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Madison, 48
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

Hi! So, ok, I've done this a few times during my single-ness, and I think I know how to ask for what type of guy I'd like to be with :) I am a very nice woman who has a lot to offer. No Nobel Peace prize or anything else as flashy... I'm more of a behind-the-scenes girl who loves to make those few people in her life feel special. I know what I like/want, but it could be said that I'm a people pleaser. As I've gracefully aged, (haha, ok, not really...kicking and screaming!) I think I've got a pretty good handle on things, and can balance my needs with yours ;}I'm strong-minded and independent, but not overbearing. Low- Companionship is an absolute MUST. I like a guy with an opinion about stuff, who's assertive, but not agressive. And guess what? I like that women and men are Different, with their own special roles in life :***A little old school, but with a modern twist is what I would call myself. Here are some specifics that are important to me in a man:1. I don't want to be attached to the end of your week; if you are out here online just goofing around, please keep moving.2. Please be true to your profile...at some point our real selves emerge anyways, so let's not waste each other's time ok?3. Looks are important to me, but also class and style...you need to care about your health to some degree :) If your fave thing to do is go to the gym tho, we'd probably not be the best match. If your fave thing to eat is fried pork rinds, that wouldn't work either! I'm a moderate person.4. It would be awesome if you are 5'10" or less; Sorry; I am a petite woman and it just makes sense :)5. I look young for my age, and it helps if you do too. 6. I don't hang out in bars, and tend to like a guy who enjoys spending time at home or doing other things. Smaller groups of friends is more my thing than big groups and parties. Happy hour a couple times a week and going out on occassion is a lot of fun, as well as dancing once in a while on a Saturday night. 7.Your profile must show me that you have a nice smile and know how to use it!!A couple more things about me ~ I'd love to have a food truck, or run a BnB of some sort, or cook for old people some day. Right now, I do the daily grind...I am responsible, but not stuffy. I have a house that I am buying with my own hard-earned money, and a car :) and 2 cats/one dog. I live in N...just too hard to add another commute to my life! If this sounds good to you, and you are a respectable guy, send me a message! Something like meeting for pizza, coffee, wine, etc. in a fairly quiet place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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