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Zola, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Museums Chinese Indian Vietnamese Animation Mystery Romance
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a fun loving woman who love taking care of those I love. I like to be surrounded by family but also like quiet alone time. I think trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a relationship. I try to seek God's will and direction in my life and want to be a good example to my children. My children come first and always will. For a first "blind" date I would probably meet at a restraunt for dinner. A movie would be okay but I would rather be able to talk and get to know each other.

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  • Lauryn from Carlinville | Woman | 50 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Where to start?!Hard working gal...goals to achieve...I'll get there, no doubt in my mind.Hoping you have aspirations and goals of your own.Let's achieve them together.Everything is stronger in two's don't you think?Honest, loyal, passionate, compassionate...is that you?I consider myself to be all of these things.I've been here before, PLEASE...ONLY if you're looking for the same let's chat.Looking for a life partner, someone caring, sharing, someone willing to work hard on their relationship.Someone to laugh with, cry with, someone to hug and kiss you for no reason, someone to hug and kiss you just because you're you! Relationships are not ***but ***.If youv'e gotten this far and agree then send me a message and we can go from there.Happy fishing everyone! :) No Timmies please! Open to anything else we decide on.

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  • Dolly from Carlinville | Woman | 48 years old | Leo
    Dolly

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a 48 year old divorcee, I have 4 children, 21, 16, 12, and 10. I am a dental hygienist, love my work. I am interested in dancing, reading, music (country, motown and 80s) movies, baseball and bike riding. I am looking for a serious relationship eventually, someone who has the same interest as me. I am not just looking for a "one night stand", if I wanted that I would hang out in a bar! I have never been on a dating site before, but I spend alot of time caring for my children and working, therefore I do not go out very often, so meeting people is hard for me. My children are older now and more self sufficient, so yes I do have time to date, but i can't jump in a boat and sail around the world. Also, I have posted a pic of myself, I will not respond to a message if you don't post one as well. I would like a first date of drinks or coffee. Good conversation and fun! Whatever we decide.

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