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United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to be a horrible warning! My motto for life : ) I work hard but need to have fun. I like to travel and really want a travel partner. I like going to movies, the theater, and outdoor concerts. I am independent by nature, but enjoy spending time with people who share my interests, or can teach me something and will share their unique interests with me. I also enjoy just staying home and watching a movie; I like documentaries (particularly on interesting people, just watched "I Like Killing Flies" and "Meet the Fokkens" on Netflix), indies, and classic movies. I love to play cards (poker) and board games, too.I'd like to meet someone who is open minded, compassionate, empathetic, and likes art and music (60's, 70's, 80's - love new wave, contemporary, classical, bluegrass, rock, pop, disco - most everything except contemporary country and rap) . I have a quick wit and love to let loose with a belly laugh. I'm very passionate physically, want to touch and be touched, love to sing around the house, and drive at night with my windows down and my music loud! I have changing interests and would like someone who is open to exploring them with me. If you have an interesting hobby, I'd like to hear about it. I absolutely LOVE to dance and would like a partner for this! I love being on the water! But I prefer lakes to the ocean.I am NOT interested in a hookup! I won't sky dive or climb a mountain or bungee jump, and I don't like tall roller coasters. I enjoy sipping a glass of wine (or Capt'n and diet with lime) at an outdoor cafe, walking and camping in the mountains, hanging with the hippies at a Bluegrass festival, or dressing up for an evening at the opera. I recently attended the "Sound of Music Sing Along";Myth Busters" stage show featuring Jamie and Adam - looks like a fun time.My biggest trip thus far was spending a month traveling around Australia in a motor home. Very casual and fun traveling is my style. I have yet to make it to Europe, but plan to go next year. If nothing else, let's be travel partners!! If I sound interesting to you, then let's chat! After a couple of messages, I like to talk on the phone to see if there is truly a mutual interest in meeting. If so, then I'd love to sit outside and sip a drink in a comfortable setting, but I'm also open to suggestions. What would you like to do?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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