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Synthia, 48

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I am a very happy person in general and am looking for a man who is also happy and good natured. I enjoy my job and own my own house which is very cute and I just love it and the neighborhood I live in. I keep pretty busy doing projects both inside and out depending on the season. I am fun loving, easy going and I am now looking for a great man to complete the entire picture! I am looking for a man who is honest, affectionate, loyal, caring, warm and who loves animals as I have two dogs and three cats. They also have to be ok with my not needing a man in my life, but wanting one and they have to understand the difference between the two.Although my friends have tried to set me up with men, I haven’t found the perfect man that fits in my life. As I have gotten older I now know what I want in life, but I have also found that more importantly I know what I don’t want. I need a man that is emotionally stable and very happy with himself. Chemistry, I have found, is one of the most important things to me and you either have it with someone or you don’t. If you don’t have chemistry, you need to move on, nothing can replace the feeling of when it is just “right” with someone. I love going to see live bands and music. I have pets and love spending time with them. I want to find a man I can enjoy being with and have a conversation, as well as some fun! I love camping, hiking, bon fires, gardening almost anything outdoors.I'm ultimately looking for a best friend. Someone to share my life with. Someone to tell my dreams and also fears to. I'm not in a hurry, it will just happen when it happens. If the chemistry is there we'll both know it. Going out to dinner at a not so well known place and getting to know each other over a glass of wine or beer :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jerusha

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    In many ways, I am not your typical "gal." I would rather watch a gangster movie than a chick flick and I do not fit into your typical demographic for a woman my age, geographic location. I also enjoy old, low budget horror movies. The more obscure and cheesey the better.-wave) to old country and even a little folk and world music. I am a big sucker for 70's music. I have really gotten into trying out new genres and bands but I still cannot warm up to today's top 40, however I do like to explore modern alternative music.I do not have children. This is partly by choice. Please do not quiz me endlessly on this subject. Trust me, my uterus is not an interesting topic of conversation.I am divorced and am not looking for a serious relationship. I am very easy going and am interested in exploring new directions. I am who I am and am honest about what I want and like.... Good, bad or ugly. But I do not like to nor try to hurt people.I tend to be attracted to people who see things a little differently than most. A slightly sick or twisted sense of humor is a plus. If one of your goals in life is to own a Harley or you like "new" country music, I am sorry but you want a different woman. I am truly "drama free" as they say. I have a civil relationship with my ex and I lead a pretty laid back life. Making more stress and strife for myself would just sap me of energy I need for other things. However, if you are a guy who states "I am looking for no drama" that usually tells me that you are attracted to exactly that type of woman,,,,,, you can't help it and you may not even realize it.If you put me in your "favorites" but do not message me, I will not contact you. If you are too shy to contact me directly, then I am not for you, anyway. I think the whole favorites thing is kind of creepy. Also, IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURES POSTED, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU!!!!!!! Let me repeat that. IF YOU HAVE NO PICTURES POSTED, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU!!!!!!! I like to chat and have good conversations, text messages, etc. but I am not on here to be a pen pal. I am not a big fan of endless messaging. Let's just meet like they did in the old days and take things from there. And if you are just looking for a text buddy, for whatever reason, I will sniff you out pretty quickly and will just stop communicating.You should have enough of my pictures to base an opinion on, regarding how I appear physically. I understand there must be a physical atrraction but the pictures I have posted should cover all the bases. If you ask for more, I will just assume you are not serious about meeting in person. If you want to see the real thing, try to meet me in person. Pictures don't tell the whole story, anyway.Animals are a big part of my life. I am quite involved in a rescue. If you have no pets that's fine. It is better that someone doesn't have pets because they could not or would not take on the responsibility than have them and not take care of them..... just like kids. If you have made it this far, coffee, ice cream or a couple of drinks at a semi-quiet or relaxed location would probably be best. If you make me laugh like crazy and are smart it doesn't matter what or where the date is.

