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Zola, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

I am a mid-westerner at heart; I have an easy smile, gregarious and demur, spirited and sassy. I think you have to love yourself and love life to enjoy the everyday things as well as the spectacular. I live by the golden rule. I have been described and as having a good energy with integrity a wicked sense of humor and a contagious laugh. Kind in heart, compassionate, intelligent, confident and intuitive... open minded, honest, loving and happy. Friends compliment me on being a sweetheart; amusing and playful but also introspective and patient. I am unassuming and approachable, even tempered and looking for the same. I am pretty good at letting things go so I can just relax and enjoy myself… I am happy, not because of my circumstances, but because I choose to be. I believe the best things in life happen when you least expect it; I never take things for granted. I would be pleased to meet someone who possesses self confidence and a bit of attitude with a well rounded intelligence. Someone who can see a movie without falling in love but can recognize when there just may be some potential for something truly great. I like a man with a ready smile… with crinkles and twinkles in the eyes… whose hands can caress, and command, and caress again. I like a man who carries himself in a way that shows that he's comfortable in his own life and ready to enhance yours. I want a man who takes the reins in life, and finds humor in the vagaries of day-to-day living. I value intelligent men who deserve my honesty and trust. I like to spend time with someone mature and responsible with a good amount of life experience and fun thrown in. I love a great sense of humor in others and like to joke around myself. I also appreciate someone who can be playful. I like to have someone to share both the thrilling and mundane with. I’m seeking someone in a similar circumstance as mine; one who has found himself on his own for one reason or another and is seeking a responsible, happy, confident, ethical person to share conversation, go on little adventures and generally spend quality time with. I enjoy the romance of dating (the flirting, the butterflies, flowers and stolen kisses). For me, the perfect relationship is based on respect and friendship with a healthy dose of sexual chemistry. I find it is difficult to be mad at someone I’d rather be kissing. I am looking for love, and I know that starts with a simple hello. Still, love is elusive, as it should be. You can't fall in love with everyone you say hello to. That would be exhausting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Museums Chinese Indian Vietnamese Animation Mystery Romance
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    Looking for: man. In age: 37-65

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm a person that enjoys the company of fun and positive people as I like to smile my way through life.Hanging out with good friends, movies, concerts (prefer the outdoor), beach and the occasional night out are the things I like to do. I work for an Engineering company and am surrounded by men in construction all day. So I dress casual most of the time but do clean up nicely for the occasion as well. :- I have two great children, 11 and 16.I have a pretty wide range when it comes to taste in music.Very young at heart but fully aware of my age, I seem to be attractive to men slightly younger or my age. Divorced over seven years now I've been in the dating world for a while. I can smell the BS pretty quick.So if you are not seriously seeking, please don't waste mine or your time.I know what I want and so should you. Be honest, be yourself, be funny, be polite to me and others, be sure, be confident and most of all, be mine. :-) I like to keep it casual and simple. After all, first comes the meet and hopefully the date will follow.I'm not the princess that needs to be wined and dined. It's nice, but far more important to me is gettingto know you. Having fun while doing so will add a spark for me.

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