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Affrikah, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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Affectionate,, energetic, fun and trustworthy are words those close to me would use to describe me. I am a summer person, I love the beach (LBI) and pool. As a summer baby, I love the water! Yet I enjoy the first snow fall and some cold winter nights...Love to read, travel, and entertaining in as well as out. I love walking, biking and would rather be outside than in the gym but not battling winds or heat...so the gym has to work. I am foodie but also like to eat healthy.Enjoy the theatre and all that NYC has to offer, nothing like the city at Christmas! Equally enjoy hanging with friends and family, or just taking in a quiet night at home if the mood fits.Football on a cool fall day is a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon!As much as I love summer, fall is the season to take in the cool breeze, falling leaves and long drives on the open road.I enjoy a wide range of music and love to sing. I hope one day to take the time and learn to play the guitar or piano. Enjoy spending time with my 22 year old son who lives with me...did I just type 22....seriously don't know where the time went! My new motto.. "fabulous at 50!"I have learned over the past few years without cliche': life is way too short and to take second chances and grab it with 2 hands. So take a chance...Taking pride in personal appearance is important to me. As for first impressions, I look for eyes that speak to me, a smile that lights up our world and hands that show me a sense of strength! Family values, integrity,faith, honesty and sense of humor are qualities that attract me to a man. He should have a heart of gold to match mine. He should have passion and compassion.I am a straight shooter and wear my heart on my sleeve...not always the best quality but will never keep you guessing! Hope to take small steps and see where the road leads ...I am a bit old fashioned and think at times we should still stand behind a man and admire his strength. Remember kiss slowly,forgive quickly and don't live life with regret. Live Love and Laugh... A meet and greet that leaves us both wanting a second date from that amazing first kiss...it's all in the first kiss...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Indian Korean Vietnamese
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