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Shanna, 49
United States, Illinois, Carterville

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About Me

Hi!Thank you for stopping by! I enjoy the outdoors, the warmth of the sun and good friends. I have a 23 y/o daughter and she is currently living at home. She is a recent graduate from Hamline University. I asked her to say one good thing about me for my meetville profile. She rolls her eyes and says, "ugh...really? I guess you would be the cool mom." I realized that being the cool mom is not so bad. .......... I have never married, however I was in a 23 year long-term relationship with my Daughter's father.I am the property manager at a ***unit residential rental home community. I am in the process of finishing my last semester towards my Bachelors Degree in Law Enforcement/Criminal Justice and currently enrolled in my last two classes. I graduate in December ***. I volunteer for many non-profits, such as; a victim's advocate/liaison, the annual "Hope Rocks"-call for one of the Metro Sheriff's Departments. My journey has made me who I am and I feel good in my own skin. I tend to be competitive, walk off the beaten path, and I occasionally will step out of my comfort zone. I prefer honesty over flattery and I have a low tolerance for drama. Our vulnerabilities and imperfections are often what allow others to relate to us. My favorite types of food include; Sushi/sashimi, Thai, Indian, Mexican.....however a burger and a beer at a small town bar is always a great option. My musical tastes are all over the board, however I recently started listening to Cities 97. Does this mean I am growing up? I am 5' ***" and looking for someone at least my height or taller, between the ages of ***. I am attracted to men that are physically active, have dark hair, clean shaven (or have very little facial hair), adventurous, silly and playful. I am looking for laughter, "spark" (chemistry) and mutual attraction.-chain restaurants, bonfires, waterfalls, small towns, craft beers, margaritas, walking/hiking on the wooded trails and experiencing new adventures. Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it.One thing I want to do in the Spring ***is get my motorcycle endorsement/license. I always wanted to learn....plus my new bike is just sitting in the garage waiting. The happiest people do not have the best of everything, they make the best of everything! ;) First meet: Somewhere public and quiet. Happy hour, coffee, a local park or lake. If the chemistry is there, then a date would be the next step.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Indian Middle Eastern
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