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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yamilet

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love animals. Enjoy sitting by a fire watching it burn and listening to it crackling. Going to the beach. Gardening. Going to the zoo. I love to know that someone cares for me and thinks about me. I enjoy Camping, and sitting around the campfire burning marshmellows, riding bikes, walks, candles, hot tubs, playing in the rain during a thunder storm. Cooking and baking. Love muscle cars, ripped jeans and tank tops. Sunny days laying in the pool with a cold beer.side note: it is weird to me how many guys put pics up of dead animals.. It makes me curious why, is it to show their skills in providing meat incase they can't get it in the grocery store? Just wondering ;)OK I have gotten A LOT of comments because of this.FYI~ I'm not againest a person hunting if that's your thing. I was just wondering why guys put bloody dead animal pics here. Hope that clears it up ;) Let's see, coffee is good, ale perhaps, a walk, or maybe wash my car ?

  • Jeannine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    First and foremost, I am a Mom who is raising my three children, ages 16, 13 & 8. They keep me active and I don't feel my age! Their father is in their life. They are with him each weekend when he is able. They would welcome a new friend into their life, if we do well together as a couple.I am a Social Service Professional who has worked for a United Way/Non-profit Agency for the last 23 years. I am loyal and have staying power! I work a M-F, 9 to 5 schedule. Hoping to find someone with a similar schedule so that we can enjoy each others company. My weekends and evenings are usually free. Just because I'm a fulltime Mom doesn't mean I have no "Me" time. I do, and would like to spend it with you, if we connect!I love to travel. I can't wait to see more of the USA and explore new places around the world! I try to go to a new place once a year. In the winter I take my kids snow tubing in the Poconos. In the summer we go to the lake, beach and boardwalk. I love amusment rides. Not many scare me! LOL Looking forward to having a partner in travel!Music: rock, top 40, R&B, reggae, disco, dance, oldies, blues... I love to go dancing! Don't be shy to lead me out to the dance floor! TV is more of my end of the day wind-down. "Modern Family" is my current favorite citcom. I'm not a sports watcher. I would rather go see a game/sporting event in person.Food: I can cook well, but I do enjoy a good meal out at least once a week. I like most foods and like trying new tastes. While we are talking food, Yes, I am a few extra pounds and am working on that. I resently bought an eliptical that I love! But, it takes time, I will never be a skinny girl because God made me with curves & a womanly shape, not a stick nor a hard side of beef. If that's a problem...sorry, I'm not the girl for you.About the man I am hoping to meet: First of all, I appreciate when a man takes the initiative to let me know if he likes my profile. It shows confidence and that's a major turn on when the man makes the first move! A photo on your profile is a must if you would like a response back. It's only fair, that you can see me. I need to see you as well.I am looking for a man with a positive outlook on life and a passion for living. Doom and gloom about the economy, life and politics are not my bag. A man with a good heart and mind is sooo sexy! Please, please, please: I'm looking for someone who... is not prejudice toward others that are different from themself. A person who is patient and tolerant, because life is stressful enough with things we can't control. Gainfully employed or financially stable is a must. If you feel the need to to use the "F" word or any other curse word in every conversation, then I'm not the one for you. No lies, mental issues, anger issues or addictions. I also have my childrens' well being to consider, when chosing a new friend. FYI: I do not give out my phone # right away. I like to chat, just a bit on here first, to get a true feel for who you are. After that, I will be more than happy to talk to you on the phone. It will be exciting to hear your voice for the first time!:) Thank You & Hope to Hear from You Soon! We could meet at a quiet place, so that we can talk and hear each other. Have a glass of wine. Look into each others eyes as we converse. Relax, have fun, while getting to know each other better.

  • Mattie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    ********PLEASE READ MY WHOLE PROFILE***I looking for someone who is serious about looking for a relationship and is willing to put in the effort to get to know someone. I am not sure what to put on here that would get your attention. How many of you guys actually READ profiles? I have met a few on here and dated a couple times but have yet to make a real connection with anyone on here. Im looking for a serious guy. Someone who isnt going to play head games. But Im not looking for a couch potato. I have finally gotten to the point in my life that my kids have their own lives so now its my turn to have my own. I am looking for great conversation. A bit about me.I never claim to be someone or something Im not. I am sarcastic at times and will call you on your bull. Im a ssbbw. Pear shaped with thick thighs, big rear and a belly. Hey, im honest. Im loving, loyal, passionate, affectionate,a family person and a good listener. I love to kiss, hold hands. I like to play cards and different games and have many friends I play games online with. I also like to go out, listen to music and just have fun in an adult atmosphere. I have my moments where a trip to the zoo with my grandson is great though too. I love barbecues and family events. I love Halloween time and christmas.What physically attracts me? Everyone is attracted to different things in a person. Some prefer thick women, some not ect. So you have no reason to be offended with what I am and am not attracted to. I think what attracts me the most is how you carry yourself. I love a strong, self assured, EMPLOYEED man that protects his woman and respects her. I am only attracted to WHITE men, love the light hair and eyes. He must be a passionate man. I prefer men ***. If you are looking for long conversations about everything or even sometimes nothing then leave me a note. If you like games, movies or just snuggling on the couch then leave me a note. If you are looking for your soulmate and best friend, then leave me a note. Any questions feel free to ask. tell me a bit about yourself when you *** first date would involve alot of talking. Plan it yourself and that will earn you brownie points.One more thing: I am NOT looking for a hookup or a casual encounter. Ifyou arethendontwaste my time. I AM looking for a friends first working on a long term relationship type of thing.If you try and im me on meetville and I dont answer doesnt mean Iam ***, it just means I am either busy or am on my ipod and if thats the case I can not get meetville ims on my ipod.Serious replies only! Hope to hear from you. If im not your match, good luck to you and have a great day!!

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