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Arla, 50
United States, Illinois, Carterville

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About Me

UPDATE: ***OK friends, there is just something I have to say: I know the description below is lengthy - but it is HONEST!!! A concept that you should try. That being said, please know that 5 foot 6 does NOT equal 6 ft. just sayin........I am mostly Irish with a little Italian - naturally blonde hair and blue eyes. I am a BBW. (A Plus sized girl) im curvy but in proportion. I would love to meet someone who can appreciate me for who I am. I love the water, swimming, and boating. I spend alot of time outdoors and am therefore not on the computer every day but I will respond to ALL messages.) I love horses, traveling, MOVIES, live theater, concerts, live games especially baseball, sports car racing and HOCKEY - (go Monsters!). I have a crazy sense of humor and love just enjoying life. Im an artist, I love working with a variety of mediums, and design for my job. I love exploring new places and learning new things. I love to travel and do so whenever I get the chance. I am an honest person - sometimes to a fault and actually prefer the same in return, even when it hurts because nothing hurts as much as being lied too. Something that makes me unique, is my ability to accept people for who they are - as long as you are honest with me. Next to honesty - I think a good sense of humor is the best attribute a person can have. I also prefer taller men - and I have to say I think goatees are incredibly sexy. :)I would love to meet someone who can be a great friend, a companion or more. I love affection, cuddling and KISSING!! I love surprising the one Im with the unexpected. One of my favorite things is kissing in the rain. And most importantly - everything is in the kiss.....a good kisser can make me melt. So all that being said, if you're interested lets spend some time together, have some fun - letting anything further develop naturally. Something simple, coffee, lunch, a walk, etc. going some where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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