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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Candy

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I AM MULTILINGUAL, WELL-TRAVELED/EDUCATED, PASSIONATE, ICONOCLASTIC, SPONTANEOUS, WITH A UNIQUE SENSE OF STYLE. I BELIVE IN EXERCISING ONE'S BODY AND BRAIN ON A DAILY BASIS. I AM LOOKING FOR A SPECIAL MAN WITH WHOM TO COMMUNICATE ON A HIGHER LEVEL. I AM LOOKING FOR AN ATTRACTIVE MAN, WHO IS IN GREAT SHAPE, NOT OVER 57. THE ENERGY ONE PROJECTS IS VERY IMPORTANT. SINE QVA NON QUALITIES ARE: CHARACTER, INTELLIGENCE, SPONTANEITY, FLEXIBILITY AND BEING GENUINE. I LOVE A MAN IN A SUIT. I PREFER A EUROPEAN OR A CANADIAN MAN.I DO NOT CHAT BECAUSE I DON'T SPEND MUCH TIME BY THE COMPUTER . I PREFER TALKING ON THE PHONE BECAUSE IT'S LESS IMPERSONAL AND I CAN LEARN A LOT ABOUT SOMEONE BY TALKING AND LISTENING TO HIS VOICE.I AM ESTABLISHED AND NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN TO GIVE ME SHELTER, SUPPORT, OR RAISE MY CHILDREN. IT'S NOT THE CASE. BUT I AM LOOKING FOR A PARTNER WITH WHOM TO TRAVEL, SPEND QUALITY TIME AND SHARE INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCES. I AM NOT GOING TO COMPROMISE OR SETTLE JUST SO THAT I WON'T BE ALONE. I WANT TO FIND A MAN I CAN RESPECT AND LOVE.the following is in response to my meetville experience:IF YOU CANNOT TALK ON THE PHONE, DON'T CONTACT ME. THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG AND SCARY ABOUT PEOPLE WHO CANNOT COMMUNICATE VERBALLY. IF ALL YOU CAN OFFER ME IS A FEW HOURS A WEEK BECAUSE THE REST OF THE TIME YOU'RE TOO BUSY WITH WORK AND YOUNG CHILDREN, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I HAVE MET MEN WHO JUST BROKE UP WITH THEIR WIVES AND THE NEXT DAY THEY ARE ON THE INTERNET DATING. YOU MUST HAVE ALL YOUR LIFE IN ORDER AND THEN LOOK FOR WOMEN TO DATE. IF YOU ARE LOOKING JUST FOR "PASSIONATE " SEX OR OTHER ENCOUNTERS, I RECOMMEND YOU HIRE PROSTITUES. DO NOT WRITE TO ME THAT YOU WANT TO MEET BECAUSE I'M HOT.I AM A WOMAN OF THE HIGHEST QUALITY . YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND IF YOU COULD BE A GOOD MATCH FOR ME. LET'S NOT WASTE OUR TIME.i use either all cpital letters or low case because i am not good at typing. guys asked weird questions (such as if i'm angy?!). no, i just am not good at typing. OUR FIRST DATE COULD BE ANYWHERE AS LONG AS WE CONNECT. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO TALK AND FIND CHEMISTRY AND ATTRACTION. I AM IMPRESSED BY INTELLIGENCE AND A SENSE OF HUMOR. ONE THING IS FOR SURE: YOU WILL NEVER BE BORED IN MY COMPANY. I AM VERY ENTERTAINING, CULTURED AND HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR.

  • Lai

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Ok, hello there, I am Rita. I am a new RN graduate. I work currently as LPN for a hospice company, but now I can move on after state boards and work as an RN in a different part of nursing. Communication and laughter is what life is about to me. I am not asking you to be carrying around one of my stinky old shoes, to charm me, Lord knows I would never be caught dead in some glass shoes, they would hurt my feet, but I show others respect and want the same. I'm here not trying to come in your life and rearrange your furniture and cabinets in your home, or redecorate it, you might think you are at the wrong house leave and I would be sitting there all alone. I want to be a person that you might want to start out slow and get to know one another talk and laugh with each other to build toward the intimacy that adults want to share. Where we know that the other has more substance there that they truly care for one another more than just that roll in the hay. I want to be able to call someone my boyfriend and that they want to call me their girlfriend. So if you are married and looking for a woman to give you what your wife don't I'm not that woman, if you want a woman that is only good when she is convenient for you, then I'm not her either. I'm not a good friends with benefits type person, cause I take offense to being thought of as a last minute thought, I don't want to treat a man that way so wouldn't want them to treat me that way. I'm really a relaxed funny person when you get to know me :)I like to get out amongst people and enjoy life. I have a lot to offer someone. I'm a good cook, I'm a good friend and have a awesome sense of humor. I treat people how I want to be treated. I can talk politics, but some might not like my views because I'm a for the people type person. In other words I lean more to the democratic side...say it whatever you will, but I don't like to see angry little Republican men throwing temper tantrums about things that really don't even make a difference in our society. I say they need to go relax and sing some karaoke, it might help lower their blood pressure. I have 3 grown children, my oldest has a syndrome called Kabuki and she is the happiest person on earth that lives life to the fullest. I like many things and hope one day to find a nice man that likes to get out and enjoy life.What's up with all the men trying to look like the guys off Duck Dynasty? Not good, just saying....lolIf I write something to you doesn't necessarily mean that I think you will write me back, I don't expect some to write back that I know I'm not their cup of tea, but like to recognize when someone has a good profile that they say things that I believe are good and honest what people should hear, or that shows they have a great personality. We all can't like everyone, but I do think I get along with most people...loved it. I think now that I have my passport I will get to see more of the world. Pretty easy going, whatever it takes to meet a nice person out there. I do think though once through the first date, if there is chemistry a nice second date to get to know each other is hop in the car and go for a long ride talking to one another and stop somewhere fun to eat, or some event along the way.

  • Kathy

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I miss having my best friend. Life is soooo much better when u have that special someone to share it with. Not interested in a one night stand!! If that is what u want look elsewhere. Something romantic

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