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Lakiesha, 48

United States, Illinois, Carlinville

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About Me

Smart, Sassy, quick witted, funny, committed Christian looking for the same. I'm a middle school band/chorus/theater teacher with a degree in vocal performance. I like to try new things and consider myself to be adventurous. I've been to Africa, Germany and Honduras and would love to travel to even more places if given the opportunity. I have a large family and we are all very close. I spend quite a bit of time with my niece and nephew...taking them to all the latest family-friendly movies. We like to go to amusement parks or the gym together. I'm in the process of serious weight loss and have been quite successful up until now, but I still have quite a bit to go before I reach my goal. I mention that because my lifestyle currently includes very healthy eating and regular workouts. I would like to meet someone who will be supportive toward that goal.I'm not looking for someone to complete me, I'm looking for a mate...someone with whom life can be shared. I love to laugh and use humor regularly. I enjoy learning and am driven to know more about just about everything. I'm conservative and Christian, but not judgmental or critical. I believe that to be like Christ is to be loving, period. If you like what you read here, send me a message. I'm trying this site out to see where things go. Life is too short not to share it with someone you love, so let's see if we can live it together.I'm looking for someone who's a Christian, who's honest, ready to be in a relationship leading to marriage, and willing to explore the possibilities that a relationship can offer. I like a man who is attentive, but not smothering. A man who is intelligent, chivalrous, has a great sense of humor, and is a bit old fashioned.I have to be honest and say that I am NOT looking for an ***, chat or pen pal. I am looking to meet someone face to face and develop a real relationship. I would like to exchange a few ***, chat with you and talk with you on the phone a few times and then move to a face to face meeting. I want to look into your eyes as we talk, hold your hand and kiss you if the mood strikes. We can't do that unless we actually transition from this site to a face to face meeting! There's no sense investing a great deal of time and effort developing a false sense of a relationship if we don't ever plan on taking the next step, so what are we waiting for? Let's get started! I'm ready...are you?So, enough about me...what about you? I can promise you that I will be a respectful partner. I will not nag or belittle you. I will be supportive, loving and attentive. You will be well-fed and well-loved. You will not be blasted with all the things that need to be done when you see me after a long day. I will greet you with a hug and a passionate kiss. Your friends and family will love me, and I will reciprocate. I'm open to just about anything, but I believe that the best first dates are informal with an emphasis on really getting to know each other. An afternoon coffee works great...if things work out, the date can turn into dinner! :) If it doesn't, you've got a boost of energy for the rest of your day, and you got to make a new friend. I call that a win-win.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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