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Raisa, 50

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About Me

I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    This is a work in progress....so bare with me!!! Active Mom of 2 seeking a mature, honest youthful man to spend quality time with and possibly more. A lady who who knows where she is in life, and exactly where I want to go!! Looking for that special someone to accompany me. Something short and sweet to see if we share a spark...if so, who knows!!!

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm not your typical conventional girl. I'm not obsessed with shopping, there's nothing that I want I'm happy with what I have. I'm well mannered and well spoken, more reserved and modest than I may appear. I don't like a lot of mush. Don't like to be smothered too much too soon. I truly like things that would interest guys more than girls. I'm not high maintenance but sexy just the same probably more so. I was told by a stranger, a woman who sees me every day I look just as good without makeup as I do with since I rush out without it in the a.m. That's the biggest compliment a woman can pay another woman : ) I'm a very introspective person and well educated thanks to my mom and dad and enjoy reading up on many different topics. I'm inquisitive, if I'm not familiar with something I look it up. My parents have gotten along together 49 years now and I realize how a man and woman should treat each other. I haven't gone through what most my age have so I don't have any drama. I'm very uncomplicated and luckily always have been. Having too many expectations of someone is very unrealistic. I do dislike arrogance, don't want a man who is wrapped up in an image or feels he is above anyone. I would like to meet a compassionate man who likes the company of kids, older people and pets as well. Being a child of the 70's & I try to keep it that way as much as I can. Get along best with a man who isn't hyper and doesn't have to be doing something all the time. I have religious belief and a conscience and would like a man who does as well. I feel it's important to have time to yourself as well as together to keep your sense of identity and appreciation for each other. Chemistry is either there or not, you can't make it happen. At the risk of being blatantly honest if you can't see yourself sexually with someone than it isn't going to work. To me intellectual chemistry is equally important because that is going to supersede everything else over time. I find a guy with a little boy charm who knows when to be a man very appealing. You don't have to be Superman, you can be Batman, he was always my favorite. I like to have fun and joke around, I'm easy to talk to and enjoy hearing about your interests as well. I'm very relaxed and not into questions, it's just not my nature. It's not that I'm not interested but I don't think it matters, things start from this point forward. I'm not a particular type, I'm comfortable no matter whether I'm at a cozy lounge or jukebox bar. I'm self-sufficient, my motto is if you want a job done right do it yourself. I'm very creative and see the artistic quality in things. I love summertime, the beach, spending time with family and friends. I have a lot of respect for and I'm close with my family and hope that you place importance on that in your own life as well. I enjoy all eras of music, more so classic rock and 80's pop. I'm most content at this age with myself and I try to see the best of a situation because most things aren't as bad as they seem. It doesn't matter where a first date takes place, more importantly is the company, you can be anywhere and have a good time.

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello,My hobbies are scuba diving, snow skiing, beading,site seeing, golfing, I like to try what ever my significant other likes to do.I have got to experience the highest level of financial freedom and have realized that money does not buy happiness. Had it all and now just looking for that man who makes me laugh, cries with me, loves to travel is spontaneous and just plain loves ME. Have two great children who are grown and on their own. don't get me wrong I love children just at this age don't want to raise little ones. Can't wait for grand children....My music taste is very broad, as long as it is clean and meaningful.I love putting the mattress in the TV room or whatever chilling out watching a movie, don't need to go out all the time and spend money, dancing to our favorite song and enjoying our time together at home is also very important as well. First date a nice dinner, maybe a movie but then again what ever happens happens! Love the talking and sharing interests or just whatever is on our minds. I believe communication is a must don't want that excuse (we just grew apart) ever again. Getting to know one another is vitally important. Sharing each others dreams, heart aches, goals and future expectations. Hopefully we both want a fantasic future sharing in my faith in Jesus and knowing what plans He has for us.

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