! I like to do everything and anything. I love to play euchre, and watch movies. Anything with friends and family is a bonus. I love boating, fishing....anything outside.Patios, concerts, festivals etc.....I am the sun goddess. lol I could go on and on but I believe half the fun of meeting someone new, is getting to know them; their likes, dislikes, quirks. So thanks for checking out my profile and say hi if I intrigue you and you'd like to know more. Have a great day, and remember life is short. Have fun and take risks! *Disclaimer: I can be a little feisty and have a sarcastic, smartass sense of humor. But I'm also low-maintainance in a high-maintaince way! How's that for brain food? lol "If you cant't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best". ~~ Anything that gives us a chance to talk, have fun, and get to know each other.

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  • Africah from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Aries
    Africah

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    About me: I’m 5’5 brown hair, blue eyes with an slender built. That covers the outside. On the inside I am honest, intelligent (so I’m told), open-minded, confident, a hard worker, and like to have fun. I am very active most all the time. I can’t sit at home and watch TV (I have no favorite shows because I don’t really know any) My goal in life is simply to enjoy it as much as possible and be happy, maybe I can find a way to make a difference in the world as well. I think I have a good sense of humor (but that is usually something others have to think). I love to laugh and enjoy good comedy. I am very affectionate and if we become close, you will know what I mean. .Enough about me, let’s talk about you. I am seeking the whole relationship experience. I would like to get to know you, become friends, then lovers (of course) and work (I’m realistic here) toward a long term relationship. I prefer a man who is comfortable in jeans and t-shirt as well as a suit.I’m pretty much looking for a person that enjoys things that I enjoy and is willing to try new things with me or even with out me. meet for coffee or a walk in a comfortable setting so we can get to know more about each other.

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  • Synthia from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Leo
    Synthia

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a very happy person in general and am looking for a man who is also happy and good natured. I enjoy my job and own my own house which is very cute and I just love it and the neighborhood I live in. I keep pretty busy doing projects both inside and out depending on the season. I am fun loving, easy going and I am now looking for a great man to complete the entire picture! I am looking for a man who is honest, affectionate, loyal, caring, warm and who loves animals as I have two dogs and three cats. They also have to be ok with my not needing a man in my life, but wanting one and they have to understand the difference between the two.Although my friends have tried to set me up with men, I haven’t found the perfect man that fits in my life. As I have gotten older I now know what I want in life, but I have also found that more importantly I know what I don’t want. I need a man that is emotionally stable and very happy with himself. Chemistry, I have found, is one of the most important things to me and you either have it with someone or you don’t. If you don’t have chemistry, you need to move on, nothing can replace the feeling of when it is just “right” with someone. I love going to see live bands and music. I have pets and love spending time with them. I want to find a man I can enjoy being with and have a conversation, as well as some fun! I love camping, hiking, bon fires, gardening almost anything outdoors.I'm ultimately looking for a best friend. Someone to share my life with. Someone to tell my dreams and also fears to. I'm not in a hurry, it will just happen when it happens. If the chemistry is there we'll both know it. Going out to dinner at a not so well known place and getting to know each other over a glass of wine or beer :)

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