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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Andriana

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a 49 year old woman who is looking for a man that is fun, energetic, outgoing and honest. I enjoy being active outdoors, I like to cook/bake and cuddle while watching a movie. I have two children(ages 29, ***who do not live with me. I am a hard worker but also enjoy relaxing and having a good time. In the future I hope to find the right person that fulfills my needs. On the first date I would like to meet for coffee or a drink to see how things go. After that I may enjoy going for a walk or seeing a movie.

  • Lai

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Ok, hello there, I am Rita. I am a new RN graduate. I work currently as LPN for a hospice company, but now I can move on after state boards and work as an RN in a different part of nursing. Communication and laughter is what life is about to me. I am not asking you to be carrying around one of my stinky old shoes, to charm me, Lord knows I would never be caught dead in some glass shoes, they would hurt my feet, but I show others respect and want the same. I'm here not trying to come in your life and rearrange your furniture and cabinets in your home, or redecorate it, you might think you are at the wrong house leave and I would be sitting there all alone. I want to be a person that you might want to start out slow and get to know one another talk and laugh with each other to build toward the intimacy that adults want to share. Where we know that the other has more substance there that they truly care for one another more than just that roll in the hay. I want to be able to call someone my boyfriend and that they want to call me their girlfriend. So if you are married and looking for a woman to give you what your wife don't I'm not that woman, if you want a woman that is only good when she is convenient for you, then I'm not her either. I'm not a good friends with benefits type person, cause I take offense to being thought of as a last minute thought, I don't want to treat a man that way so wouldn't want them to treat me that way. I'm really a relaxed funny person when you get to know me :)I like to get out amongst people and enjoy life. I have a lot to offer someone. I'm a good cook, I'm a good friend and have a awesome sense of humor. I treat people how I want to be treated. I can talk politics, but some might not like my views because I'm a for the people type person. In other words I lean more to the democratic side...say it whatever you will, but I don't like to see angry little Republican men throwing temper tantrums about things that really don't even make a difference in our society. I say they need to go relax and sing some karaoke, it might help lower their blood pressure. I have 3 grown children, my oldest has a syndrome called Kabuki and she is the happiest person on earth that lives life to the fullest. I like many things and hope one day to find a nice man that likes to get out and enjoy life.What's up with all the men trying to look like the guys off Duck Dynasty? Not good, just saying....lolIf I write something to you doesn't necessarily mean that I think you will write me back, I don't expect some to write back that I know I'm not their cup of tea, but like to recognize when someone has a good profile that they say things that I believe are good and honest what people should hear, or that shows they have a great personality. We all can't like everyone, but I do think I get along with most people...loved it. I think now that I have my passport I will get to see more of the world. Pretty easy going, whatever it takes to meet a nice person out there. I do think though once through the first date, if there is chemistry a nice second date to get to know each other is hop in the car and go for a long ride talking to one another and stop somewhere fun to eat, or some event along the way.

  • Peninna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Okay. So I've been told that I'm a very sweet, kind, and caring woman. I will love you with all of my heart. Im a bit old fashioned. I love to cuddle, kiss and hold hands. I love to show my affection to you and I hope the same from you. I have a big heart so I tend to fall in love quickly. I don't particularily care for long distant relationships so the closer you are to me, the better the chance we will have in meeting and/or spending more time together. I would like to meet someone that only wants one women in his heart at a time. I don't cheat and I don't expect to be cheated on. I'm a very simple person and I'm just hoping to find someone who wants to love ME. I love social gatherings, but if you feel the need to "hide" me, etc....then I'm not for you. I would like for me to be important part of your life as you would be for me. I prefer you to have a job and a vehicle of some sort. I am old fashioned, so guys....I still expect for your to make the first move and to ask me out on a date (yes its old fashioned) but thats the way I am... I like big men, bald men, mustache or whatever. If your thin thats okay too. I am a Christian, but NOT a perfect christian. Something simple. Starbucks works for me. I like a simple green tea with sweet n low. But it definately needs to be a public place.

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