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Zola, 50

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Quinn

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    . . But a girl can dream, can't she? LOL Just looking for a good man and he doesn't have to ride a Harley or own a horse.I am a good woman who loves life, but hasn't experienced it to the fullest. Something is missing, or rather someone. I do not know what he looks like, what his voice sounds like or what his touch may feel like: However, I do know that he exists. I have been on this web site since late March and wow what an experience it has been. Had my heart broken, met some very interesting characters, and made a friend. But the One I dream of and pray for still remains only within my heart.I love rides in the country, and long walks in the park or on the beach. I love playing darts, but warning my aim really truly bites. I like pool, but play it even worse than I do darts. LOLLooking for my best friend, a man who makes me laugh, holds my hand when I am sad or happy or afraid of the thunderstorm outside or maybe a scary movie. (Yes, when it comes to scary movies I am a big chicken) A man who is honest, loving and romantic would be cool. Not looking for a perfect man, just a nice down to earth good man.I am looking for one good man to share my life with and to enjoy this world God has made. I need a man who wipes away my tears *** causing them.I love God, Jesus, my family, my children & my country. I am also very old school. Not looking into jumping into anything, just want to take it slow and see where it might lead.A relationship is a two-way street. And I want someone who can respect me and treat me well . . . And I will do the same to the man I am with. I want a man who thinks I am beautiful even when I do not have a stitch of makeup on. So maybe I need a blind man! LOL * Do not let my relationship status scare you off, please. I have been separated for almost a year. Though not legally divorced yet, but soon . . . I am a single woman. So I decided to change my relationship status. Separated means a possibility of getting back together, well there is 0% chance of that! Just being honest and hope you understand.I like snuggling on the sofa watching a movie, and nice slow kisses when I am with the right man. I want us to look into each others eyes and see love and when we touch I want to feel that tingle that shoots throughout our bodies. I want to feel that spark like never before. And a lot of music from the 80's.Also not into the bar scene and that is one reason I am on here. Hard to meet “Mister Right” at Wal- LOL I love my children and when I blinked they grew up on me. Sometimes I wish I never blinked, because *** them looking at me like a super hero, now I have to pretend not to know them in public. LOL And Lord forbid if I try to hold their hands or kiss them. I was a stay at home mom by choice and I enjoyed every moment of it. My daughter was born with many health issues including being deaf. So, I had to be not only her mother, but her nurse and care giver too which is in a way is what all mothers do. I do know some American Sign Language, but since she moved out it is somewhat rusty which she thinks is funny. I adore children, so if you have them that is not an issue with me. I am kind of a big kid myself and I guess I always will be. I also love and respect the elderly and I so miss my grandpa and listening to his stories of WWII.I am a girl who prefers jeans to dresses or my truck to a car, unless it is a 67-I am just me . . . I am different . . . Be my reason to get off this crazy web site for good!Sorry this is a book, but I also wrote books for eight years.* And to think I could have written much more . lol Anywhere we can sit, talk and maybe share a laugh or two. We both will know if there is a spark or not...

  • Lavenia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to be a horrible warning! My motto for life : ) I work hard but need to have fun. I like to travel and really want a travel partner. I like going to movies, the theater, and outdoor concerts. I am independent by nature, but enjoy spending time with people who share my interests, or can teach me something and will share their unique interests with me. I also enjoy just staying home and watching a movie; I like documentaries (particularly on interesting people, just watched "I Like Killing Flies" and "Meet the Fokkens" on Netflix), indies, and classic movies. I love to play cards (poker) and board games, too.I'd like to meet someone who is open minded, compassionate, empathetic, and likes art and music (60's, 70's, 80's - love new wave, contemporary, classical, bluegrass, rock, pop, disco - most everything except contemporary country and rap) . I have a quick wit and love to let loose with a belly laugh. I'm very passionate physically, want to touch and be touched, love to sing around the house, and drive at night with my windows down and my music loud! I have changing interests and would like someone who is open to exploring them with me. If you have an interesting hobby, I'd like to hear about it. I absolutely LOVE to dance and would like a partner for this! I love being on the water! But I prefer lakes to the ocean.I am NOT interested in a hookup! I won't sky dive or climb a mountain or bungee jump, and I don't like tall roller coasters. I enjoy sipping a glass of wine (or Capt'n and diet with lime) at an outdoor cafe, walking and camping in the mountains, hanging with the hippies at a Bluegrass festival, or dressing up for an evening at the opera. I recently attended the "Sound of Music Sing Along";Myth Busters" stage show featuring Jamie and Adam - looks like a fun time.My biggest trip thus far was spending a month traveling around Australia in a motor home. Very casual and fun traveling is my style. I have yet to make it to Europe, but plan to go next year. If nothing else, let's be travel partners!! If I sound interesting to you, then let's chat! After a couple of messages, I like to talk on the phone to see if there is truly a mutual interest in meeting. If so, then I'd love to sit outside and sip a drink in a comfortable setting, but I'm also open to suggestions. What would you like to do?

  • Lynelle

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Single female that enjoys the small wonders in everyday life,,looking for that special person that can do the same.... Love reading watching movies, and long walks outdoors!....enjoy all types of music,,,,,love to cook,, working out is also becoming a new interest of mine... I'm a simple country girl that enjoys the simple things and a drama free life.... Have no use for players and drama seekers in my life... Dinner n a movie or just dinner and conversation

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