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Zola, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Museums Chinese Indian Vietnamese Animation Mystery Romance
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