  • Isis

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    My personality and character is so diverse it makes it difficult to express in a dating site profile…I am very compassionate and integrity is a huge thing to me. I have a wicked sense of humor and notice things that are illogical..and usually can't refrain from commenting on it. I'm a wildlife enthusiast and have raised game birds and hunting dogs. I have also worked for corporate America and once took the CFO for Dun & He did win me a stuffed frog at a whack a mole game and of course I got the grand tour of NYC when I was sent there...you know, stuff like the Salvation Army passing out sandwiches to the homeless at Grand Central Station....:)We are all starting new lives. I guess that is where my head goes when I try to express who I am and what I want. I am all things from where I have traveled and lived and experienced. There is no mold for the future, nothing is cast in stone. Give me respect and genuine affection any day and let romance evolve into something as comfortable as old slippers. To me romance is the unexpected things that remind us of why we’re together, our comfort with one another and the way we know what the other likes; how we work and live together in unison, but not in each others shadow. Pleasure is found in small doses of genuineness, rather than grandiose displays of self-importance.Interesting Facts:If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it’s a duck.There is a tipping point.Reality TV has nothing to do with reality.Things you may find interesting:( I did say maybe!)I am a part time geek, seductress, adventurer, prankster, straight arrow - what ever hat I happen to be wearing – or whatever hat you inspire me to wear! I can be appropriate or inappropriate, at the right times; serious or playful, thoughtful or forgetful, intelligent or stupid, leader or follower, ….you get the idea I think…maybe. Keep it simple. Coffee or other casual options.

  • Rochell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'd have to say I'm more "curvy" than "average" but that wasn't an option. I'm an independent woman but kind of an old fashioned gal too. I may initiate first contact if I'm feeling 'frisky', but my preference is a man who takes charge and initiates contact himself, so just because I don't contact first doesn't mean I'm not interested. But don't ask me to fall for you unless you plan to be there to catch me. I definitely don't consider myself an 'average' gal, I can be a little fiesty. My heart won't be given to just anyone, and I'm a little gun-shy so it might take me a while to get there, but when I do commit to someone, it's 150%. I've loved and lost; but I really do want to believe that there is still that magical, passionate, butterflies in my stomach, heart skip a beat when I hear your voice, knowing winks and stolen glances across a crowded room, can't wait to get my hands on you, kind of love out there for me somewhere. I'm growing cynical though, I haven't met anyone who could sweep me off my feet. Can you? I am happy and blessed and am passionate about life, I would like to have someone to share it with. Without question, the most important trait I’m looking for is good old fashioned honesty, and you can expect the same in return from me. And you must have the courage of your convictions! Aside from being a sports fanatic, I like to try/learn new things, enjoy good (intelligent) conversation, am not afraid of a heated (respectful) debate, and love to dance (especially to live music). I adore a good sense of humor, make me laugh and I'm yours, especially if you can laugh at yourself. Physical chemistry is also a must, but it's that 'connection' that will remain when looks fade.It would be fabulous to find someone who found my flaws endearing, and I his. I have high standards, I won't be satisfied until I find a man who can touch me; mind, body, and soul (notice the sequence there). I may be asking a lot and thereby narrowing the field, but in my book that's a good thing. I know what I want; but more importantly, I know what I don't want. If that means I never find what I'm looking for, so be it, but I won't settle for less. That said, I'm in NO rush. My life is great as is, I stay very busy, and finding a mate is not at the top of my priority list so sometimes I may be on here and sometimes not. I'm well aware that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and it's fine if I'm not yours, I'd rather be someone's shot of tequila anyway. ;)I find intelligence sexy, the occasional typo is to be expected but I appreciate well written profiles and e-mails. A "u" does not mean "you", it means someone is too lazy and disrespectful to type 2 extra characters. If tattoos are a deal breaker then I'm not the gal for you. Mine are very significant to me, only one is visible to the general public. If things progress, maybe you can go on a little scavenger hunt for the others. ;) If you would like a response from me, please have pictures, it's only fair. And guys, if all of your pic's are of you in sunglasses and a hat, do us gals a favor and post at least one without 'em. And I thought it should go without saying but apparently not; we really do not find shirtless bathroom mirror pic's attractive, most of us find them a turn-off.And bonus points if you're an asset in the Zombie Apocalypse. ;) A great date is more about the "who" than the "what", that being said, I appreciate creativity and uniqueness, but an acceptable first "meet" would be meeting for drinks at some place casual. A first "date" is a whole different story. ;)

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