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Mattie, 46
United States, Illinois, Carlyle

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About Me

********PLEASE READ MY WHOLE PROFILE***I looking for someone who is serious about looking for a relationship and is willing to put in the effort to get to know someone. I am not sure what to put on here that would get your attention. How many of you guys actually READ profiles? I have met a few on here and dated a couple times but have yet to make a real connection with anyone on here. Im looking for a serious guy. Someone who isnt going to play head games. But Im not looking for a couch potato. I have finally gotten to the point in my life that my kids have their own lives so now its my turn to have my own. I am looking for great conversation. A bit about me.I never claim to be someone or something Im not. I am sarcastic at times and will call you on your bull. Im a ssbbw. Pear shaped with thick thighs, big rear and a belly. Hey, im honest. Im loving, loyal, passionate, affectionate,a family person and a good listener. I love to kiss, hold hands. I like to play cards and different games and have many friends I play games online with. I also like to go out, listen to music and just have fun in an adult atmosphere. I have my moments where a trip to the zoo with my grandson is great though too. I love barbecues and family events. I love Halloween time and christmas.What physically attracts me? Everyone is attracted to different things in a person. Some prefer thick women, some not ect. So you have no reason to be offended with what I am and am not attracted to. I think what attracts me the most is how you carry yourself. I love a strong, self assured, EMPLOYEED man that protects his woman and respects her. I am only attracted to WHITE men, love the light hair and eyes. He must be a passionate man. I prefer men ***. If you are looking for long conversations about everything or even sometimes nothing then leave me a note. If you like games, movies or just snuggling on the couch then leave me a note. If you are looking for your soulmate and best friend, then leave me a note. Any questions feel free to ask. tell me a bit about yourself when you *** first date would involve alot of talking. Plan it yourself and that will earn you brownie points.One more thing: I am NOT looking for a hookup or a casual encounter. Ifyou arethendontwaste my time. I AM looking for a friends first working on a long term relationship type of thing.If you try and im me on meetville and I dont answer doesnt mean Iam ***, it just means I am either busy or am on my ipod and if thats the case I can not get meetville ims on my ipod.Serious replies only! Hope to hear from you. If im not your match, good luck to you and have a great day!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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